sorry.....Originally posted by M©+square:Why aren't you voicing your expectations to her???
Now you're allowing others here to advice you to forget about her when you should first settle down certain loopholes in the relationship.
I just felt there's certain injustice here.
But nonetheless. Take care.
Originally posted by my_name_is_Natasha:sorry.....![]()


Originally posted by M©+square:WWWWHHHAAAAAA!!!!! THAT'S ME!!!
Cheers cheers. Not pointing onto you.
But i really can't stand all those one liner post from irresponsible people telling thread starters to dump, drop, leave the other party.
Quotes like, 'you can find someone better' when the thread is just about certain dissatisfaction over the other party.
Not like the girl have cheated on him multiple times and done absurd stuff against him.
Unless it's a unhealthy relationship, otherwise...we shouldn't comment hastily.
All relationships have it's own problems and each of it is unique.
Each of it has it's solutions too! Isn't wonderful when we know that the solutions comes from ourselves too?
When we choose to speak and communicate [b]correctly, all problems could be solved!
It could not be solved, only when the other party doesn't want to savage the situation. But then, it could be a good lesson -communication is essential to human relations.
The problem with virtual AA is that, we tend to take sides with the poster without knowing the complete story that triggered one or more misunderstandings.
Hence the injustice.
To Infernal Affairs,
If you really love her. Protect her, i don't know if those (irresponsible)post from others feeds to your ego. But if i'm you. I won't feel good when others have gotten a ill image of my girl.
Trust yourself. If she's really not worth it. Why love her in the first place?
Cheers
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Originally posted by M©+square:Thanx for ur sincere advices... i'm stil confused, mayb nd some time to sort things out.
Cheers cheers. Not pointing onto you.
But i really can't stand all those one liner post from irresponsible people telling thread starters to dump, drop, leave the other party.
Quotes like, 'you can find someone better' when the thread is just about certain dissatisfaction over the other party.
Not like the girl have cheated on him multiple times and done absurd stuff against him.
Unless it's a unhealthy relationship, otherwise...we shouldn't comment hastily.
All relationships have it's own problems and each of it is unique.
Each of it has it's solutions too! Isn't wonderful when we know that the solutions comes from ourselves too?
When we choose to speak and communicate [b]correctly, all problems could be solved!
It could not be solved, only when the other party doesn't want to savage the situation. But then, it could be a good lesson -communication is essential to human relations.
The problem with virtual AA is that, we tend to take sides with the poster without knowing the complete story that triggered one or more misunderstandings.
Hence the injustice.
To Infernal Affairs,
If you really love her. Protect her, i don't know if those (irresponsible)post from others feeds to your ego. But if i'm you. I won't feel good when others have gotten a ill image of my girl.
Trust yourself. If she's really not worth it. Why love her in the first place?
Cheers
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Originally posted by M©+square:Why aren't you voicing your expectations to her???
Now you're allowing others here to advice you to forget about her when you should first settle down certain loopholes in the relationship.
I just felt there's certain injustice here.
But nonetheless. Take care.
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Short, simple and critical.
Where has the communication gone to? Not asking you to trash things with her and make your relationship miserable - have you gone through a mutual discussion and come to some kind of mutual acceptance and compromise?
Relationship is constant communication - not keep everything to yourself and pour them here instead.
P.S: Are you a Cancer?
Cheers
I'm a PiscesOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Short, simple and critical.
Where has the communication gone to? Not asking you to trash things with her and make your relationship miserable - have you gone through a mutual discussion and come to some kind of mutual acceptance and compromise?
Relationship is constant communication - not keep everything to yourself and pour them here instead.
P.S: Are you a Cancer?
Cheers