love or be loved??

• parn

  14 Jun 04, 00:14

  Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:

  Theres no true love exist anymore... I dun believe in true love in this era. So dun search for true love, search for ways to earn more cash, money if u r a guy. This is important factor to a long term relationship n marriage.

  True love still exists in this world...and I can assure you that, just that it will be very difficult to find. People are forced to pick somebody to love because of various personal reasons. Just need to make sure your love is not a forced love, which is very common in Singapore...do you really love your partner?
  
  
• Devil1976

  14 Jun 04, 01:18

  Originally posted by *genie*:

  Will you search for your true love, someone u loves very much?? or will you juz settled for a person who loves you more than you do??
  In other words, will you rather be the person who loves or be loved??

  To love and be loved... Either that or neither....
• Devil1976

  14 Jun 04, 01:19

  Originally posted by the_don:
  [b]Fudge Tunnel Version [/b]

  
• yeebas

  14 Jun 04, 11:04

  I believe that if the opposite end doesn't love you the way you do, it will be painful. However, it will be heavenly if both sides love each other very much regardless of what type of love is it.
  To have a choice to love is perhaps the greatest type of love for it is plainly motivated by the objective itself rather than the feeling itself.
  Well, it is a rather broad area to touch on.So freaking difficult to explain. =S
• <sk>

  14 Jun 04, 11:14

  Originally posted by yeebas:

  I believe that if the opposite end doesn't love you the way you do, it will be painful. However, it will be heavenly if both sides love each other very much regardless of what type of love is it.
  To have a choice to love is perhaps the greatest type of love for it is plainly motivated by the objective itself rather than the feeling itself.
  Well, it is a rather broad area to touch on.So freaking difficult to explain. =S

  Well said actually...
  
  If we all could have the best of both worlds, we would all want someone we love and loves us back just as much... ie you can love and be loved at the same time...
  
  but often this is'nt the case, usually one side loves one more than the other...