No longer like my friend.

• worried

  23 Jun 04, 01:28

  I've been friends with this girl for 9 years. A few months ago she sent me a txt calling me a bitch. I wasnt her friend because of that but a few days l8r, i was her friend again. Recently, she's been ignoring me. I don't like her nemore and think i should never had made friends with her after the txt. Trouble is, i don't know how to tell her i don't like her and no longer want 2 be her friend. Plz help. I feel so unhappy all the time being her friend.
• I-like-flings(m)

  23 Jun 04, 01:33

  errrr... just tell her straight what u dun like about her and see what her reply lor... if cannot settle then dun be fren lor... but.......personally......
  
  how old are u actually?? for mi.. fren is forever... whether that person is a good or bad fren.. still ur fren lor..cannot dis-own one lor...it's about give and take lor...no one is perfect in this world what..
• worried

  23 Jun 04, 01:35

  I really don't like my friend. Well, used to be my friend. I'm a school kid
• jimbo

  23 Jun 04, 01:36

  sori, kpo a bie. taking bout friendss oonly, right? not bgr hor?
  
• I-like-flings(m)

  23 Jun 04, 01:44

  Originally posted by worried:

  I really don't like my friend. Well, used to be my friend. I'm a school kid

  pri sch??? hehe why u dun like her/him so much now... such got something u still like about her/him right?... talk to her and settle it lah..
• worried

  23 Jun 04, 02:09

  there's nuthin i like bout her and i'm 13. not a primary school kid. and i can't talk to her cos i don't know wot to say
• M©+square

  23 Jun 04, 06:10

  Originally posted by worried:

  there's nuthin i like bout her and i'm 13. not a primary school kid. and i can't talk to her cos i don't know wot to say

  My gawd.....the first post i saw and i guessed the age right! v
• the.raven

  23 Jun 04, 06:33

  Originally posted by worried:

  I've been friends with this girl for 9 years. A few months ago she sent me a txt calling me a bitch. I wasnt her friend because of that but a few days l8r, i was her friend again. Recently, she's been ignoring me. I don't like her nemore and think i should never had made friends with her after the txt. Trouble is, i don't know how to tell her i don't like her and no longer want 2 be her friend. Plz help. I feel so unhappy all the time being her friend.

  huh? if u dun wanna be someones friend, then just ignore each other lor. where got ppl go up to some one and say "hi, I came here to tell you....that I dun wanna be your friend"
• gerrykoh

  23 Jun 04, 10:45

  Friends can outgrow one another. Friends u grow up with may no longer share the same interest. If u find u cannot get along, just ignore her. Don't reply to her SMS & if she asks u out, just say not free. After a while, she will get the hint. U will make new friends as u enter different stages in life, so don't worry!.
• audlenelee

  23 Jun 04, 10:47

  well.. just stop toking to him /her...
• Devil1976

  23 Jun 04, 12:17

  Originally posted by worried:

  there's nuthin i like bout her and i'm 13. not a primary school kid. and i can't talk to her cos i don't know wot to say

  Well... Depends on whether if you're interested to prolong the 'friendship'? If you can either choose to get to know her better and see if anything develops from there, if not? Can just expand on your social circle? At your age, it'll be a good thing to enlarge your socialising...
• Magnus

  23 Jun 04, 16:44

  
  Building friendship with this 'friend' of yours can be tiring and time comsuming.
  
  Move on and get to know other people.
  
  
• <sk>

  23 Jun 04, 16:45

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  errrr... just tell her straight what u dun like about her and see what her reply lor... if cannot settle then dun be fren lor... but.......personally......
  
  how old are u actually?? for mi.. fren is forever... whether that person is a good or bad fren.. still ur fren lor..cannot dis-own one lor...it's about give and take lor...no one is perfect in this world what..

  Hey I-like-flings(m), you're growing to be more sensible...
• Thailand_Hero

  24 Jun 04, 13:02

  when i was 12 i had a friend called billy...one day he called me a slow prick...that afternoon we no more friends...later a week later we become friends again...and we were back to lighting farts and stealing from NTUC.
  
  another time he complain teacher that i smoke. then no more friend again. after school we went to beat up a common enemy of ours and we become friend again.
• sgFish

  24 Jun 04, 17:04

  Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:

  when i was 12 i had a friend called billy...one day he called me a slow prick...that afternoon we no more friends...later a week later we become friends again...and we were back to lighting farts and stealing from NTUC.
  
  another time he complain teacher that i smoke. then no more friend again. after school we went to beat up a common enemy of ours and we become friend again.

  LOL.
  
  worried..i advise you to follow what thailand hero has done..
• I-like-flings(m)

  24 Jun 04, 19:47

  Originally posted by :

  Hey I-like-flings(m), you're growing to be more sensible...

  
• worried

  25 Jun 04, 01:10

  I don't like the girl but we r both friends with this boy. He is leavin our skool at the end of the year so me and the girl r organising a leaving party for him at the end of term. Should i stay friends with her until then, just so the party goes ok?
• men_@_arms

  25 Jun 04, 01:36

  Originally posted by worried:

  I've been friends with this girl for 9 years. A few months ago she sent me a txt calling me a bitch. I wasnt her friend because of that but a few days l8r, i was her friend again. Recently, she's been ignoring me. I don't like her nemore and think i should never had made friends with her after the txt. Trouble is, i don't know how to tell her i don't like her and no longer want 2 be her friend. Plz help. I feel so unhappy all the time being her friend.

  This is confusing like most things here. What did you do to warrant being insulted with vulgarities?
• Devil1976

  25 Jun 04, 13:24

  Originally posted by worried:

  I don't like the girl but we r both friends with this boy. He is leavin our skool at the end of the year so me and the girl r organising a leaving party for him at the end of term. Should i stay friends with her until then, just so the party goes ok?

  Whatever it is, party probably can still go on if you all want it to..? It's just a difference of how it would go on...?
• worried

  25 Jun 04, 23:12

  men_@_arms
  Jane(the girl) was friends with this other girl, Sarah, that always pushed and hit me. I ran off the 1 time and my other friend, Sophie, told me that Jane had said that i deserved it and i was a little bitch. Even tho i hadn't said nething to Sarah. L8r on, i sent her a txt asking her if wot Sophie had said, was true. Then she sent me the bitchy message back. I don't know wot i actually did.