'There are no absolute answers to love.'
Indeed is very true.
When two person comes together, they wished for the best and a lasting relationship. Fortunate for those who found their half, that they could spend their life together it they breathe their last.
And unfortunate for those who allowed love to slip past.
Regrets and pain...we experienced.
I find it a irony in life. And at this age of 24 only(?).
'Love is to Live, the only reason to live is love.'
It took me almost all my life to try believing in the ideal kind of love and today.
I've tried, then deluded, and tried again....a cynicism cycle in human maybe?
I conclude again that i live this life to love.
Because there's nothing more exhilarating, more important, and nothing makes more sense then to have found someone whom you could have gave your life to.
Sometimes i thought if anything such as 'a mistake in choice/made the wrong choice' in context of Love...
-Unless one is being cheated by a cheater/con-man.
-Unless one is suffering from ability to make sound decisions.
-Unless one is emotionally blind.
If we are sound minded and able bodied.
It could have never been deemed as mistakes.
Those are 'mistakes' are infact LESSONs.
We made 'mistakes' and was taught to look for answers about love, about the other half.
To our disappointments....
We didn't see answers....
If allowed to reflect onto ourselves, we learnt not answers but LESSONs.
Men were not made to fully comprehend the depths of LOVE.
Men were made to live it out.
In my humble opinion, in the movie 'Something's Gotta Give'
Jack Nicholson found the answer(about life-partner) in Diane Keaton....and the break up was a lesson which led him to understand Love.
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I have this flash animation to share.
It doesn't have any morale to it, only cheesy, lovey dovey storyline.
This production has brought many memories back to my mind.
I was especially touched by the 4th Episode.
There was a certain script which hit me hard, a very heavy statement personally.
Hence derived to those thoughts above.
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