Always busy..
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Sorry to bother, but for those know my story of my "always busy" GF, pls help..
JUs talk to her jus nw, & she told me she will be packed every single day next week. i jus failed 1 subject for my exams also, so after her this, i said " what a day.. ... i failed my subject"
She replied with a slightly surprised tone " Chey.. i tod u angry cause i can't go out with u next week"
Dun know if i over sensitive, but its as though she liked my disappointed response everytime she tells me she's busy etc.
WTF rite?? Then what response she expected frm me... this is not e 1st time she tell me this" i xxxx not free, xx also not free" nonsense. Even when i sounded disappointed, she did not do anythk for me..
I rely disappointed hw she treated me... does she rely love me, or enjoy having someone there for her to disappoint frm time to time??!!
Sorry for my emotional tone.. feeling veri bad now -
Forget abt her.. she is not worth wasting time on. go and find a new girl who will share with you in good and bad time
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reply her yes, you're angry and you're down. be very direct, see wus her response.
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she's just using yr disappointment to boast her own idiotic ego la....
some weirdos are like dat.... they feel high and mighty when someone is sad because of them....
mi think you can drop her like a hot iron, if she calls and ask why you never call her... tell her you are beri buzi...
dun orry... you will find a better one... -
Why aren't you voicing your expectations to her???
Now you're allowing others here to advice you to forget about her when you should first settle down certain loopholes in the relationship.
I just felt there's certain injustice here.
But nonetheless. Take care. -
sorry.....Originally posted by M©+square:Why aren't you voicing your expectations to her???
Now you're allowing others here to advice you to forget about her when you should first settle down certain loopholes in the relationship.
I just felt there's certain injustice here.
But nonetheless. Take care.
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Originally posted by my_name_is_Natasha:sorry.....
Cheers cheers. Not pointing onto you.
But i really can't stand all those one liner post from irresponsible people telling thread starters to dump, drop, leave the other party.
Quotes like, 'you can find someone better' when the thread is just about certain dissatisfaction over the other party.
Not like the girl have cheated on him multiple times and done absurd stuff against him.
Unless it's a unhealthy relationship, otherwise...we shouldn't comment hastily.
All relationships have it's own problems and each of it is unique.
Each of it has it's solutions too! Isn't wonderful when we know that the solutions comes from ourselves too?
When we choose to speak and communicate correctly, all problems could be solved!
It could not be solved, only when the other party doesn't want to savage the situation. But then, it could be a good lesson -communication is essential to human relations.
The problem with virtual AA is that, we tend to take sides with the poster without knowing the complete story that triggered one or more misunderstandings.
Hence the injustice.
To Infernal Affairs,
If you really love her. Protect her, i don't know if those (irresponsible)post from others feeds to your ego. But if i'm you. I won't feel good when others have gotten a ill image of my girl.
Trust yourself. If she's really not worth it. Why love her in the first place?
Cheers -
Originally posted by M©+square:
WWWWHHHAAAAAA!!!!! THAT'S ME!!!
Cheers cheers. Not pointing onto you.
But i really can't stand all those one liner post from irresponsible people telling thread starters to dump, drop, leave the other party.
Quotes like, 'you can find someone better' when the thread is just about certain dissatisfaction over the other party.
Not like the girl have cheated on him multiple times and done absurd stuff against him.
Unless it's a unhealthy relationship, otherwise...we shouldn't comment hastily.
All relationships have it's own problems and each of it is unique.
Each of it has it's solutions too! Isn't wonderful when we know that the solutions comes from ourselves too?
When we choose to speak and communicate [b]correctly, all problems could be solved!
It could not be solved, only when the other party doesn't want to savage the situation. But then, it could be a good lesson -communication is essential to human relations.
The problem with virtual AA is that, we tend to take sides with the poster without knowing the complete story that triggered one or more misunderstandings.
Hence the injustice.
To Infernal Affairs,
If you really love her. Protect her, i don't know if those (irresponsible)post from others feeds to your ego. But if i'm you. I won't feel good when others have gotten a ill image of my girl.
Trust yourself. If she's really not worth it. Why love her in the first place?
Cheers
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Originally posted by M©+square:
Thanx for ur sincere advices... i'm stil confused, mayb nd some time to sort things out.
Cheers cheers. Not pointing onto you.
But i really can't stand all those one liner post from irresponsible people telling thread starters to dump, drop, leave the other party.
Quotes like, 'you can find someone better' when the thread is just about certain dissatisfaction over the other party.
Not like the girl have cheated on him multiple times and done absurd stuff against him.
Unless it's a unhealthy relationship, otherwise...we shouldn't comment hastily.
All relationships have it's own problems and each of it is unique.
Each of it has it's solutions too! Isn't wonderful when we know that the solutions comes from ourselves too?
When we choose to speak and communicate [b]correctly, all problems could be solved!
It could not be solved, only when the other party doesn't want to savage the situation. But then, it could be a good lesson -communication is essential to human relations.
The problem with virtual AA is that, we tend to take sides with the poster without knowing the complete story that triggered one or more misunderstandings.
Hence the injustice.
To Infernal Affairs,
If you really love her. Protect her, i don't know if those (irresponsible)post from others feeds to your ego. But if i'm you. I won't feel good when others have gotten a ill image of my girl.
Trust yourself. If she's really not worth it. Why love her in the first place?
Cheers
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Thanx anyway
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Originally posted by M©+square:Why aren't you voicing your expectations to her???
Now you're allowing others here to advice you to forget about her when you should first settle down certain loopholes in the relationship.
I just felt there's certain injustice here.
But nonetheless. Take care.
Short, simple and critical.
Where has the communication gone to? Not asking you to trash things with her and make your relationship miserable - have you gone through a mutual discussion and come to some kind of mutual acceptance and compromise?
Relationship is constant communication - not keep everything to yourself and pour them here instead.
P.S: Are you a Cancer?
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier: Short, simple and critical.
Where has the communication gone to? Not asking you to trash things with her and make your relationship miserable - have you gone through a mutual discussion and come to some kind of mutual acceptance and compromise?
Relationship is constant communication - not keep everything to yourself and pour them here instead.
P.S: Are you a Cancer?
Cheers indeed cancer loves to hide, but it wont be long for it to come out and solve the problem himself..
i feel that its the personality differ, the girl want certain "attention" from the bf... when the bf feel disappointed upon hearing that she is not free when and when, she will feel gd but she nvr know there is a limit to this...
as what they said, a good talk will be better... -
Hmm....less likely a cancer.
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I'm a PiscesOriginally posted by Yunhaier: Short, simple and critical.
Where has the communication gone to? Not asking you to trash things with her and make your relationship miserable - have you gone through a mutual discussion and come to some kind of mutual acceptance and compromise?
Relationship is constant communication - not keep everything to yourself and pour them here instead.
P.S: Are you a Cancer?
Cheers