Very stressful..can anyone help me...
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I know that u people who after reading this post...will really look down on me...or just think that i am just worring too much or whatever..
but i am really stressed out....
i remember that when i was in bmt...
my ps told me that i have a chance to go to OCS...
then later i cock up a lot of things...then go to RSAF...to become an nsf tech
well i knoe i am pretty ****ed up...
actually...i just wan to go through tis 2 an 1/2 yrs of NS life smoothly...
but then i knoe i kanna armourer...
those kind of dangerous...and need to be careful job...
i have been a careless person my whole life....
today...my superior ask us..some questions about what we have learned...
all my other friends can answer even if they didnt really study or wat...
but i can't for many of the questions...i just like gone into a daze...
mind turn completely blank...
my friends thought that i was veri blur..
signals me the answers..
and give me the kind of reaction that i was veri ****ed up
i was really hurt..really...
felt like crying...though i knoe that it is veri gu niang
it is not the first time ..this kind of things has happen to me...
a lot of times i feel veri hopeless and helpless...felt like i am a good for nothing...
the ns regulars..said that we are diploma holders...but did they ever think that some people just tends to learn slower...and memory not so good...
i really just wan to go through my ns life for the next 1 and 1/2 yrs and just **** off..
but i think i will kanna a lot of extra duties..because i am ****ed up...
i hope that there is someone there who can understand what i am trying to say down here and how am i feeling rite now...
maybe i am really ****ed up...
cannot do simple tasks properly... -
dude...
just pay more attention, and have more confidence in yourself! -
it isn't as easy as what u think u knoe...
i really put in effort to understand what they are trying to say...
but i just can't get it like the rest...
maybe i am slow learner...
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Don't worry. Relax abit, build up your confidence, talk to your peers. When asked, just answer to the best of your ability even it is wrong, you learnt from it.
Heck, it is just 2-2.5 years, must learn to handle, you have long road ahead of you. -
Treat it as a learning experience.
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Even slow learners can pick up their things eventually...? If you're not as good, work doubly hard...Originally posted by yilang_hq:it isn't as easy as what u think u knoe...
i really put in effort to understand what they are trying to say...
but i just can't get it like the rest...
maybe i am slow learner...
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One day, you'll be just like the rest of them....
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talk to your PC abt how u felt lor...maybe they can help u to boost your confidence in another way
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sgboy2004, the Good Boi
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hey, don't be afraid to ask for help.
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Is it cos' you're not interested in the topic that you're being asked on? It's natural to switch off about topic you have no interest on...
so wat if you're a slow learner? what's more important here is that you've the heart to learn....do you?? If the topic doesn't interest you...find ways to make it interesting for yourself la...
C'mon, if you can pull thru 3 yrs of study in poly....it already shows that you're not hopeless in learning. Find someway to conquer your fear...U can make it! -
agreedOriginally posted by on tenterhooks:Is it cos' you're not interested in the topic that you're being asked on? It's natural to switch off about topic you have no interest on...
so wat if you're a slow learner? what's more important here is that you've the heart to learn....do you?? If the topic doesn't interest you...find ways to make it interesting for yourself la...
C'mon, if you can pull thru 3 yrs of study in poly....it already shows that you're not hopeless in learning. Find someway to conquer your fear...U can make it! 
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sgboy2004, the Good Boi
Croco Corner
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I have in my hands two boxes
Which God gave me to hold
He said, "Put all your sorrows in the black,
And all your joys in the gold."
I heeded his words, and in the two boxes
Both my joys and sorrows I store
But though the gold became heavier each day
The black was as light as before.
With curiosity, I opened the black
I wanted to find out why
And I saw, in the base of the box, a hole
Which my sorrows had fallen out by.
I showed the hole to God, and mused aloud,
"I wonder where my sorrows could be."
He smiled a gentle smile at me.
"My child, they're all here with me."
I asked, "God, why give me the boxes,
"Why the gold, and the black with the hole?"
"My child, the gold is for you to count your blessings,
the black is for you to let go."
my gf sent me dis when i was down.....worked woders 4 me.....hoped it does d same 4 u -
Your problem is mentality in NS.Originally posted by yilang_hq:it isn't as easy as what u think u knoe...
i really put in effort to understand what they are trying to say...
but i just can't get it like the rest...
maybe i am slow learner...
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That mindset of yours tell you to FO after 1.5yrs is killing you.
Your effort which you talked about is minimal.
Reject that mindset of yours and determine to give your best shot for just 1.5 - 2yrs.
Plus with all the advices here. You can. -
You are not the only one... NS life is like that at the beginning...wait for another 1/2 a year..then life will change....in fact I hated BMT but 2 1/4 yrs later, I couldnt bear to ORD because of friends I made there....of cause there will be people you cannot get along with..it happens everywhere...but eventually...you will find your group of khakis...thats when army life gets bearable... thats why people alwiz say "Serve and F*** off" u see?
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Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:
[b]I have in my hands two boxes
Which God gave me to hold
He said, "Put all your sorrows in the black,
And all your joys in the gold."
I heeded his words, and in the two boxes
Both my joys and sorrows I store
But though the gold became heavier each day
The black was as light as before.
With curiosity, I opened the black
I wanted to find out why
And I saw, in the base of the box, a hole
Which my sorrows had fallen out by.
I showed the hole to God, and mused aloud,
"I wonder where my sorrows could be."
He smiled a gentle smile at me.
"My child, they're all here with me."
I asked, "God, why give me the boxes,
"Why the gold, and the black with the hole?"
"My child, the gold is for you to count your blessings,
the black is for you to let go."
my gf sent me dis when i was down.....worked woders 4 me.....hoped it does d same 4 u [/b]
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maybe ur greatest problem is dat u simply dun like any of the stuff u r doin now hence the lack of interest leads to the lack of concertration
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well i kanna armskoteman n tat was the most stressful part of my ns life. jus take it when they come. cocking up r part nparcel of life.
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it depends how you see ... i dont like army life .. but what can we do?
we have to go through the 2 1/2 yr of national service to the country.
i learned my way.
now i m a proficient medic in all areas in medical centre.