ever feel this way?
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my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment. -
Now & then I will feel the same way too.
Well find something interesting to do, find some meaning in life, or just live with it lor.
Cheer up, you will get over it. I know you can!
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well we faceless people r good listeners....
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I think there are people who will feel this way...Originally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment.
I just felt this way not long ago...
but i have a good friend who listens to me talk and i feel better...
i think u need to try to open up to people... if u dont, how do they understand u??? yup sometimes it is the othe rparty that dont wanna understand or know u but u yourself must open up first right??? -
sounds like u are going thru a mild depression. u feel down becos everyone seems to distant away from you, resulting in the loss of social companionship. and without a job, you suddenly find yourself with so much free time, boring time, and most of all, lonely time. this is becos everyone else is working or engaged in their own activities.Originally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment.
a common solution might be to accomplished one thing at a time. this will give u confidence and increased morale to tackle the next issue. the easiest task now seems to be getting a job. work will keep ur mind occupied. getting a job is something rightful you shd be doing for your personal good. just keep trying and u will land a job.
with a job, your mind will be more occupied, and more importantly, stabilized. that puts you in a better frame of mind to settle the other issues, including having a good talk with ur gf as to what is wrong with the relationship.
wish you well....cheers. -
Nice...Originally posted by Imperfect:I think there are people who will feel this way...
I just felt this way not long ago...
but i have a good friend who listens to me talk and i feel better...
i think u need to try to open up to people... if u dont, how do they understand u??? yup sometimes it is the othe rparty that dont wanna understand or know u but u yourself must open up first right???
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totally agreed!Originally posted by Imperfect:I think there are people who will feel this way...
I just felt this way not long ago...
but i have a good friend who listens to me talk and i feel better...
i think u need to try to open up to people... if u dont, how do they understand u??? yup sometimes it is the othe rparty that dont wanna understand or know u but u yourself must open up first right??? -
So my signature is applicable here?Originally posted by Imperfect:I think there are people who will feel this way...
I just felt this way not long ago...
but i have a good friend who listens to me talk and i feel better...
i think u need to try to open up to people... if u dont, how do they understand u??? yup sometimes it is the othe rparty that dont wanna understand or know u but u yourself must open up first right???
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Start off by going down to the employment agencies dude.... maybe you have set your expectations too high?
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You are not alone..
From time to time,i keep having this feeling too...
Feel so lonely and helpless...
Its like in this whole world,there is only me to help myself....
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Perhaps..somehow..u are lost. Lost in a world where u feel u are alone.. nobody is there to actually juz to be there...plus the fact tat u are now jobless..which adds on the stress. Slowly find back the direction in your life..do some positive things..so that ya mind can be more positive. You are what u think.. All the best to u..
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I can be ur fren and u can tok to mi
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u stil haf ur family.Originally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment.
and believe me, sometimes relations require initiative from urself. initiate to rekindle relations with ur frens! -
u can pour out ur misery with us, in some way or another i tink we can help u abit..Originally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment. -
If you can...go on a short trip somewhere..or even at sentosa or something...calm down and think of ways to jump out of this depressive situation...Originally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment.
O, notice you aso mentioned that you no longer see the need to share your problems wif your gf as you think she dun seems to understand? Be mindful of thinking this way, pal. I "smell" trouble there... -
You said you believe in yourself...and that's all you need..yourself..Solitude may seem unappealing but every man is an island, you have to learn and fend for yourself! So fight!!!!!!!!!
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Once in awhile, when stress catches up wif u, it's normal to feel this way. No matter how close u r to ur sibling, there're bound to be thgs u dun tell them, it's juz how thgs r.
Close frens will Not realise tt they're neglecting u, & it's understandable for them to do tt when they're in a r'ship. Many of us wld like to think tt we're always there for our close frens, but the truth is tt sometimes, we can't always be there for them.
Family, work & r'ships take up the bulk of our time. Watever spare time there is, we devote it to our frens, or to our own leisure pursuits, there's Nothg wrong wif tt.
Sometimes we wish we can tok to someone who cares, & it's always gd to haf the support of the 1 u love, family & frens. But it's up to u to open up, & it's up to them how they wanna react. It's a delicate situation...
I can't really tell u how to go abt doing thgs, cosh ur situation may be different from mine. But dropping an SMS or email to a close fren may help. They may Not realise how depressed u r.
RPOriginally posted by blowfish:my life in a mess. Am jobless now and i feel there are no one whom i can talk with. (only this forum) I feel no longer the need to share problems with my gf as she dun seem to try understanding me. My closed friend now drifting away due to work and relationship. Am not closed to my sibling.
I feel lonely. I tell my self to be strong as am weak only temporary. I only believed myself. i feel sad as people i know don really cared about me. what made me worse is i don know why i feel this way.
am weak this very moment.