smoker to help.
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i have a very gd friend since 4years ago,he have been my best friend...and we always share our problem.His like my elder bro.
last year we went to different poly,but still stay in contact pretty close..
however...my best friend is now under influence by his classmates..whom i have feedbacks from my old classmates..in his school that they are heavy smoker..and often roam the streets.. with their bikes..
my best friend decides to join them... until when his mum found out about him taking bike license and stopped him,luckily he was a filial son.
but recently due to him facing failure... to win a girls heart,been poor despite working..
and stress from school work result him to smoke quite alot..
i know he does smoke,but not frequent..
recently i found that he become quite heavy..he smokes almost everyday..not sure how many sticks per day.
but im very disappointed..
he knows ihate smokers.. as a result he kept it from me.
i know that his parents too hate and never like him to smoke,and will disallow him to smoke,im think is not really his fault as he is not the one who buys ciggs..but its always his friends that treat him.
i dont wish to see this best friend of mine having any weak health in the future..
i hope to help me stop smoking before he become a hardcore smoker...
but i got no idea how to..im in desperate for help..please help me and advise me what to do. -
unfortunately, the motivation has to come from him and he has to want to kick the habit.. then others can help him by giving him encouragement...
if he does not want to, nothing on God's Earth can stop him...
btw, i quit because a good friend of mine asked me to... i could not turn down such a heartfelt request
and i never had another bit of tobacco ever since -
to add on:
i just found out he even went to do a ear hole..
he said he want to have a change in life..
he tried smoking about 4years ago with a friend..
but i manage to stopped 1 of them..which is him..
i offered him sweets often to help him kick the habit..
that time was not too difficult as on and off i remind and ask if he still taking ciggs..
now is much tough...
i really got no idea..i feel like breaking down..
im helpless.. -
Bring him to some exhibitions on effects of smoking to your body...Originally posted by lolsuck:to add on:
i just found out he even went to do a ear hole..
he said he want to have a change in life..
he tried smoking about 4years ago with a friend..
but i manage to stopped 1 of them..which is him..
i offered him sweets often to help him kick the habit..
that time was not too difficult as on and off i remind and ask if he still taking ciggs..
now is much tough...
i really got no idea..i feel like breaking down..
im helpless..
It's his body.. Let him decide his own fate and future.. And need to tell him one thing... What's done cannot be undone.. If there's someone who needs to depend on him in the future... If he needs his health back... When he needs his life back... Just tell him...
Just remember today. Cause it's gonna make out who you'll be tomorrow.... -
he muz be grateful he hav a fren who care him so much...Originally posted by lolsuck:i have a very gd friend since 4years ago,he have been my best friend...and we always share our problem.His like my elder bro.
last year we went to different poly,but still stay in contact pretty close..
however...my best friend is now under influence by his classmates..whom i have feedbacks from my old classmates..in his school that they are heavy smoker..and often roam the streets.. with their bikes..
my best friend decides to join them... until when his mum found out about him taking bike license and stopped him,luckily he was a filial son.
but recently due to him facing failure... to win a girls heart,been poor despite working..
and stress from school work result him to smoke quite alot..
i know he does smoke,but not frequent..
recently i found that he become quite heavy..he smokes almost everyday..not sure how many sticks per day.
but im very disappointed..
he knows ihate smokers.. as a result he kept it from me.
i know that his parents too hate and never like him to smoke,and will disallow him to smoke,im think is not really his fault as he is not the one who buys ciggs..but its always his friends that treat him.
i dont wish to see this best friend of mine having any weak health in the future..
i hope to help me stop smoking before he become a hardcore smoker...
but i got no idea how to..im in desperate for help..please help me and advise me what to do.
on 1st hand , u try to spend more time with him lor.. to divert him from smoking.. ask him to pour out his troubles with u... once he see the point of it , i tink he will smoke less each days...
his circles of fren oso hav some impact on him.. juz try ur best. the end of the day oso depend on himself...