why ?????
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this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
do you think about your future?
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl. -
how did you derive your 85%, may i ask?
it sounds like a 10 yr old statistical data, or assumption shd I say.
in most cases, a guy marries a ger cos' he loves her and feels that she's the one he's ready to spend the rest of his life with. he doesn't marry her for her virginity. -
I have to agree with u... We marry the one we wanna spend our rest of our life together...Originally posted by Paperboat:how did you derive your 85%, may i ask?
it sounds like a 10 yr old statistical data, or assumption shd I say.
in most cases, a guy marries a ger cos' he loves her and feels that she's the one he's ready to spend the rest of his life with. he doesn't marry her for her virginity.
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x2Originally posted by Paperboat:how did you derive your 85%, may i ask?
it sounds like a 10 yr old statistical data, or assumption shd I say.
in most cases, a guy marries a ger cos' he loves her and feels that she's the one he's ready to spend the rest of his life with. he doesn't marry her for her virginity.
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brand new or pre-owned..........does it matter so much?
to my old line......
if u V, u have right to find V
if u not V, u dun kpkb want V -
Originally posted by FireIce:if u V, u have right to find V
if u not V, u dun kpkb want V
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Originally posted by chris_pattz:this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
do you think about your future?
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl.
85% guys canÂ’t take it? Where did you get your stats? Do not implicate others for your personal perception for this is definitely incorrect.
Let me ask you one simple question: Can a virgin bride/gf guarantees a fulfilling relationship?
It’s your mindset that limits your growth in maturity and attitude towards Love itself; I am not saying you are wrong, but why squeeze into the left lane and jammed the entire route when you could go straight? Narrow mindedness can only go so far – you don’t see love in relationship; you calculate worth and value through the measurement of your own yardstick.
I cannot say it’s wrong to want a virgin gf/bride if that’s your desire – but what if you don’t have one? Are you going to kill the relationship just because your mind clogs your heart and you see nothing but a piece of membrane? You are at risk to sacrifice a potentially good relationship for you own self-absorb thinking.
I have so many friends, who are exactly like you – in the end even with virgin gf, I seriously don’t see their relationship as fulfilling and evergreen. In fact, because of the mindset, like mind maps – it spider-webbed the effect of their afflicted core and sprout many different conflicts and tension while running the relationship. In simple, it brings other form of problems because you are taught to see things you own way - not love's way.
P.S: Learn to open your mind and see your gf as herself. The more you mind, the more disappointment you get. Love is about compromising – are you willing to adapt and change your mindset if I am telling you that it will be good for you?
Cheers -
Actually in all honesty, marrying a girl who has had sex with other guys is far better than a Virgin!Originally posted by chris_pattz:this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
No need to say anything!!! Just give him a damn good job that will make him weak on his knees! Enuff said!
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
Secretly whisper in his ear, that you're dying to try the doggie style when you're both married!
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl.
Yo Dude, chris_pattz, are you a virgin boy?
I mean, with a virgin girl, you actually have to teach her how to do
a lot of things.
1) How to give a good hand job!
2) How to give a good proper blow job! No teeth! Must have good suction!
3) How to do a quickie!
4) How to scream and shout!
5) Know the various positions!
6) Fondle and caress you properly...
Hey all these takes experience okay, so unless you know how to teach her all these techniques(If you're a Virgin, you would'nt have a clue)!!! Will at least take you a good 6mths to 2yrs and if you have no prior experience whatsoever you will never learn all the techniques!
Very few girls are natural at BJs but with most you have to teach them how to do it, takes lots of practice. With an experienced trained one, she would know exactly what to do to make you cum in less than a min!
Then, comes sex, sex with a virgin which is usually in a missionary position for the 1st few times, usually she will be a dead fish... ie not move much as she would have to tong the pain. So, embedded in her mind is this dead fish position and not move further and since the two of you are V, you will both think that this position is the ONLY position. As if you tried any other position when she is a virgin, chances are pentration will be quite hard.
But, sex with an experienced girl, she will know how to ride, saddle you and scream you to heaven! Plus other things...
Then, comes other thoughts in her mind, would sex with another man be better? She will have these wild thoughts when she is going thru a menopause usually around late 30s and 40s. She might have the curosity to try it out with other guys!
With an experienced and trained one, she would have been there and done that! And she would know what she wants and can easily satisfy your every desire!!!
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Originally posted by chris_pattz:this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
do you think about your future?
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl.
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well, its juz how u place it... i dun mind if my future wife is not a virgin.. aniwae, its hard to find virgin and u haf to accept dat.
its solely depend on one thinking.. love can overcome all boundaries.. so does virgin or not virgin concern u ? -
Originally posted by chris_pattz:
Do you mean you can't take it?
this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
do you think about your future?
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that [b]why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl.
