she told me...
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her feelings for me are mostly gone...
lost n bewildered.
haha haha.
donno wat to do le...
how i wish those times we spent together will juz keep repeating itself...
at least i noe i happy during tat time...very happy... -
hmm.... at least u have got memories?Originally posted by bladez87:her feelings for me are mostly gone...
lost n bewildered.
haha haha.
donno wat to do le...
how i wish those times we spent together will juz keep repeating itself...
at least i noe i happy during tat time...very happy... -
Bro, i suggest u move on n forget about all that. Pointless lah... I remember ur earlier thread. Juz let it go, and move on. Dun dwell on the past. Those were happy moments while it lasted. Learn from it n move on. U gonna get only more sadder if u keep asking urself why this n that... In R/S, sometimes, there are no logical ans.
Accept that n move on. Then u'll feel better -
yea.. i think u shld move on into a new phase of life.. every relationship = new knowledge aquired not juz for the next relationship but as well as lessons in life..
and be glad.. at least u haf got memories.... -
best memories u've gain.. bewildered no more. move on to life..
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me agree with ^sylvia^...Originally posted by ^sylvia^:best memories u've gain.. bewildered no more. move on to life..
No point looking back, when there's no one...
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Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:me agree with ^sylvia^...
No point looking back, when there's no one... 
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hmm... y u blush??Originally posted by ^sylvia^: 
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The blush part is the break off, followed by Mr Green to mean get on wif life...right sylvia?Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:hmm... y u blush?? -
troy : wrong la
dj_shadow : wink wink cos u agree with mi , blush cos i wink too much at u.. greenie face cos i find all this smileys real crappy and farni.. -
Re-read your thread on Sad love Story.
And digest those advices which was given to you.
Learn from this experience.
Remember. There's a world that's waiting for you.
Cheers -
I am in the same suitation as you friend. She said the same thing to me the same as what you heard from the gal you like.
" I never want to be with you" and "The feelings for you are mostly gone".
She told me i have given her pressure and making her choose quickly. I got nothing to say. Indeed i have given her much pressure. Too much... I've not only hurt her. I have also hurt myself.
Pain, hurt, sad i know you will feel it all now. Relax, take a deep breath, find friends talk to, etc...
I can tell you, I'm still do feel hurt and pain now but somehow or rather, it's becoming part of me and i still love her.
It will take some time for you now to reach a stage of "peacefulness with pain". Slow down, relax, cry if you want to.
You love her, i think you should try to slow down alot on your actions. Let her be and stand by herside.
One of my past experience : During my young days, there was this girl who told me that she and i will never be together, i was sad and hurt but things took a turn a few months later: She told me she liked me.
In love, everything is un-predictable.
Do things with your heart, feel it with your heart, be happy with what you do.
Relax, take a deep breath and take a slow walk, enjoy the air
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unknowingly...
i pressurized her...
wat can i do now...
still lost...
still confused...
how to accept...
kong ji si se, se ji si kong
started like no started
no started like started
so in end did we start?
she told me she might b changing course to avoid me.
y change course...?still will meet de.
she wan to b frenz with me...yet i cant b frenz...
inside me...i got a feeling she said it bcos she wan me to totally give up on her...whether truth or lie...i choose to believe her...n take it as she no more feelings for me le...
what m i to do now... -
Brother... relax lah....sometime facts R jus cruel.....some females heart can jus change lik tat....also dunno why...but try to go on lor...no choice, dun force her, it may turn out worst...
Long Pain "BU RU" Short Pain....jus lik my ex, 5 yrs, den she disappear...i also lan lan...think for urself...it may be super heart pain, but tats life, learn from it,carry on wid life,den let things go automatic lor. who knows, scally she come back lea after a while when she regret wat she hv done.....
"Ta Bu Yao Ni, Jui Dang Zer Ta Mei You Zhi Ger De Dao Ni De Ai..." -
Keep yourself occupied so u don't think so much. Spend time with your family & friends. Accept that the relationship has ended, learn from it. Also remember it is not your fault, it takes 2 to carry on a relationship. Do not be bitter, it is better that it ended than being misled & wasting your time. Learn to leave the past behind. Make new friends, do new things, pamper yourself. Once u learn to be independent, then look for a new relationship
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hi bladez,Originally posted by bladez87:unknowingly...
i pressurized her...
wat can i do now...
still lost...
still confused...
how to accept...
what m i to do now...
very simple. all you need to do is listen, listen and listen. -
Posted on 4 May:Originally posted by bladez87:her feelings for me are mostly gone...
lost n bewildered.
haha haha.
donno wat to do le...
how i wish those times we spent together will juz keep repeating itself...
at least i noe i happy during tat time...very happy...First, too many things are rushing in - she cannot handle it emotionally. You met her for the first time and you told her that you like her and she actually felt the same as well - things are going too hasty. She needed space and time; therefore ex will definitely be used to buy some time for consideration.
You are like a rushing wind, this relationship will likely to be intense. Continue in this speed, at this current strength, you will see the passion dying down later in the future.
Why?
You wanted her so badly, then competiting against her ex - this put unneccessary pressure on her, which ultimately kills seduction. You enter into a relationship with her, it will be difficult for you to substain the first 9 months relationship, furthermore she is spolit for choices - you are merely one option.
You gain much insights spirtually and emotionally.
Cheers -
well.. look ahead. happy times leave it as memories...Originally posted by bladez87:her feelings for me are mostly gone...
lost n bewildered.
haha haha.
donno wat to do le...
how i wish those times we spent together will juz keep repeating itself...
at least i noe i happy during tat time...very happy...
cheer on dude.. -
Yea bro.. I'm going through this too..
Just stop dwelling over it and start moving on.. Its hard i know but there's no point moaning and groaning, time wont wait for you. Take some time to cry everything out if you want to, but make sure your tears are of relief and not despair.
True love will fall on you some day where however you run, it wont get away. -
What to do?
Get over her and get on with life. -
A little quote: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
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make an effort to get her back..
if it doesn't work out,
move on wif life....