Why????????????????

• doghouse837

  2 May 04, 13:50

  i love a ger so much but.............
  she just too afraid to commit in the relationship
  i really dont know what i can do to make her feel that i really love her deeply
  she told me that she sometimes treat me as a sub, i dont mind
  as long as i am in her heart
  i just wish her forget the past
  is it too hard???
• Devil1976

  2 May 04, 21:23

  Originally posted by doghouse837:

  i love a ger so much but.............
  she just too afraid to commit in the relationship
  i really dont know what i can do to make her feel that i really love her deeply
  she told me that she sometimes treat me as a sub, i dont mind
  as long as i am in her heart
  i just wish her forget the past
  is it too hard???

  Forgetting her past or not is really her decision... You can only guide her if she's a willing party..
• WrX_STi

  2 May 04, 22:23

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Forgetting her past or not is really her decision... You can only guide her if she's a willing party..

  agee... x2.. its up to her to commit a r/s. u alreadi did wad u haf to do.
• Yunhaier

  2 May 04, 23:20

  Originally posted by doghouse837:

  i love a ger so much but.............
  she just too afraid to commit in the relationship
  i really dont know what i can do to make her feel that i really love her deeply
  she told me that she sometimes treat me as a sub, i dont mind
  as long as i am in her heart
  i just wish her forget the past
  is it too hard???

  She may not be afraid to commit in the relationship; usually, it is a mixture of many factors that contribute to such decision. Don't ever live in the shadow of somebody else - trust me, if you enter the show as the side cast - you WILL NOT be promoted to a main cast as long as the drama continue to run.
  
  Cheers
• BaByBoY

  3 May 04, 14:55

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  She may not be afraid to commit in the relationship; usually, it is a mixture of many factors that contribute to such decision. Don't ever live in the shadow of somebody else - trust me, if you enter the show as the side cast - you WILL NOT be promoted to a main cast as long as the drama continue to run.
  
  Cheers

  juz another way to see it..
  u can always be ard her when she needs u.. who know`s u may haf been the main cast long ago.. one of the possible reasons is that she`s too afraid to lose u.. thus the mentality of `frens last longer then puppy love` comes to her.. give her some time to put down her liabilities..
• Rexdriver

  3 May 04, 15:13

  Because the sky so high, the bird shit in your eye, and your kar chng y y...
  
  But seriously, almost every guy I know goes through this kinda situation at some early point of their love life and come out of it wiser. The answer is quite simple really. You're not the guy for her, but she enjoys the attention and care you're giving her - put bluntly, you're playing the role of sucker. No offense, just coming straight to the point.