need more time?
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when a girl says she need more time to get into a relationship, is it a good sign or is it gonecase?
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Originally posted by thoreldan:when a girl says she need more time to get into a relationship, is it a good sign or is it gonecase?
Truely depends on:
I) situations
II) Events leading to you chase
III) Her personaity
IV) Her attitude towards love.
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Hard to say...
In my cases,all ended up in smoke..
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perhaps u shd wait? u shd know whether does she really mean it by giving her more time? are u patience enuff to wait?
i understand that its not easy... for me, i waited.. for 2 years... and finally she agree to be with me... shes my first gf, and i m her first bf... felt so happy, luckily i really gave her time and waited... but the process is really very tong ku...
so its up for u to judge... -
Is she very young? Maybe she is just being cautious cos some guys wants to go steady immediately. Let her get to know u better & have patience or you will scare her away.
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It really depends.
I'll say 60-40.
60 as in gone case. -
I'd say cannot make it already...but remind you that there's always hope.
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she is saying......now is not the time......perhaps in future......
there is a hope lah........slim hope though..... -
gone case. unless u already go all the way. if not, forget it.Originally posted by thoreldan:when a girl says she need more time to get into a relationship, is it a good sign or is it gonecase? -
what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third partyOriginally posted by jaimeyeo:gone case. unless u already go all the way. if not, forget it.
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Wow...wah...dunnoe what to sae...I also like one girl but she got bf already...so I siam I not the kind to be 3rd party...she seems happy with the guy and I don't think I got chance haha
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it depends on individual.. and the situation when she reply you that..Originally posted by thoreldan:when a girl says she need more time to get into a relationship, is it a good sign or is it gonecase?
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speed things up - sabotage her relationship
Originally posted by thoreldan:what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third party -
Oh..okie...so i see that you are breaking up other people's relationship and you are in agony...although not complete agony, but you are in fact seeking help over here?Originally posted by thoreldan:what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third party 
Go and die lah.
I wish that you will kanna the same thing as her bf right now in the future. Cos she can dump her current bf for you, she can also dump you in the future...for ME.
You really lacks of morals or your parents never teach you? -
fwah!!!
so it's a heng dao duo ai situation.........
but i guess she is doing right.....at least no one leg step 2 boats......
u oso mus think leh.....if in future she found another guy she likes.....then she will break up with u to be with him.......
wat goes ard comes ard hor......
meanwhile, u dun try to poison the bf ok! -
Originally posted by thoreldan:what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third party
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Are you in a hurry? Don't be too quick to jumping into a conclusion... Sometimes it doesn't pay off...Originally posted by parn:Oh..okie...so i see that you are breaking up other people's relationship and you are in agony...although not complete agony, but you are in fact seeking help over here?
Go and die lah.
I wish that you will kanna the same thing as her bf right now in the future. Cos she can dump her current bf for you, she can also dump you in the future...for ME.
You really lacks of morals or your parents never teach you? -
I just want to introduce that bit-cha to my container of bangalas.Originally posted by Devil1976:Are you in a hurry? Don't be too quick to jumping into a conclusion... Sometimes it doesn't pay off... -
You don't even know the situation between the girl and her current bf? Some things ain't so clearly written in black and white...Originally posted by parn:I just want to introduce that bit-cha to my container of bangalas. -
Devil1976, thoreldan admitted being the bad bad third party. So what is your call?Originally posted by thoreldan:what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third party
The girl is going to break up with her current bf to be with thoreldan, so should I see her as a nice goody ger who might be victimised by her bastardly bf and thoreldan is her knight in shinning armour?
If any ger does that to you while she is still your gf, would you still defend for her?
Would very much like to know the reasons behind your compassion for this ger. -
parn, cool down, i never did anything bad to sabotage or do bad things, she felt for me, thats all. Dont tell me once u get a b/f or g/f, it means u definitely have to marry them? I believe that the chemistry between them is dying offOriginally posted by parn:Oh..okie...so i see that you are breaking up other people's relationship and you are in agony...although not complete agony, but you are in fact seeking help over here?
Go and die lah.
I wish that you will kanna the same thing as her bf right now in the future. Cos she can dump her current bf for you, she can also dump you in the future...for ME.
You really lacks of morals or your parents never teach you? -
omg. If such depraved people like you exist, i fear getting into a relationship for fear of being hurt, by having her snatched away by people like you, either now or in nS. lol.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
really got such theory one huh???
fwah!!!
so it's a heng dao duo ai situation.........
but i guess she is doing right.....at least no one leg step 2 boats......
u oso mus think leh.....if in future she found another guy she likes.....then she will break up with u to be with him.......
[b]wat goes ard comes ard hor......
meanwhile, u dun try to poison the bf ok![/b]
oh i think better be careful le me.
I'm very fond of liking gals who are attached, duno y.
My last gf also liddat snatch over one.....
But we never last....haha -
I don't really hold a compassion for this girl. Just that sometimes words are easily spoken...Originally posted by parn:Devil1976, thoreldan admitted being the bad bad third party. So what is your call?
The girl is going to break up with her current bf to be with thoreldan, so should I see her as a nice goody ger who might be victimised by her bastardly bf and thoreldan is her knight in shinning armour?
If any ger does that to you while she is still your gf, would you still defend for her?
Would very much like to know the reasons behind your compassion for this ger.
Thoreldan calls himself a bad 3rd party because he's feeling guilty. If he's totally a bad bastard then it's quite unlikely that he should be feeling that way... In fact, it's often a nicer person who would feel guilty... Though not always the case.
Whatever you like to see of him and her is your perception... But as much as it's easy to think in a certain scenerio and just scold a person off, it don't necessarily in anyway reflects the truth... Afterall, it's just YOUR THINKING...
My gf does that to me? The situation is simple.. Either I'm not good enough for her, and in that case... I'll willing admit my defeat and loss as my incapability... OR if she's really someone whom I've seen wrongly of.. Revealing her true colors... I'll be most happy to let her go... -
Only time would tell...Originally posted by thoreldan:parn, cool down, i never did anything bad to sabotage or do bad things, she felt for me, thats all. Dont tell me once u get a b/f or g/f, it means u definitely have to marry them? I believe that the chemistry between them is dying off