Help me..
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Someone whom i love so much broke off with me claiming she can no longer love me like she did.. Anyone here can teach me ways to get over her?
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grieve...
cry...
be depressed..
then let go.. love her enough to let her find her way and happiness in life..
unfortunately, it is the only way... -
go get a hobby or 2...
go out with yr frens...
concentrate on yr studies or wrk...
go find another gal... -
cry buckets
slash ur pillow
throw some vases
wake up tml and be a new man with new aspirations -
i dunno wat to tel you but i did this to myself to make myself not to think bout my 5 yrs ex gf...u can try also...but i dunno if u r lik me or not, always so free......
i stuff myself wid food,den hoot game, but hoot till PS2 spoil le....
go walk in town,find friends to talk..drive around doing nothing,play 0-100km/h..go practice muay thai...do things tat let al ur fustraution out,again stuff myself wid food,billard,disco,ktv,pubs..no drunk no go home...of cos curse al u want...face te computer...do things which u always wan to do but no time...
sat or sun, go sentosa, u will know there is alot of char bor in sg tat u haven see b4...u cannot 4get her completly but u will slowely slowely wun think of her so much...but i tink til today...when i at home cos pocket already a hole liao due to te shopping in sg & malaysia,when alone on bed,tears will still drop...buy some Volka or tarquillar.drink, close ur eyes,a day has pass.....life hv to go on...go sian other gals....
You will find tat u'll change to another person, no day no night,eyes haven auto shut, u wun go sleep,(jus lik now, 8am plus when i post,i jus got home not long ago,whole night no sleep cos eyes haven want to shut)pocket will burn hole,become thinner,dark eyes ring.............den slowely u think urself, "dun hv her also wun die".....u get on wid life, go pamper urself,buy wat u want,make urself more presentable(lik me, last time black hair, now brown hair) go tiong disco,ktv,malaysia,know more ppl, den u will regain ur life.....it works.although u never 4get her....lik me, stil lik a idiot waiting for her knowing no future but at least u hv te sweet memories,te love she once gave you...
Be a better person,1 day, make her regret for dumping you.....
Cheers.....Brother...we on the same boat..... -
there is no standard process for such things.... wat bear say is right... but it come differently for different pple. one thing i suggest u NOT do is to get another gal, do NOT hurt someone else when u can't love. there are enough hurts in this world.
take care..... take comfort that u are not the only one.....
Originally posted by JunMisugi41:Someone whom i love so much broke off with me claiming she can no longer love me like she did.. Anyone here can teach me ways to get over her? -
Try to find things or activities that can get your interest and distract you from your current situation. It helps. Can also come sgforums to look at other interesting topics we are discussing as a form of distractionOriginally posted by JunMisugi41:Someone whom i love so much broke off with me claiming she can no longer love me like she did.. Anyone here can teach me ways to get over her?
In the end, accepting the fact is the one thing a person must do to really get over the other person. The only difference is the time it takes to you to really accept the fact.
Until then, be well. -
x2Originally posted by bo liao:i dunno wat to tel you but i did this to myself to make myself not to think bout my 5 yrs ex gf...u can try also...but i dunno if u r lik me or not, always so free......
i stuff myself wid food,den hoot game, but hoot till PS2 spoil le.... go walk in town,find friends to talk..drive around doing nothing,play 0-100km/h..go practice muay thai...do things tat let al ur fustraution out,again stuff myself wid food,billard,disco,ktv,pubs..no drunk no go home...of cos curse al u want...face te computer...do things which u always wan to do but no time...
sat or sun, go sentosa, u will know there is alot of char bor in sg tat u haven see b4...u cannot 4get her completly but u will slowely slowely wun think of her so much...but i tink til today...when i at home cos pocket already a hole liao due to te shopping in sg & malaysia,when alone on bed,tears will still drop...buy some Volka or tarquillar.drink, close ur eyes,a day has pass.....life hv to go on...go sian other gals....
You will find tat u'll change to another person, no day no night,eyes haven auto shut, u wun go sleep,(jus lik now, 8am plus when i post,i jus got home not long ago,whole night no sleep cos eyes haven want to shut)pocket will burn hole,become thinner,dark eyes ring.............den slowely u think urself, "dun hv her also wun die".....u get on wid life, go pamper urself,buy wat u want,make urself more presentable(lik me, last time black hair, now brown hair) go tiong disco,ktv,malaysia,know more ppl, den u will regain ur life.....it works.although u never 4get her....lik me, stil lik a idiot waiting for her knowing no future but at least u hv te sweet memories,te love she once gave you...
Be a better person,1 day, make her regret for dumping you.....
Cheers.....Brother...we on the same boat.....
when i broke up w my ex, i also found it very hard to accept.. almost cry every night b4 i sleep.. try to stuff myself with my fav choloates, ice cream until i put on 3kg.. keep playing those explosive comp games like need for speed.. blasting the radio out loud and sing along as if i'm in the KTV.. buy or rent a lot of vcd n dvd to keep myself occupied.. go jogging everyday to make myself shag out.. the hardest period to go thru is when i went for bmt.. for the whole seven weeks, every moment i'm thinking abt her.. especially during field camp, when i sleeping in the basha.. flash back of happy n sad memories appear in my mind.. six months le.. although i hv not completely forgotten her, i tell myself dat there will be other girls available when i'm entering uni this august..
most impt is u muz show her dat u can live very well without her.. and make her regret her decision.. -
Originally posted by JunMisugi41:Someone whom i love so much broke off with me claiming she can no longer love me like she did.. Anyone here can teach me ways to get over her?
cry if u wan.. dun feel paiseh.. juz cry it out u will feel better.. tok to ur close fren... dey will do wadeva to make u feel better. drink and drunk ur sorrows.. (not recommended) but i did.. hang out till u tired den go home immed slp.. no nid tink.. wakes up nxt day sequence same.. -
Consider every one of us lucky, can share & discuss in this forum, at least u know ya not alone.
There are even more broken hearts out there suffering in pain, because they keep things to themselves. (if can take it is ok lah)
Actually bo liao is not so bo liao after all, wow can do so many things... some are quite good suggestion.
Getting over it can be quite tough... but what most important also to find out if possible, ask urself WHY she left u, sometimes u maybe surprise & feel better that it happened.
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I'm getting over it.. I thank everybody for their advises.. It help so much.. I shouldnt let anything of yesterday hold me back.. Thanks everybody really.