I seek advice and help thanks
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I don't know if this is suppose to be those typical stories around in the web, but I constantly need to seek help.
This involves not only myself and the girl I like, and of course another 2 person.
On a certain ocassion/outing, I met this girl from the forum with another forumite. She don't belong to the very pretty type of girl, but apparently she is attractive enough to gain my attention. Mature and sweet looking, however she is attached.
Even though I know about her status, still, I wish to know more about her. However I have no chance at all, only through icq, that's where I can get to chat with her.
I believe she knows about how I felt for her through our frequent chat, till somehow somewhere I get to know that there is another competitor! I really freak out! Despite her current status, I, however, hope to get our friendship further and this guy now appear and hinder my plan! Ouch! Moreover he is such a strong rival, and he is trying to go all the way for her!
(Haiz) What should I do? -
GIVE UP.Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:I don't know if this is suppose to be those typical stories around in the web, but I constantly need to seek help.
This involves not only myself and the girl I like, and of course another 2 person.
On a certain ocassion/outing, I met this girl from the forum with another forumite. She don't belong to the very pretty type of girl, but apparently she is attractive enough to gain my attention. Mature and sweet looking, however she is attached.
Even though I know about her status, still, I wish to know more about her. However I have no chance at all, only through icq, that's where I can get to chat with her.
I believe she knows about how I felt for her through our frequent chat, till somehow somewhere I get to know that there is another competitor! I really freak out! Despite her current status, I, however, hope to get our friendship further and this guy now appear and hinder my plan! Ouch! Moreover he is such a strong rival, and he is trying to go all the way for her!
(Haiz) What should I do? -
One is lonely,
Two's a company,
Three's a crowd,
Four's? A marketplace?
hmm...
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can i join in???? more ppl jio more fun right??
can i have her icq no.? -
>kpo mode turn on<
who huh? -
why?Originally posted by Devil1976:GIVE UP. -
Ermm... meaning whatOriginally posted by donjng:One is lonely,
Two's a company,
Three's a crowd,
Four's? A marketplace?
hmm... 
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Sorry you can'tOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):can i join in???? more ppl jio more fun right??
can i have her icq no.?
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can i not answer?Originally posted by audlenelee:>kpo mode turn on<
who huh? -
What do you want to hear from us?
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Seriously, why should you be bothered who your new, strong rival is?
It doesn't make any difference!
If the girl you like, is feeling satisfied with her bf in her current relationship, there won't be any changes to the status quo! Only an unsatisfied relationship will you see one dumping an old for a new one, or breakups...
So, dun think so much... -
Should I proceed further from what I'm at now?Originally posted by M©+square:What do you want to hear from us?
But how?
best, teach me how to gain victory! -
I'm not if she is real happy or just plain obligation to her relationship.Originally posted by donjng:Seriously, why should you be bothered who your new, strong rival is?
It doesn't make any difference!
If the girl you like, is feeling satisfied with her bf in her current relationship, there won't be any changes to the status quo! Only an unsatisfied relationship will you see one dumping an old for a new one, or breakups...
So, dun think so much...
But to me I see there is much more I can provide her than her present bf -
Teach you how to create CHAOS for everybody..? Then perhaps we would have better business here in AA?Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:Should I proceed further from what I'm at now?
But how?
best, teach me how to gain victory!
The girl would post here... Her bf would post here... Your rival would post here... -
u disgust me.
you're jealous of others and you want help....
you should work out your own victory....
you disgust me.
you intend to break up others and you're asking for help.
and you don't want any other competitors.
selfish. i pity her if she decide to be with you.
you disgust me.
if you think you should compete with her current bf for her hand, then you shouldn't be jealous of the other competitor.
you disgust me.
you treated her like an item, you are probably lusting for her. I dont think you even loved her.
you disgust me,
you come here not in agony. you seek ways to undermine and overthrow them instead for help to get out of some pitiful situations.
and again. you disgust me. you are selfish, undesirable. -
And there'll be much more that other guys can provide for her than you can... Seriously, things usually don't work this way...Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:I'm not if she is real happy or just plain obligation to her relationship.
