Sensitive issue ..advice please

• Aulf

  29 May 04, 11:59

  I think fetishes exist in everyone, juz like dat dark corner of the mind dat most pple haf, quite normal ... its the nature and extent of the fetish that varies ... perhaps you can persuade him 2 share his fetishes with you & if possible you cld participate in it as well ... couples should learn 2 share their thoughts & fantasies, explore and do things together ... that's wat makes co-habiting fun & excitin ...
• chguy

  29 May 04, 18:50

  alamak...dont ask him to share fetish..say say, he wants the galfriend to have sex operation pulak..
• parn

  29 May 04, 22:16

  Originally posted by soulsista:

  Need some advice
  My hands shake as i write this quickly while my b/f is out
  
  I was out yesterday and I know that my b/f was surfing the web all day and surfing porn but not just any porn sites. This is really disgusting fetish stuff and it hasent been the first time I have caught him but only caught him in the act by accidently checking his history of pages. I saw him deleting his history before i asked to check my email last night - damn I'm not that stupid. Maybe he thinks I am????
  
  He has backed away from having sex with me BUT CAN SURF THAT CRAP!!! I don't know how to bring it up with him! I know he chats online all night but I don't know who he chats with or what he looks at! Should I not worry - that he's only getting off on website porn or is this serioius enough for me to question him about.
  
  I found that he was looking up sites of gals with males parts - IS HE GAY??
  
  Seriously I feel sick about it and can't deny this anymore
  
  Help
  
  Should I confront him or let it rest (I know I can't)
  
  Thanks

  Hmm....I'm quite positive that your bf don't like you anymore. Maybe he already find you sian liao. Okie...look around for better straight guys and be prepared to get dumped or dump him.
  
  I do not know if you bf is gayed liao. But he does seems to have a very twisted fetish hidden deeply in the bottom of his mind.
  
  Good luck.
• Parka

  29 May 04, 22:19

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  1) HE TOO BORED
  2) HE IS A TIKO PEK
  3) HE PURPOSELY WANA ATTRACT UR ATTENTION
  4) HE IS SICK
  5) HE IS GAY
  6) HIS FREN SEND HIM TIS LINKS FRM EMAIL JUS CURIOUS THEN CLICK TIO ....GAM GAM HO U SAW TAT...
  7) HE CURIOUS ON MALE PARTS ON WOMAN.
  
  SO WAT U MUS DO:
  
  ->GO ASK HIM AND TOK IT OUT....

  8. He's a guy.
• ^MaRcUs^

  2 Jun 04, 12:06

  I think it will be really tough to ask u leave him..
  u gers...very softhearted..
  thats why often get hurt...