If Ur bf/gf...u love, cant be there for U most time..
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If he/she can't be around for U, whenever U needed him/her .....N it's beginning to feel as if u've drifted...nothing much to say to each other anymore, not miting alot at all....
wat will u do....if he/she still wanna hold on...but it's beginning to drift and U can feel it...wat do U do? -
if the feeling is not there anymore, there is no point in staying. Ask him or her the reason why they still want to hold on...maybe it will be clearer that both parties can no longer find feelings for each other and should move on...
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Tell her how I feel. BUT b4 dat I muz accept da fact dat I cannot change her no matter wat. I have accepted her who whom she is & I WILL respect it. So if dis is part of her char, so be it. Bo eh gong.Originally posted by xking:If he/she can't be around for U, whenever U needed him/her .....N it's beginning to feel as if u've drifted...nothing much to say to each other anymore, not miting alot at all....
wat will u do....if he/she still wanna hold on...but it's beginning to drift and U can feel it...wat do U do?
BUT if she isnt liddis & is doin wat U described, let her noe & see can come to concensus or not. Things can be settled amicably. -
give it a try.. one more chance. talk to each other and put in more effort.
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Then i very chia lat chia lat loh. We are 6200km and 9months apart.
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confirm the drift..
have a heart-heart talk..
if really drifting apart, make a decision to work it out or to let go.. -
Tok it thru is of no use.....
It's like...alot have changed lately......
Last time we can't mit up often at least we still tok to each other and care about each other....
But i felt it had drifted alot....i duno why i felt this way....but it just feels dat way....
It just feels liked she had changed.
And when i tok abt letting go....she was not happy. -
seems like it's a one-sided feeling of drifting..
she dun seems to be drifting
there are definitely highs and lows in a relationship.. can u 2 only enjoy the highs and not survive the lows?
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Hmm...Originally posted by DevilAngel77:seems like it's a one-sided feeling of drifting..
she dun seems to be drifting
there are definitely highs and lows in a relationship.. can u 2 only enjoy the highs and not survive the lows?
identify the changes.. understand the changes and need for changes...
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learn from ding shanben..
he write love letter regardin how much he loves his wife almost twice every week..
and his marriage is still goin strong even thou he`s done something wrong..
i tink wat mostly happened is that u`ve reached the stagnant state of a relationship..
u need to cross over man...
learn how to put some spice in ur love life.. try to give the other party more small surprises and i tink it`ll do the magic..
if not then try to do some kinky stuff..
plan a holiday so that u 2 can er ren shi jie..
if ur`re old enuff, try askin for her hand??
plan ahead.. u won go much wrong.. -
Make the effort to go back to how thgs were when u 1st started : ) When u 1st started, u did all those little thgs like plan somethg special, pamper them in little ways etc, to make them smilez, rite? Do them again...
It takes work & effort to keep the romance alive, but it can be done.
RPOriginally posted by xking:If he/she can't be around for U, whenever U needed him/her .....N it's beginning to feel as if u've drifted...nothing much to say to each other anymore, not miting alot at all....
wat will u do....if he/she still wanna hold on...but it's beginning to drift and U can feel it...wat do U do? -
my boi always not around just when i need him most~ but he will strive to be around.. thats why the gap between us will not be big..
its about how the other party react.. not when he/she's not around~ -
x2 no point to drag since the feeling is no longer thereOriginally posted by icyprincess:if the feeling is not there anymore, there is no point in staying. Ask him or her the reason why they still want to hold on...maybe it will be clearer that both parties can no longer find feelings for each other and should move on... -
i'm not sure how far apart i am from my gf... but i c her ard 14 days in 1 yr.. but we just get along fine...Originally posted by ditzy:Then i very chia lat chia lat loh. We are 6200km and 9months apart. 
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take out old photographs....n tink...
stil gt feelings or nt -
and she's coming here from indo..on the 16th of this month... at last i get to c her again...