Does he like me? How do i be with him?
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hi im 15 yr old boyand i think im gay. there is this boy in my class i really fancy and i was best mates with him just under a year ago and one night at a friend's sleepover we were sleeping on the same futon and we had sex. after that he ignored me and our friendship was ruined. eventually we made up but he refused to talk about it, our friendship carried on but we were no longer best friends. then about six months after that night (which is about 3 months ago) we went to see a film with other friends and we were sitting next to each other and we started rubbing legs together and touching each other but then the film ended and he went home. we never mentioned it again after that and haven't got in the same close position. i really love him and have done for ages but i don't think he feels the same way because he acted so oddly after our sex as though he never wanted to do it again but in the cinema he was really up for it. i can't talk to him about how i feel beacuse i am to nervous and would never pluck up the courage so that is out of the question. i was considering getting my friend to have another sleepover and invite the boy i love and see how it goes but i am all that friendly with him at the moment so it would look suspicious inviting him. what else could i do? (no-one else knows i'm gay so i cant talk to anyone else about my problems)
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You had sex..with another guy..when your 14/15
WTF?
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would tou mind telling me what is ur religion?
god has created us to be a couple like man and woman,
whay this kind of thing has to happenned in this world ?
what do you see in your gay friend ?
i dont understand how man and man can have sex?
what's wrong with this world?
may god bless you -
Since u are still young, maybe u are confused about yr sexuality. It is normal to like someone of the same sex esp. if u are in a all boy's sch. Better refrain from having sex. My advise - Seek professional help early.
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Originally posted by chris_pattz:would tou mind telling me what is ur religion?
god has created us to be a couple like man and woman,
whay this kind of thing has to happenned in this world ?
what do you see in your gay friend ?
i dont understand how man and man can have sex?
what's wrong with this world?
may god bless you
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ok.. ur just 15. maybe u'll just grow out of it, maybe not. see a xin li yi sheng? i'm ok with the same sex relationship but i dun approve u having sex at 15.
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Does your parents know about it?Originally posted by TheGame_HHH:hi im 15 yr old boyand i think im gay. there is this boy in my class i really fancy and i was best mates with him just under a year ago and one night at a friend's sleepover we were sleeping on the same futon and we had sex. after that he ignored me and our friendship was ruined. eventually we made up but he refused to talk about it, our friendship carried on but we were no longer best friends. then about six months after that night (which is about 3 months ago) we went to see a film with other friends and we were sitting next to each other and we started rubbing legs together and touching each other but then the film ended and he went home. we never mentioned it again after that and haven't got in the same close position. i really love him and have done for ages but i don't think he feels the same way because he acted so oddly after our sex as though he never wanted to do it again but in the cinema he was really up for it. i can't talk to him about how i feel beacuse i am to nervous and would never pluck up the courage so that is out of the question. i was considering getting my friend to have another sleepover and invite the boy i love and see how it goes but i am all that friendly with him at the moment so it would look suspicious inviting him. what else could i do? (no-one else knows i'm gay so i cant talk to anyone else about my problems)
Please help me. Thank you
What show did ya watched in the cinema during the event of the 'happening'? Were there other people around? Don't you think the others would mind? -
You might be only 15, but imagine how hurt your parents will be if they found out that you are a gay. You bear to engrave such a grief on their hearts?
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wat on earth is happening to our kids now!?!?!?!
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*me shake head...
So young then juz like that have sex... -
Originally posted by FireIce:wat on earth is happening to our kids now!?!?!?!
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May I ask, what kind of sex?
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better seek professional help.
cannot help u coz this type of feelins u having is veri alien to an average non-gay.
i am just glad that i do not get turned on by the same sex and will not get turned off by women i fancy.
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Think your 'best friend' is as confused as you about each other's sexuality. He felt guilty after each encounter and probably do not like it.Originally posted by TheGame_HHH:...eventually we made up but he refused to talk about it, our friendship carried on but we were no longer best friends....we started rubbing legs together and touching each other but then the film ended and he went home. we never mentioned it again after ..
My advice is to stop this kind of contact, looks like your inclination is stronger than him.
if you are really concern for your friend, do not cause harm to him anymore.
You abnormal never mind, dun make others abnormal.
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gosh..
i mean i`m surprised at all when u haf sex..
i mean he didn`t do anything to stop u??
i tink u should seek professional help asap..
i hope u`ll grow out of it..
or at least u find urself a gf..
i tink it may work for u...
if u really need someone to talk to yet get ur anonymous identity u can look at the 3rd thread in AUNT AGONY, there exist a few useful no to call if u need professional help..
and look out for YUN`s reply.. she is one or our best `AUNT` here.. for the rest of the pranksters plz avoid reading their posts... -
Boys at your age, are normally confused about gender, as well as sexuality issues. It is a normal growing phase which all of us encountered at this age.
But, you made matters worse by having sex with your friend.
Your friend might be as confused as you are, thus avoiding you coz he knows that it is immorally wrong to have sex with the same gender.
I would suggest that you to cool down first, avoid any contact with your friend, and try to think it calmly if you are really gay, or its just an illusion.
You can seek professional advice to further confirm your sexual preferences.
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are you sure you love him? or issit just infatuation? you can try asking him, personally, letter or online. your relationship with him is purely sexual. itz better to clarify ur own feelings to urself 1st before any action. (:
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whoa. and i thought doing it with a gal at this age was bad