Heartache
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im so down now,feel like shit,how will u feel when u really believe u will have a future wif ur gf/bf,then suddenly just becoz of a minor issue ur partner wants to end the relationship??in the way beginning i told him i was afraid of falling in love wif him,but then he told me not to worry.He said we have a life time together....wat bullshit,we broke up today,he has his reasons,but im just so crushed............losed my self esteem,i hope to get over this as soon as i can
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Your nick is very familiar.
Did you post something about "running light" at gym before? -
u know wat,i dun have the mood to entertain u,im very angry at the moment,im still very shakyOriginally posted by phreak:Your nick is very familiar.
Did you post something about "running light" at gym before? -
vent your frustrations lor...
well, it take a bit of time to cool down... go out of the house or go for a jog to take your mind off for a while.
Join the outings here...i think there is one in the West side 2morrow too...
U can only help yourself, nobody can... take care dear -
sgboy2004 wanna heng dao duo ai isit?
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im just very mad!!!! i really believed him,i really did surrender my feelings for him.......even now as i type all these,im shaking.......
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it happens...
being afraid is good actually... means you're aware of the commitments... but don't let that fear get to you.. fight that fear.. love is worth it
while breakups are traumatic, they happen.. give yourself time to heal, it is NOT your fault.. it is no one's fault...
fault-finding is pointless..
it has happened...
so just take some time to heal, take some time alone... take the time to heal and let the time to wear it away..
hope you'll be well soon
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just take it as: he's not ready... at all.. and somehow, it's better you know now than later...
be angry... rant, rage...
it's part of the process...Originally posted by amuletgurl:im just very mad!!!! i really believed him,i really did surrender my feelings for him.......even now as i type all these,im shaking....... -
Originally posted by FireIce:sgboy2004 wanna heng dao duo ai isit?
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From the very beginning,i told him the relationship just wont work out,i told him that if he does find someone better,by all means do go for her....im just very crushed now!!! im so shocked...im just sitting here infront of the monitor motionlessOriginally posted by the Bear:just take it as: he's not ready... at all.. and somehow, it's better you know now than later...
be angry... rant, rage...
it's part of the process... -
poor girl... maybe both of you were not ready...
it will come as a shock.. again, give it time yah?
i remember when i was so messed up with mine, i was insomniac and almost walked into the path of a bus coz i was seriously hallucinating..
i hope you'll not come to that..
look after yourself.. cry, rant, rage...
and in the future, look back at this and learn from it.. everything and everyday is a learning process...
you'll find someone more deserving of you in the future
someone who will love, cherish and watch over youOriginally posted by amuletgurl:From the very beginning,i told him the relationship just wont work out,i told him that if he does find someone better,by all means do go for her....im just very crushed now!!! im so shocked...im just sitting here infront of the monitor motionless -
What minor issue? What's his reason?Originally posted by amuletgurl:im so down now,feel like shit,how will u feel when u really believe u will have a future wif ur gf/bf,then suddenly just becoz of a minor issue ur partner wants to end the relationship??in the way beginning i told him i was afraid of falling in love wif him,but then he told me not to worry.He said we have a life time together....wat bullshit,we broke up today,he has his reasons,but im just so crushed............losed my self esteem,i hope to get over this as soon as i can
Do not discount the declaration/promise he made to u when u guys started. At that time, I believe he is sincere and really want to make it work.
No relationships are cast in stone. You need to nurture it, make it grow. -
Never ever make promises if you can never ever fulfill it!!! "I Love you forever" "I will never leave you" blah blah.. all these are examples of it.. and when ppl are in love.. they think they will.. but when problems arises.. all these varnished into thin air.. as if.. it was never said b4..Originally posted by amuletgurl:im so down now,feel like shit,how will u feel when u really believe u will have a future wif ur gf/bf,then suddenly just becoz of a minor issue ur partner wants to end the relationship??in the way beginning i told him i was afraid of falling in love wif him,but then he told me not to worry.He said we have a life time together....wat bullshit,we broke up today,he has his reasons,but im just so crushed............losed my self esteem,i hope to get over this as soon as i can
You take his words too serious.. i'm not saying that you cannot believe in what he says.. but there are certain things that are uncertain.. like life time together?? can you ensure that both can do it?? unless you are planning to get married soon.. then maybe that's a different case...
well.. now you have learnt a new lesson in your phrase of life.. jus go on with your life.. you'll soon get over it.. but bear this in mind.. dun be cos of one relationship or one guy like him.. ruin your impression for guys.. or trust in them..
there are many better guys than him... jus tell yourself.. and tell your nest partner.. that.. you cannot promise everything.. cos you are afraid that you might not fulfill it.. or in the end hurt each other.. issit it that worse??
