they r all ur assumptions...i presume....its actually u who think too much...nt only will trouble u, mabe even losing chances tt will never come by again...Originally posted by m.c.king:Just for clarification, the friend is a gal and I'm a guy.
afaik, I don't remember anything unusual or more than meets the eyes. Just plain friendship that's all. And what I've said was what had happened, nothing extra in the background.
The problem now is when trying to contact her again after so long is how not to appear as if I've an ulterior motive for doing so, so that she'll be more comfortable replying emails back to me. Whe it comes to dealing with friends of opposite sex, this is always a problem, scared she will mis-interprete and think too much.
Btw, I don't have her contact number, only her email address as already stated.
they r all ur assumptions...i presume....its actually u who think too much...nt only will trouble u, mabe even losing chances tt will never come by again...Originally posted by m.c.king:Just for clarification, the friend is a gal and I'm a guy.
afaik, I don't remember anything unusual or more than meets the eyes. Just plain friendship that's all. And what I've said was what had happened, nothing extra in the background.
The problem now is when trying to contact her again after so long is how not to appear as if I've an ulterior motive for doing so, so that she'll be more comfortable replying emails back to me. Whe it comes to dealing with friends of opposite sex, this is always a problem, scared she will mis-interprete and think too much.
Btw, I don't have her contact number, only her email address as already stated.
Originally posted by m.c.king:She just replied my email.
She was very cheerful and easy-going and said she in fact didn't see me and is not a petty person who would resent the fact that I didn't go up to her. And she asked about me and told me her latest updates.
The fact is that she doesn't check her email very often and I got her reply only 1 week and I thought she was snubbing me.
So the incident has been cleared up.
Hmm....do you do that to every friend?Originally posted by m.c.king:She just replied my email.
She was very cheerful and easy-going and said she in fact didn't see me and is not a petty person who would resent the fact that I didn't go up to her. And she asked about me and told me her latest updates.
The fact is that she doesn't check her email very often and I got her reply only 1 week and I thought she was snubbing me.
So the incident has been cleared up.
I've done it on a few occassions to other friends as well, like those from secondary school and poly who have lost touch for a few years etc.Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....do you do that to every friend?
Or only to her?