Friends/Respect...what r they?
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what r friends for when they stab u in yur back and treat u like tissue paper?
Respect is respect meaning when u do everything,your parents control u in everything and force u to understand them,in that case whats life worth living for? -
true friends are there to help you when you're down, and parents are there to guide you and love you, but they often end up over-doing it.
i don't have any true friends, and my parents.. never been guiding, more like the other way round. so.. in the past it feels rather hollow at times, like, why don't i have a role model or person to guide me, like everyone else. why don't i have people whom i can confide in, to lead me, things like that. for example, im feeling down now, who can i complain to? can oni act normally lor.
if you can't find any reason to live for, than live for yourself first, but never to the extreme, moderation is the key to a happy life. -
I don't know,sometimes I don't trust anyone,I feel like rebeling against my parents and run away from homeOriginally posted by gaoyue:true friends are there to help you when you're down, and parents are there to guide you and love you, but they often end up over-doing it.
i don't have any true friends, and my parents.. never been guiding, more like the other way round. so.. in the past it feels rather hollow at times, like, why don't i have a role model or person to guide me, like everyone else. why don't i have people whom i can confide in, to lead me, things like that. for example, im feeling down now, who can i complain to? can oni act normally lor.
if you can't find any reason to live for, than live for yourself first, but never to the extreme, moderation is the key to a happy life. -
well, if you start thinking for yourself in clear headed manner, you'll probably come to these conclusions:Originally posted by StarPuppy:I don't know,sometimes I don't trust anyone,I feel like rebeling against my parents and run away from home
1. you cannot dun trust anyone, but you can dun trust people with important things. i mean, if your friend pang seh you for lunch, that is small matters what, not a big deal. but when your friend cheat you of 1000 dollars, than its big deal le.
whether you like it or not, you have to have fun and thats what friends are for, at least casual friends.
2. you should also understand that rebeling from parents, overdoing it will not help, although you should say no when you should, its not point argueing everything down to the details.
same thing, small things dun argue, but big things you can learn to say no, you insist because you know what you are doing. when young, i used to argue on small things, but some time over, its really pointless, so smile and ren.
and running away from home is not economical. lol, so don't even bother trying, why seek even more trouble. -
are you the runaway puppy with d embedded hp in this starhub advert?Originally posted by StarPuppy:I don't know,sometimes I don't trust anyone,I feel like rebeling against my parents and run away from home
trust always starts with you. it's like learning to walk.dun tell me u super baby who never fell down when u learn to walk.
dun swallow the "hp", even when ur parents may tried to call u...coz u can't talk to them if it's inside ur body. whatever it is, pick up the "hp" n talk to them or/and ur frens. -
when your young.. friends stands huge stage in your life.. when they started to leave you out.. u will be sad? something will prick into ur heart..
its diff when your older.. trust mi..
time will change your thinkings.. time will fade these..
guai guai hor. sylvia jie sayang sayang!
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I have learnt the hard way that the only person u can depend on is urself. So build up that person inside u. Make it strong such that u can depend on it alone. Of course I have frens, but what's really the definition of frens? Give ur so called close frens a stronger reason to leave u, betray u n they will. It's only human...
So who can u trust then? Urself... Unfortunately, many pple live their lives dependant on frens n how pple see them. Be smart, be pragmatic. Depend on urself, n dun bother running away. U have no money... Try to settle problems amicably..
Cheers -
Friends got so many types:
The main types are:
1)guy/gal friends
2)bf/gf
3)9-5 friends
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i try to help and advise my friends whenever i can thought, even if i can't depend on anyone else, that doesn't mean i must let people suffer the same fate.
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Respect is something which you earn... It doesn't exist naturally.. But of course, you would have to understand that it's not always applicable to everyone.. Just like not all humans practise humanity...Originally posted by StarPuppy:what r friends for when they stab u in yur back and treat u like tissue paper?
Respect is respect meaning when u do everything,your parents control u in everything and force u to understand them,in that case whats life worth living for?
And understand.. Though respect may be of a certain value in life... It may not always be the main reason to live for....