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Is marriage to you, a business deal? -
u might not be e first but when u know from that moment on...u r her one n only n e last....isn't it enuff???
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with all said...
ppl can really say they donmind this and don mind tt..
but when the real situation comes, see who runs away 1st..
ok.. i say here i don feel tt i`ll really mind my wife not V.. but i`ll be ( to a certain extent ) bothered by this very fact..
i mean i don like the idea of my wife bein `touched` b4 by another guy.,..
although its all the past.. nothin can be done now..
anyway if i really love her.. i don tink i`ll reject our marriage due to her V status...
Cheers to all the LOVE in the world.. its the greatest reason to spend ur lifetime w someone.. -
erm... u happen to look and dress like willam hung? second hand?relationship to u is like buying car ah? if u love the gal, she v or not v wun matter...Originally posted by chris_pattz:this topic is dedicated to girl who's having sex before marriage.
do you think about your future?
if your boyfriend asked you whether you're still a virgin or not before your marriage with him, what will you say ?
will you lie to him ? and pretend like you're like the innocent girl who has never done sex ? or you will tell him that you're not a virgin anymore?
85% of guy just can't take it, when his girlfriend not a virgin anymore. he will think that why should i spend my money for my marriage just for a "second hand" girl. -
finding virgin to be your life partner, what can that assure u? can have a fulfilling marriage? she lost to u when marriage and she will be faithful to u? or ur simply wanting a virgin thats all?
its about love not just s3x~
if u love that person, u will want to spend your whole life with him/her, so theres nothing to be fuss over whether shes V or whatever blahhh~
85%? ummz.. how u know?
after marriage, she's lost, and what does that meaning?
just for u and thats for u? only for once? wei dun tell mi ur gonna marry for soo many times, spending ur life finding virgins~
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Originally posted by :Actually in all honesty, marrying a girl who has had sex with other guys is far better than a Virgin!
I mean, with a virgin girl, you actually have to teach her how to do
a lot of things.
1) How to give a good hand job!
2) How to give a good proper blow job! No teeth! Must have good suction!
3) How to do a quickie!
4) How to scream and shout!
5) Know the various positions!
6) Fondle and caress you properly...
Hey all these takes experience okay, so unless you know how to teach her all these techniques(If you're a Virgin, you would'nt have a clue)!!! Will at least take you a good 6mths to 2yrs and if you have no prior experience whatsoever you will never learn all the techniques!
Very few girls are natural at BJs but with most you have to teach them how to do it, takes lots of practice. With an experienced trained one, she would know exactly what to do to make you cum in less than a min!
Then, comes sex, sex with a virgin which is usually in a missionary position for the 1st few times, usually she will be a dead fish... ie not move much as she would have to tong the pain. So, embedded in her mind is this dead fish position and not move further and since the two of you are V, you will both think that this position is the ONLY position. As if you tried any other position when she is a virgin, chances are pentration will be quite hard.
But, sex with an experienced girl, she will know how to ride, saddle you and scream you to heaven! Plus other things...
Then, comes other thoughts in her mind, would sex with another man be better? She will have these wild thoughts when she is going thru a menopause usually around late 30s and 40s. She might have the curosity to try it out with other guys!
With an experienced and trained one, she would have been there and done that! And she would know what she wants and can easily satisfy your every desire!!!
Nice thoughts. -
Lol dudeOriginally posted by :Actually in all honesty, marrying a girl who has had sex with other guys is far better than a Virgin!
I mean, with a virgin girl, you actually have to teach her how to do
a lot of things.
1) How to give a good hand job!
2) How to give a good proper blow job! No teeth! Must have good suction!
3) How to do a quickie!
4) How to scream and shout!
5) Know the various positions!
6) Fondle and caress you properly...
Hey all these takes experience okay, so unless you know how to teach her all these techniques(If you're a Virgin, you would'nt have a clue)!!! Will at least take you a good 6mths to 2yrs and if you have no prior experience whatsoever you will never learn all the techniques!
Very few girls are natural at BJs but with most you have to teach them how to do it, takes lots of practice. With an experienced trained one, she would know exactly what to do to make you cum in less than a min!
Then, comes sex, sex with a virgin which is usually in a missionary position for the 1st few times, usually she will be a dead fish... ie not move much as she would have to tong the pain. So, embedded in her mind is this dead fish position and not move further and since the two of you are V, you will both think that this position is the ONLY position. As if you tried any other position when she is a virgin, chances are pentration will be quite hard.
But, sex with an experienced girl, she will know how to ride, saddle you and scream you to heaven! Plus other things...
Then, comes other thoughts in her mind, would sex with another man be better? She will have these wild thoughts when she is going thru a menopause usually around late 30s and 40s. She might have the curosity to try it out with other guys!
With an experienced and trained one, she would have been there and done that! And she would know what she wants and can easily satisfy your every desire!!!