Bring yourself up again.. Prove to him.. that you are not beaten down by him.. you can lead your life without him..
If you are living happier than him.. bring back your confidence.. he will live owrse than you.. if he sees you in such high spirits..
Cheers.. -
Well-said, well-spoken!Originally posted by SunRisE:Never ever make promises if you can never ever fulfill it!!! "I Love you forever" "I will never leave you" blah blah.. all these are examples of it.. and when ppl are in love.. they think they will.. but when problems arises.. all these varnished into thin air.. as if.. it was never said b4..
You take his words too serious.. i'm not saying that you cannot believe in what he says.. but there are certain things that are uncertain.. like life time together?? can you ensure that both can do it?? unless you are planning to get married soon.. then maybe that's a different case...
well.. now you have learnt a new lesson in your phrase of life.. jus go on with your life.. you'll soon get over it.. but bear this in mind.. dun be cos of one relationship or one guy like him.. ruin your impression for guys.. or trust in them..
there are many better guys than him... jus tell yourself.. and tell your nest partner.. that.. you cannot promise everything.. cos you are afraid that you might not fulfill it.. or in the end hurt each other.. issit it that worse??
Bring yourself up again.. Prove to him.. that you are not beaten down by him.. you can lead your life without him..
If you are living happier than him.. bring back your confidence.. he will live owrse than you.. if he sees you in such high spirits..
Cheers..
Its very true, very often guys and girls will tend to use the word ' i love you' very loosely and often dun really mean it and even if they do mean it, they dunch take it very seriously.
Pick yourself up, and tell yourself, you're merrier without your ex and look forward to meeting new people! =P -
Originally posted by :Well-said, well-spoken!
Its very true, very often guys and girls will tend to use the word ' i love you' very loosely and often dun really mean it and even if they do mean it, they dunch take it very seriously.
Pick yourself up, and tell yourself, you're merrier without your ex and look forward to meeting new people! =P
one more point.. not all guys are like that.. jus too bad that you met someone who is liek this..
Sometimes i do tell ppl love him.. but love yourself more.. see yourself and see your partner equally.. -
Thanx 4 ur comments,im feeling lots better now,i was just pissed that my fairy tale had to come to an end,and yeah,i will learn to control myself,emotionally n physically,its just part of life,i had a walk outside earlier,almost broke down in the supermarket,haiz.....Originally posted by SunRisE:Never ever make promises if you can never ever fulfill it!!! "I Love you forever" "I will never leave you" blah blah.. all these are examples of it.. and when ppl are in love.. they think they will.. but when problems arises.. all these varnished into thin air.. as if.. it was never said b4..
You take his words too serious.. i'm not saying that you cannot believe in what he says.. but there are certain things that are uncertain.. like life time together?? can you ensure that both can do it?? unless you are planning to get married soon.. then maybe that's a different case...
well.. now you have learnt a new lesson in your phrase of life.. jus go on with your life.. you'll soon get over it.. but bear this in mind.. dun be cos of one relationship or one guy like him.. ruin your impression for guys.. or trust in them..
there are many better guys than him... jus tell yourself.. and tell your nest partner.. that.. you cannot promise everything.. cos you are afraid that you might not fulfill it.. or in the end hurt each other.. issit it that worse??
Bring yourself up again.. Prove to him.. that you are not beaten down by him.. you can lead your life without him..
If you are living happier than him.. bring back your confidence.. he will live owrse than you.. if he sees you in such high spirits..
Cheers.. -
Chill girl.. everything's gonna be alright.. i know how you feel when you loved someone so much.. and he disappoint you in such a way..Originally posted by amuletgurl:Thanx 4 ur comments,im feeling lots better now,i was just pissed that my fairy tale had to come to an end,and yeah,i will learn to control myself,emotionally n physically,its just part of life,i had a walk outside earlier,almost broke down in the supermarket,haiz.....
but then... it was a rush decision to call it off like that.. everything can solved.. well.. quarelling between couples are not healthy.. whenever got problems.. or anyhting that you are unhappy about.. voice it out.. have a good talk..
rather than flare it out.. and make it worse.. like tat.. both also wont listen to each other.. all you know is how to talk back n defend n debate yourself.. that you are right and he's wrong..
