
i feel that u have no right to change a person character To love some1 is to accept and tolerate all his/her good and bad points To know a person well it may take a long time u may not know him well even u r with him for ten or fifteen years To have a relationship last, both parties need to know hw to give and take. Something we should take it too heart loh it may make u feel happier it's better if u know hw to hold on when to let go!! If u really love him, u no need to have him to be with u as long as he lives happier than u u will feel happy oso Because of him u are willingly to do anything for himOriginally posted by mytwocentsworth:Is love everything? Can two people, who love each other deeply, be commited to each other and tolerate each other for the rest of their lives? What if after sometime you realise you are two very different individuals? Would you rather change yourself for the person you love, so that the relationship lasts, or rather be practical and come out of the relationship, realising that constant disagreements might just strain the relationship and it might end distastefully?
No.Originally posted by mytwocentsworth:Well I am just wondering.. just how much can you do to save a relationship? You can make compromises, but at the end of the day, will you be happy?
Originally posted by mytwocentsworth:Is love everything? Can two people, who love each other deeply, be commited to each other and tolerate each other for the rest of their lives? What if after sometime you realise you are two very different individuals? Would you rather change yourself for the person you love, so that the relationship lasts, or rather be practical and come out of the relationship, realising that constant disagreements might just strain the relationship and it might end distastefully?
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Hmm....Love is like plain water. You can choose to drink Coke, QOO, Root beer, jia jia liang cha, vodka lime or any other different kind of beverages you can think so (Apart from mineral water), but trust me - how many days you can continue drinking without a sip of plain water? You can keep drinking other thingy, but you discover the more you drink, the more fringing` thirsty you get - your throat getting ichy, sometimes dry, sometimes, sticky, sweet, etc.
Eventually you drink one small cup of plain water and it feels good. Ironically, when you keep drinking plain water - it gets mono and your desire will eventually make you drink something else again.
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Love is [b]not everything; in fact it is only something and the real funny thing is that with it, people complain; without it, people also complain.
Love is inter-dependant on other factors of life to make it successful. Good relationship don't just survive like that - there are reasons to it. A good balance of life and love makes the soul wholesome and complete; just like enjoying your favourite beverages and drinking plain water whenever you need, customed to your health, liking and circumstances.
Cheers[/b]
Agreed!!Originally posted by jolin80:i feel that u have no right to change a person character To love some1 is to accept and tolerate all his/her good and bad points To know a person well it may take a long time u may not know him well even u r with him for ten or fifteen years To have a relationship last, both parties need to know hw to give and take. Something we should take it too heart loh it may make u feel happier it's better if u know hw to hold on when to let go!! If u really love him, u no need to have him to be with u as long as he lives happier than u u will feel happy oso Because of him u are willingly to do anything for him
Originally posted by Yunhaier:*clap*clap*Love is like plain water. You can choose to drink Coke, QOO, Root beer, jia jia liang cha, vodka lime or any other different kind of beverages you can think so (Apart from mineral water), but trust me - how many days you can continue drinking without a sip of plain water? You can keep drinking other thingy, but you discover the more you drink, the more fringing` thirsty you get - your throat getting ichy, sometimes dry, sometimes, sticky, sweet, etc.
Eventually you drink one small cup of plain water and it feels good. Ironically, when you keep drinking plain water - it gets mono and your desire will eventually make you drink something else again.
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Love is [b]not everything; in fact it is only something and the real funny thing is that with it, people complain; without it, people also complain.
Love is inter-dependant on other factors of life to make it successful. Good relationship don't just survive like that - there are reasons to it. A good balance of life and love makes the soul wholesome and complete; just like enjoying your favourite beverages and drinking plain water whenever you need, customed to your health, liking and circumstances.
Cheers[/b]
to me, love is not everything. even if there is no love, u still can live with it happily. money is everything...Originally posted by mytwocentsworth:Is love everything? Can two people, who love each other deeply, be commited to each other and tolerate each other for the rest of their lives? What if after sometime you realise you are two very different individuals? Would you rather change yourself for the person you love, so that the relationship lasts, or rather be practical and come out of the relationship, realising that constant disagreements might just strain the relationship and it might end distastefully?
Yes, love is not everything. But money is also not everything. Who doesn't know that money can't buy you love?Originally posted by huy:to me, love is not everything. even if there is no love, u still can live with it happily. money is everything...