Originally posted by lolsuck:
i have a very gd friend since 4years ago,he have been my best friend...and we always share our problem.His like my elder bro.
last year we went to different poly,but still stay in contact pretty close..
however...my best friend is now under influence by his classmates..whom i have feedbacks from my old classmates..in his school that they are heavy smoker..and often roam the streets.. with their bikes..
my best friend decides to join them... until when his mum found out about him taking bike license and stopped him,luckily he was a filial son.
but recently due to him facing failure... to win a girls heart,been poor despite working..
and stress from school work result him to smoke quite alot..
i know he does smoke,but not frequent..
recently i found that he become quite heavy..he smokes almost everyday..not sure how many sticks per day.
but im very disappointed..
he knows ihate smokers.. as a result he kept it from me.
i know that his parents too hate and never like him to smoke,and will disallow him to smoke,im think is not really his fault as he is not the one who buys ciggs..but its always his friends that treat him.
i dont wish to see this best friend of mine having any weak health in the future..
i hope to help me stop smoking before he become a hardcore smoker...
but i got no idea how to..im in desperate for help..please help me and advise me what to do.
he muz be grateful he hav a fren who care him so much...
on 1st hand , u try to spend more time with him lor.. to divert him from smoking.. ask him to pour out his troubles with u... once he see the point of it , i tink he will smoke less each days...
his circles of fren oso hav some impact on him.. juz try ur best. the end of the day oso depend on himself...