how should i go on from here?
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she probably can make a very good guess that i have feelings for her but since she did not reply to my sms i have no idea what is on her mind. at least i can know that she is not avoiding me on icq
should i try to ask her out and tell her that i like her or should i wait a week or two for everyone to cool down first? -
1) Maybe she dun have hpOriginally posted by simulacrum:she probably can make a very good guess that i have feelings for her but since she did not reply to my sms i have no idea what is on her mind. at least i can know that she is not avoiding me on icq
should i try to ask her out and tell her that i like her or should i wait a week or two for everyone to cool down first?
2) Maybe on icq, its her sis using.
3) Maybe she dun like u.
4) Maybe u should juz find something else to do.
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Never prompt anything if you aren't sure how she feels.. cos you definitely wont get her..Originally posted by simulacrum:she probably can make a very good guess that i have feelings for her but since she did not reply to my sms i have no idea what is on her mind. at least i can know that she is not avoiding me on icq
should i try to ask her out and tell her that i like her or should i wait a week or two for everyone to cool down first?
unless you jus wan to let her know that you like her.. and that's about it..
let things calm down first before you move any further.. since now she doesn't wanna reply your sms.. maybe you should stop for awhile..
Later then maybe you sms or iCQ her again.. ask her out for a chat.. though she knows how you feel towards her.. but jus come out as a friend and have a drink or meal..
try to understand her more.. if you are confident of getting her.. then that is the time where you pop the question out.. if that happens.. there's no turning back.. go for it~!
Cheers..
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Originally posted by no_speeding:
1) Maybe she dun have hp False
2) Maybe on icq, its her sis using. False
3) Maybe she dun like u.Possibly true
4) Maybe u should juz find something else to do. Possibly true -
hi there..thanks a lot for the replyOriginally posted by SunRisE:Never prompt anything if you aren't sure how she feels.. cos you definitely wont get her..
unless you jus wan to let her know that you like her.. and that's about it..
let things calm down first before you move any further.. since now she doesn't wanna reply your sms.. maybe you should stop for awhile..
Later then maybe you sms or iCQ her again.. ask her out for a chat.. though she knows how you feel towards her.. but jus come out as a friend and have a drink or meal..
try to understand her more.. if you are confident of getting her.. then that is the time where you pop the question out.. if that happens.. there's no turning back.. go for it~!
Cheers.. 
actually i had known her for quite some time already..it was only during the past one year that we got closer to each other. we had gone out a few times before...it does not mean anything but at least i think she does not detest me
because i know i had feelings for her and it reaches a stage that i want to tell her but the possibility of losing her as a friend bears down very heavily on my shoulders. it will definitely be easier to remain as a friend but i think i will regret in the future for not telling her...
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she dun like u
stop pestering her
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Like what i say.. if you jus wanna purely tell her that you like her.. then go ahead... after telling her.. can jus say to her.. that you dun mean anything.. you jus wan to voice it out.. cos put it in your heart you feel uneasy.. confirm with her that you both are still friends.. and only jus friends...Originally posted by simulacrum:hi there..thanks a lot for the reply
actually i had known her for quite some time already..it was only during the past one year that we got closer to each other. we had gone out a few times before...it does not mean anything but at least i think she does not detest me
because i know i had feelings for her and it reaches a stage that i want to tell her but the possibility of losing her as a friend bears down very heavily on my shoulders. it will definitely be easier to remain as a friend but i think i will regret in the future for not telling her...
But on the other hand.. if you wan her to be more than jus a friend.. then you have to wait till the iron is hot.. then you strike...
if not.. likewise you say.. you lose in the end... you dun gain anything from it... lose a friend!
So you think about what you really want..
CHeers...