How to be happier?
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Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything? -
U can't forget ALL. BUT if U willing to LET THINGS GO, U can have a happier life.Originally posted by Hitakogi:Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything?
Na De Qi Yao Fang De Xia. -
never try to forget things.. they are lessons in life....
learn to let go of baggage which have no place in your life... just let go.. it is hard but the first step is to try.. and have a positive outlook
a wise man once said:
"People are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."
he was Abraham Lincolm -
It will go away. It's just a matter of time, weeks, months, years or even tomorrow.
The good thing is you can get to choose. -
Dun worry. It will be over soon, Hitakogi. Talk it over to someone that first comes to your mind or temporarily divert your sadness by doing things you like doing. I was just like you two years ago..n few times before. I am a happy man now.This is a pen.Originally posted by Hitakogi:Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything?
btw, what you despair over? -
i also agree with tat.Originally posted by Parka: It will go away. It's just a matter of time, weeks, months, years or even tomorrow.
The good thing is you can get to choose. -
......Originally posted by Hitakogi:Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything? -
time will heal...
in the mean time, happiness is all in the state of mind.. CHOOSE to be happy
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love.. takes time.. to heal when its hurting so much...Originally posted by Hitakogi:Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything?
time...
and try to live ur life as normal.
distract urself
engage in activities during ur free times.
and most importantly, seek support from friends and family.
good luck. -
dun forget ur memories.. memories are the experience that mould u to be wat u r today.. whether it is good or bad, happy or sad memories, they are your memories... dun give up on them...
old memories will be shelved up in ur mind.. shelved but never forgotten.. sometimes we cant remember.. but it doesn't mean it is not in our mind at all... they are your memories... dun give up on them... -
I used to be sad over a relationship for 2 years... talk to lots of close friends till they complained that I am a broken recorder... Until one day i told myself, I HAD ENUFF!! and from that day on, I choose to be happy everyday....
It's really a choice. do not suppress yr sadness, feel all the sadness you wan to feel. but promise yrself after all these sadness, you are going to reward yrself with heaps of happiness...
sounds complicated hor.... just try it... one of these days you will feel tired feeling sad.... -
haix... =\ mi sad after see u post too..... why O why?~Originally posted by Hitakogi:Why does it feel so hurt?
maybe becoz of those painful memory,
if theres a chance for u too forget everything,
and ofcoz those include happy memory,
but whenever happy memory comes, the later part i could think is sad memory,
would you start all over again,
will u?
im feeling very down now,i know i got to stand up by myself, but i just can't.. i feel like forgetting everything .. start all overagain,
is it possible?
is there any way for me to forget everything? -
very true...... nice thoughts... =)Originally posted by my_name_is_Natasha:I used to be sad over a relationship for 2 years... talk to lots of close friends till they complained that I am a broken recorder... Until one day i told myself, I HAD ENUFF!! and from that day on, I choose to be happy everyday....
It's really a choice. do not suppress yr sadness, feel all the sadness you wan to feel. but promise yrself after all these sadness, you are going to reward yrself with heaps of happiness...
sounds complicated hor.... just try it... one of these days you will feel tired feeling sad.... -
You shld not forget the past... and will not want to eventually they are there for a purpose... lessons for u to look back to in the future...
u will eventually learn to let go... its always difficult... suddenly no ones ard u, suddenly think of the other person and u start to think very negative of yourself...
the first step is always the most difficult... however, once taken, the rest will follow...
always be confident and tell yourself that u can do it...
happiness is of choice of your own... u can choose to feel unhappy or let it go and be happy from now on...
Good luck -
I got it from a book.
You can't let go because you haven't learn, even though you might claim that you have.
I don't know how it is going to apply to you. But it makes sense to me. Take your time to learn from it and when you finally learnt everything, you can let it go as easy as you wish.
Best wishes. -
I like that quote.Originally posted by AdAptAliS:I got it from a book.
You can't let go because you haven't learn, even though you might claim that you have.
I don't know how it is going to apply to you. But it makes sense to me. Take your time to learn from it and when you finally learnt everything, you can let it go as easy as you wish.
Best wishes.
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Same. I like it too.Originally posted by M?square:I like that quote. -
Originally posted by AdAptAliS:Same. I like it too. You're early.
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cant agree more with this quote...Originally posted by AdAptAliS:I got it from a book.
You can't let go because you haven't learn, even though you might claim that you have.
I don't know how it is going to apply to you. But it makes sense to me. Take your time to learn from it and when you finally learnt everything, you can let it go as easy as you wish.
Best wishes. -
in a nutshell, your mind always think faster than your heart feel.Originally posted by AdAptAliS:I got it from a book.
You can't let go because you haven't learn, even though you might claim that you have.
I don't know how it is going to apply to you. But it makes sense to me. Take your time to learn from it and when you finally learnt everything, you can let it go as easy as you wish.
Best wishes.
give your heart TO not KO -
i still cant find a way to be happier..
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Me neither... Cause I'm very happy now. VOriginally posted by WrX_STi:i still cant find a way to be happier..
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same here..
u can try to `kan po hong cheng`
maybe u`ll feel better
i tried.. and to a certain extent i`ve give up on some things..
learn to let go.. it`ll make u feel better at times.. -
The appearance of things change according to the emotions, and thus we see magic and beauty in them, while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves. -- Kahlil Gibran
The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven. --John Milton (1608-1674), Paradise Lost
Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go do that. Because what the world needs are people who have come alive. -- Harold Whitman
Be master of your petty annoyances and conserve your energies for the big, worthwhile things. It isn't the mountain ahead that wears you out - it's the grain of sand in your shoe. -- Robert Service
I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration, I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what
they are capable of becoming. -- Haim Ginott -
to see through it all is not something u can achieve by merely trying.Originally posted by BaByBoY:same here..
u can try to `kan po hong cheng`
maybe u`ll feel better
i tried.. and to a certain extent i`ve give up on some things..
learn to let go.. it`ll make u feel better at times..
u haf to live it, and den realise it.
as much as i think i have managed to let go of certain things in life, they still nag at me from time to time.
and worse still, other things come in to replace wat i haf let go...
mabbe tts the sadness of human life.