Needy guy...
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The reasons i broke up with my ex are mainly because I FELT that she simply has too many commitments...
She wouldn't meet me on most sat ( the only day i was rely free cause i was in the army then..) cause she had to be with her friends..
After abt 1 year of being single, i met another gal recently. Things were fine at 1st until i realised she has no plans for me on most of her sat, she is very outgoing & has a very hectic schedule etc
I know it's usually the Gal to make such complaints... " My BF would rather watch soccer at home than to .."
Thas why i feel so F** sissy needy..
I always felt envious of my guys who seem to have devoted GF; and my gal frens who seem so involved with their BF..
is there anything wrong with me??? i know its usually the guy who feels his GF wants too much of his time etc.. its as though a role reversal in my case
Twice i faced the same problem... its as though Heaven is trying to deliver me a lesson abt relationship, but i CAN't seem to grasp anything. -
wat can mi say...mi no gf
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double post on board?
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sorry for the duplicate posting.. how do i remove it?Originally posted by xiao_eeyore:double post on board? -
sorry for the duplicate posting.. how do i remove it?Originally posted by xiao_eeyore:double post on board? -
only the moderator of this forum can delete or edit threads... but i doubt there is a function to delete a particular post...just leave itOriginally posted by Infernal Affairs:sorry for the duplicate posting.. how do i remove it?
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Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:The reasons i broke up with my ex are mainly because I FELT that she simply has too many commitments...
She wouldn't meet me on most sat ( the only day i was rely free cause i was in the army then..) cause she had to be with her friends..
After abt 1 year of being single, i met another gal recently. Things were fine at 1st until i realised she has no plans for me on most of her sat, she is very outgoing & has a very hectic schedule etc
I know it's usually the Gal to make such complaints... " My BF would rather watch soccer at home than to .."
Thas why i feel so F** sissy needy..
I always felt envious of my guys who seem to have devoted GF; and my gal frens who seem so involved with their BF..
is there anything wrong with me??? i know its usually the guy who feels his GF wants too much of his time etc.. its as though a role reversal in my case
Twice i faced the same problem... its as though Heaven is trying to deliver me a lesson abt relationship, but i CAN't seem to grasp anything.
You met someone that isn't suitable for you, in terms of personality and mindsets.
Under astrology, you are could be attracted to these qualities, but it rarely brings harmony, most of the time - it brings lessons. You failed to discern the following lesson, thus the explaination of repeating the cycle with similiar scenario.
P.S: What you like to eat, may not be healthy for you - the person you may fall for, may not be suitable for you.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:I always felt envious of my guys who seem to have devoted GF; and my gal frens who seem so involved with their BF..
is there anything wrong with me??? i know its usually the guy who feels his GF wants too much of his time etc.. its as though a role reversal in my case
Twice i faced the same problem... its as though Heaven is trying to deliver me a lesson abt relationship, but i CAN't seem to grasp anything.
Are u single? maybe being single for too long or having just broken up,there is a need or jealousy of your GF being with you
No Explanation,Nautral Causes..maybe its u been hurt too many times.
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Try not to be so needy cos u will scare the girls away. It depends on the girl's personality. Some are very independent & want 'space' to do their own thing. Not all girls welcome so much attention, some will get irritated by yr constant calls & SMS.
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This is possessive...
U have a possivessive nature...
God bless ur gf.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Hmm... You met someone that isn't suitable for you, in terms of personality and mindsets.
Under astrology, you are could be attracted to these qualities, but it rarely brings harmony, most of the time - it brings lessons. You failed to discern the following lesson, thus the explaination of repeating the cycle with similiar scenario.
P.S: [b]What you like to eat, may not be healthy for you - the person you may fall for, may not be suitable for you.
Cheers[/b]
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possessiveOriginally posted by no_speeding:This is possessive...
U have a possivessive nature...
God bless ur gf. 
care to elaborate?
Honestly, i dun see myself as possessive as i nv question or limit her friendships or anythk... i know she has many guy frens etc, but i jus kept quiet.
But to give me time on sat or other impt day is , well, the only thk i ask for. & i am willing to give much more to her. -
I dun bombarbed her with constant calls or msgs.Originally posted by gerrykoh:Try not to be so needy cos u will scare the girls away. It depends on the girl's personality. Some are very independent & want 'space' to do their own thing. Not all girls welcome so much attention, some will get irritated by yr constant calls & SMS. -
i think he not been needy...
pls if his gf cant spare a though for him, then who will.
some more the only sat she don take time off to meet him..
this can only said one thing...
you not that impt to her..
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priorities of one changes...
if that someone loves you a great deal, she will commit more to you. If she doesn't, move on (last resort though). -
buey hiu her for at least a few days, blow hot n cold, see hw she reacts, if she has the slightest trace that she loves you she will react and ask whats wrong, and if ya feeling lonely becoz of what she does she better spend more time wif u...tell her this isnt one sided thing u know? it takes 2 hands to clap, if u can be there for her when she needs u, why cant she do the same? if she cant then she isnt committed to the r/s at all or is to immature to handle a relationship...Dump her arse i say!Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:I dun bombarbed her with constant calls or msgs. -
Got 1 day where i nv call or msg her for e whole day.. busy with some thks.. then she called me at nite, askin hw come i nv call or msg her..Originally posted by L@gSoN:buey hiu her for at least a few days, blow hot n cold, see hw she reacts, if she has the slightest trace that she loves you she will react and ask whats wrong, and if ya feeling lonely becoz of what she does she better spend more time wif u...tell her this isnt one sided thing u know? it takes 2 hands to clap, if u can be there for her when she needs u, why cant she do the same? if she cant then she isnt committed to the r/s at all or is to immature to handle a relationship...Dump her arse i say!