But to me I see there is much more I can provide her than her present bf
What's 'victory' without meaning? -
Personal: My last ex was in this scenario and there are other guys who thought they could provide more then i do.Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:I'm not if she is real happy or just plain obligation to her relationship.
But to me I see there is much more I can provide her than her present bf
Well.
Objective: If you can subject her to think that you're the only one whom she can turn to and no longer her bf.
The rest too evil liaoz.
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I'm just going for what I want to persue
How evil can that be? -
Well it's evil enough to have the thought of snatching another person's gf.Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:I'm just going for what I want to persue
How evil can that be?
The next thing is, i agree with Nelstar. -
personally, i second donjing's comment.
as an admirer, all u ought to do is to express your admiration to her and leave her to decide the rest.
the rival part and her current bf is outta the equation.
ps: no one is in the position to judge if a couple should breakup except the couple themselves. -
Wah Nelstarr..so fierce and straightforward...Originally posted by Nelstar:u disgust me.
you're jealous of others and you want help....
you should work out your own victory....
you disgust me.
you intend to break up others and you're asking for help.
and you don't want any other competitors.
selfish. i pity her if she decide to be with you.
you disgust me.
if you think you should compete with her current bf for her hand, then you shouldn't be jealous of the other competitor.
you disgust me.
you treated her like an item, you are probably lusting for her. I dont think you even loved her.
you disgust me,
you come here not in agony. you seek ways to undermine and overthrow them instead for help to get out of some pitiful situations.
and again. you disgust me. you are selfish, undesirable.
My advice is, since she is attached, leave her alone..if she is not attached, maybe you can try to compete... -
the problem is not about attached or not. I personally think it's right to give everyone a chance.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Wah Nelstarr..so fierce and straightforward...
My advice is, since she is attached, leave her alone..if she is not attached, maybe you can try to compete...
But I don't like the way he posts and to post inside this topic as if he really seemed to be in agony.
Competition is healthy as long as you don't intentionally harm another's reputation or threaten other parties.
But to request aid for this is wrong. -
i think u could be over-reacting.
he could be seeking help to outdo his rival, but at least he has not state it explicitly, yet. on the other hand, he could be seeking advices on how to sort out the emotional mess in him.
meanwhile, just let him know what is the right way of judging the situation before he commit the so-called "evil intention". -
LOL it won't be strange if I over-react since i'm unusual?Originally posted by www:i think u could be over-reacting.
he could be seeking help to outdo his rival, but at least he has not state it explicitly, yet. on the other hand, he could be seeking advices on how to sort out the emotional mess in him.
meanwhile, just let him know what is the right way of judging the situation before he commit the so-called "evil intention".
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Yah...I agreed with Nelstar. I will never help a person like you to go after a s.l.u.t like her. Got bf already still wanna chat with horny guys like you. Worse still...you are not the only guy!Originally posted by Meeeeeeee:I don't know if this is suppose to be those typical stories around in the web, but I constantly need to seek help.
This involves not only myself and the girl I like, and of course another 2 person.
On a certain ocassion/outing, I met this girl from the forum with another forumite. She don't belong to the very pretty type of girl, but apparently she is attractive enough to gain my attention. Mature and sweet looking, however she is attached.
Even though I know about her status, still, I wish to know more about her. However I have no chance at all, only through icq, that's where I can get to chat with her.
I believe she knows about how I felt for her through our frequent chat, till somehow somewhere I get to know that there is another competitor! I really freak out! Despite her current status, I, however, hope to get our friendship further and this guy now appear and hinder my plan! Ouch! Moreover he is such a strong rival, and he is trying to go all the way for her!
(Haiz) What should I do?
Hehehe...Nelstar...is your avatar Kate Winslet? What happened to Ultraman?