% i develope crushes easily %
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u know, crush=u like someone bcos of how he/she looks, etc etc.. basically, really superficial stuffs.
and damn, i develope crushes easily... i just cant seem to forget this gal i've known for about 2mths... everytime a gal who looks really similar to her (whether in tv ad, on the streets, movie, etc), i'll think of her and feel really sad and heart ache.
yea yea, i know what's wrong with me, and what u pple gonna say, but as i've SAID, i know it's a crush and it comes to me easily.
i keep having this...hope in me that someday, i'll get to meet her again and something MIGHT happened. i know it's all my wishful thinking, and i kept telling myself: WAKE UP YOU MISERABLE BASTARD!!!
but hey, i'm sure a lot of you have similar feelings (not the crush part, but the wishful-thinking part, ESPECIALLY in such "relationship" thingy...)
time heals, rite? i guess so, but the prob is i've been waiting for it to happen for the past 6mths.
haha, i'm laughing myself when i'm writing all these....i'm ONE SERIOUS MISERABLE BASTARD...
but what to do? anyone here can help me? please? -
Crushes are part and parcel of life these days. Something we may take for "another one of those things". Its more like a passing phase, something you'll eventually grow out of. No worries.
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i have the same prob.
just think of it like this, there's only 1 person u can fall in love with, but no limit to the amt that u have a crush on. decide on waht u want. sometimes things settle down and u discover somethings abt a person u dont mind in a friend but not as a gf. -
hmmmmm...
Imagine the gal, 10 years later.
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*speechless*Originally posted by Parka: hmmmmm...
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Last time, i also have crush very easily. But after knowing the gal for a period of time, i feel tat she is not the one i wish for. Its only a crush anyway...
I also have a problem last time is i like to flirt with gals no matter whether i like her or not... Sometimes i feel i'm really too much n they tot i like them n in turn i hurt their feeling as i dun have feeling for them... I feel i'm a bastard. -
Originally posted by bismarck:*speechless* somemore...
imagine living with her for
10 years
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erm......for more effect, use pessimistic thoughts. -
err....there's no need to resort to that. most girls arent demons, although some areOriginally posted by Parka: somemore...
imagine living with her for
10 years
20
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50
erm......for more effect, use pessimistic thoughts.
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i flirt with girls too... maybe that's where it starts. tink i shall stop that... but this still hasnt solve my prob, i'm still tinking abt her...Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Last time, i also have crush very easily. But after knowing the gal for a period of time, i feel tat she is not the one i wish for. Its only a crush anyway...
I also have a problem last time is i like to flirt with gals no matter whether i like her or not... Sometimes i feel i'm really too much n they tot i like them n in turn i hurt their feeling as i dun have feeling for them... I feel i'm a bastard. -
Originally posted by Parka: somemore...
imagine living with her for
10 years
20
30
40
50
erm......for more effect, use pessimistic thoughts. -
what if still like..Originally posted by Parka: hmmmmm...
Imagine the gal, 10 years later.
20 years later
30
40
50
den how? hmm.. i dun flirt, the day i do dat will be the day the skies fall on our heads. -
You should learn to be more mature, after tat u wont get crush so easily liao. Don worry lah, ja=uz growing up only lah
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Originally posted by gaoyue:what if still like.. den how? hmm.. i dun flirt, the day i do dat will be the day the skies fall on our heads. Use my second method for more effect.
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Focus on pessimisstic thoughts
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ya.. then u imagine she got married, and had children.. but the children and the husband is not u...Originally posted by Parka: hmmmmm...
Imagine the gal, 10 years later.
20 years later
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Originally posted by shifeng:ya.. then u imagine she got married, and had children.. but the children and the husband is not u... Great! You're using negative thinking positively.
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You and Bladez87 should be good friends.
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FUXOR!!!!Originally posted by shifeng:ya.. then u imagine she got married, and had children.. but the children and the husband is not u... 