kinda confused n need some help...
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i have known this ger for a few years. we were sch mates n we started off as pure frends. during these few years both of us had some one in our hearts. however, both of our relationships didnt last. and she was hurt quite badly when her relationship ended.
right now, i kinda have feelings for her which i dont know why. she isnt really pretty. we went out juz the both of us a few times already but i dont know if she feels anything for me. i dont know if it's appropriate to say shes flirty coz when she goes out wif me she tends to have physical contact wif me quite often. i dont know if she does this to other guys. i have asked her if she likes anyone currently but she says no one. i think its coz her previous relationship really hurts her.
shld i forget abt her n carry on wif my life or let her know tat i have feelings for her?
so confused ..
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do what you think is right, just remember, a person whom you like and the feeling is mutual is rare.
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my advice: stop pondering and go try it out. nothing to lose. don't go for her just bcos of the sex, of cos...
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Physical contact? Don't get excited. You may want to observe how she interacts with other guys.
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physical contact not really means the dirty way. just more contact than normal. anyway thanks to those that post been a great help.
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Originally posted by l0st-s0ul:i have known this ger for a few years. we were sch mates n we started off as pure frends. during these few years both of us had some one in our hearts. however, both of our relationships didnt last. and she was hurt quite badly when her relationship ended.
right now, i kinda have feelings for her which i dont know why. she isnt really pretty. we went out juz the both of us a few times already but i dont know if she feels anything for me. i dont know if it's appropriate to say shes flirty coz when she goes out wif me she tends to have physical contact wif me quite often. i dont know if she does this to other guys. i have asked her if she likes anyone currently but she says no one. i think its coz her previous relationship really hurts her.
shld i forget abt her n carry on wif my life or let her know tat i have feelings for her?
so confused ..
When you wanna chase someone, don't ever lose faith and give up without even hitting the walls.
If you knocked yourself and bleed, probably you have a choice to continue or not (depending on your situations)
If not, chase and hold your tongue about feelings first. No point talk about feelings when the chase is young and raw - MAKE HER FALL FOR YOU before you start tellng her how much you like her unless you plan to say your piece and leave.
You have all the time in the world to prepare and strike before you pop the ultimate question, but once you pop the question, the magic is gone.
P.S: Always chase like you only have one chance to succeed.
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uncle agony's door is always open.... even aftermidnight...Originally posted by Yunhaier:
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Let nature takes its course mainly (with slow luke-warm effect and drop hints in between.).Originally posted by l0st-s0ul:i have known this ger for a few years. we were sch mates n we started off as pure frends. during these few years both of us had some one in our hearts. however, both of our relationships didnt last. and she was hurt quite badly when her relationship ended.
right now, i kinda have feelings for her which i dont know why. she isnt really pretty. we went out juz the both of us a few times already but i dont know if she feels anything for me. i dont know if it's appropriate to say shes flirty coz when she goes out wif me she tends to have physical contact wif me quite often. i dont know if she does this to other guys. i have asked her if she likes anyone currently but she says no one. i think its coz her previous relationship really hurts her.
shld i forget abt her n carry on wif my life or let her know tat i have feelings for her?
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gota take note also....either one or both of u MAY b on d rebound...
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very true...Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:gota take note also....either one or both of u MAY b on d rebound...