Communication is impt.. but now you've learn a precious lesson.. hope this won't happen in the future anymore.. -
He is a good man,oh well,im glad we break off early,otherwise the pain will be unbearable in the future...the reasons were that he felt he isnt good enuff 4 me etc,its not a very bad break up, he is sincere even till now,he still dare to tell me he still love me....i admired for his courage .......Originally posted by Magnus:What minor issue? What's his reason?
Do not discount the declaration/promise he made to u when u guys started. At that time, I believe he is sincere and really want to make it work.
No relationships are cast in stone. You need to nurture it, make it grow.
and msg to him: i will remember u always,im sorry i was so harsh on u.
He asked me to promise him something: To always remember that he did loved me n to remember him always ....n so i will -
Originally posted by amuletgurl:im so down now,feel like shit,how will u feel when u really believe u will have a future wif ur gf/bf,then suddenly just becoz of a minor issue ur partner wants to end the relationship??in the way beginning i told him i was afraid of falling in love wif him,but then he told me not to worry.He said we have a life time together....wat bullshit,we broke up today,he has his reasons,but im just so crushed............losed my self esteem,i hope to get over this as soon as i can
It is a faith that we all hold on and even if reality crushes this faith - do not allow this scenario to lose trust in future relationship. What you did is technically right; the faith and belief that the relationship will go on - but not it is not important. The most important thing is that you did shape your mindset.
If he wished to end this relationship - does it matter if it was for BIG reasons or SMALL reasons? Survivability of a relationship depends on willpower and willing to keep it alive and the minute this desire is gone - so will the flame in your relationship.
P.S: Fairyland tales and TALES to be enjoyed, not to be taken seriously. There are called TALES for a reason.
Cheers -
just hope to share this poem with u all
O mortals what is love
that blinds beyond life on earth?
To all corners in a pair we fly,
braving summer and winter by and by.
Union is bliss parting is woes,
agony is boundless for a lovelorn soul
Sweetheart give me a word....
trails of clouds drifting forward.
Amid mountains capped with snows.
Whither shall my lonesome shadow go? -
Your breakoff bittersweet sia..Originally posted by amuletgurl:He is a good man,oh well,im glad we break off early,otherwise the pain will be unbearable in the future...the reasons were that he felt he isnt good enuff 4 me etc,its not a very bad break up, he is sincere even till now,he still dare to tell me he still love me....i admired for his courage .......
and msg to him: i will remember u always,im sorry i was so harsh on u.
He asked me to promise him something: To always remember that he did loved me n to remember him always ....n so i will
Why he said he's not good enuff 4 you?
Is he losing steam? Are u too demanding?
If you love him you should cherish & encourage him. Pull him back.. -
Originally posted by Magnus:Your breakoff bittersweet sia..
Why he said he's not good enuff 4 you?
Is he losing steam? Are u too demanding?
If you love him you should cherish & encourage him. Pull him back..
i will,i manage to get his fren,hoping he can help me talk to him abt this,i cried for hrs,but my ex is asleep now,so that fren of his will get to him later -
Er... that sounds Chinese to me.Originally posted by leong_tx:just hope to share this poem with u all
O mortals what is love
that blinds beyond life on earth?
To all corners in a pair we fly,
braving summer and winter by and by.
Union is bliss parting is woes,
agony is boundless for a lovelorn soul
Sweetheart give me a word....
trails of clouds drifting forward.
Amid mountains capped with snows.
Whither shall my lonesome shadow go? -
Clean Break is Best
Stop crying over spilled milk
There are many better people out there
Next time look out for those who REALLY love you......better to be Loved than to love.....it wont hurt so much if the relationship breaks
Go for the guy who would give up everything for you -
Giving up everything for me doesnt sound right,he is making decisions while he was still upset n angry,i hope he thinks abt me extra carefully,took me nearly 2 months to finally surrender my feelings n love to him,then suddenly break up when im high,i want him to know that he is going to regret this for life time.......Originally posted by idwar:Clean Break is Best
Stop crying over spilled milk
There are many better people out there
Next time look out for those who REALLY love you......better to be Loved than to love.....it wont hurt so much if the relationship breaks
Go for the guy who would give up everything for you