Actually i feel veri lousy... as though i can't balance my relationship with my life.
If i commit myself to her, i'm afraid i'll overdo it & appear Needy..
If not, then i like to rely concentrate on living my own life & forget abt all these relationships...
True, love brings with it happiness not found elsewhere, but it is also a source of emotional troubles...
Haiz Zi Gu Duo Qing Kong Yu Heng, Ci Hen Mian Mian Wu JUe Qi -
she can wait until at nite b4 calling u thats how much u mean to her. Try not to take the r/s too seriously, she could be juz playin ard. and it the B word pops up it wouldnt hurt u too badly if u had earlier taken on a lighter attitude. try not to make the r/s too real or too heavy which ever way u wanna call it. As ur gf, she should play her part as well and not expect to be pampered non-stop while not having to do anything in return. in the meantime i would go do some hobbies which u nvr found the time to do since u got a gf. catch up wif old frenz, expand ur social circle n not limit urself 2 u n ur gf...it might sound selfish...but heck, gals aint the only ones who have feelings...guys are human too, and if u put ur heart and soul into a r/s wif a gal, i think she should do the same, otherwise itsOriginally posted by Infernal Affairs:Got 1 day where i nv call or msg her for e whole day.. busy with some thks.. then she called me at nite, askin hw come i nv call or msg her..
Actually i feel veri lousy... as though i can't balance my relationship with my life.
If i commit myself to her, i'm afraid i'll overdo it & appear Needy..
If not, then i like to rely concentrate on living my own life & forget abt all these relationships...
True, love brings with it happiness not found elsewhere, but it is also a source of emotional troubles...
Haiz Zi Gu Duo Qing Kong Yu Heng, Ci Hen Mian Mian Wu JUe Qi
HASTA LA VISTA BABY! -
take 2 to clap....
Am somehow like yr situation, but it really up to u. Do you really love her ....
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Originally posted by L@gSoN:
i like the way u put it.. haha.. thanx
she can wait until at nite b4 calling u thats how much u mean to her. Try not to take the r/s too seriously, she could be juz playin ard. and it the B word pops up it wouldnt hurt u too badly if u had earlier taken on a lighter attitude. try not to make the r/s too real or too heavy which ever way u wanna call it. As ur gf, she should play her part as well and not expect to be pampered non-stop while not having to do anything in return. in the meantime i would go do some hobbies which u nvr found the time to do since u got a gf. catch up wif old frenz, expand ur social circle n not limit urself 2 u n ur gf...it might sound selfish...but heck, gals aint the only ones who have feelings...guys are human too, and if u put ur heart and soul into a r/s wif a gal, i think she should do the same, otherwise its
[b]HASTA LA VISTA BABY![/b]
anyway the forum or anywher else is always filled with stories of the gals feelins' neglected by the guys
even in my own life, seen how some of my guys played ard the feelins of gals who like them, have a GF only for sex etc..
So when a gals laments abt her problems with r/s, she is usually very sympathised..
Jus like to point out that guys also get hurt at times... i am not some SNAG (Sensitive New age guy), but jus feel the gals i met so far rely like not regards for my feelins..
Honestly, i think i not too bad... average lookin, gt study, gt a bit of money, willing to take care of my gal & take responsibility, dun rely expect "Much" in return... dun know why she treat me like that.. -
No prob.Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:i like the way u put it.. haha.. thanx
anyway the forum or anywher else is always filled with stories of the gals feelins' neglected by the guys
even in my own life, seen how some of my guys played ard the feelins of gals who like them, have a GF only for sex etc..
So when a gals laments abt her problems with r/s, she is usually very sympathised..
Jus like to point out that guys also get hurt at times... i am not some SNAG (Sensitive New age guy), but jus feel the gals i met so far rely like not regards for my feelins..
Honestly, i think i not too bad... average lookin, gt study, gt a bit of money, willing to take care of my gal & take responsibility, dun rely expect "Much" in return... dun know why she treat me like that..
Glad to see that I helped somehow, anyway, also ask yourself this, have all lines of communication between you and your gf been used. She might have her own side of her story which she might not want to trouble u with. Hence her attitude. And if all else fails then you might consider the dreaded B word (which I think nobody ever wants) Tell ur gf what exactly you want out of this relationship. Try to work things out, I¡¯m sure things will work out.
All the best!
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Thanx anyway pal .. cheersOriginally posted by L@gSoN:No prob.
Glad to see that I helped somehow, anyway, also ask yourself this, have all lines of communication between you and your gf been used. She might have her own side of her story which she might not want to trouble u with. Hence her attitude. And if all else fails then you might consider the dreaded B word (which I think nobody ever wants) Tell ur gf what exactly you want out of this relationship. Try to work things out, I¡¯m sure things will work out.
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good luck cant give much advice..
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Same scenario? care to share ur story.. mayb i can offer some helpOriginally posted by blowfish:good luck cant give much advice..
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It happened to me once, so i guess the best to do this is to return how she treats you..
At least she asks you why u din call her manz..My ex couldn't be bothered with me even if i was dead..Haha!
But what i really recommend is to bring it out and talk..Takes courage but well everything does..