some gals not keen?
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have u guys been in a r/s tat ur gal like not really interested to spend time for special occassions???
i thought gals take note of these occassions more den guys.,. -
mayb forgot liao leh?
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Maybe they have other guys in mind?
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to me is wu suo wei lah......
cos everyday is a special day -
yup yup.....but when u can feel that.. then mean u and her gone case already lor... once gals change... they really changed sighzOriginally posted by DeadPoet:Maybe they have other guys in mind? 
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Not interested to go for the occasion?
Teach them a lesson!
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hell yeah i agree man....
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mayb she stress?
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What kind of occasions? You will need to spend some effort to be more details and precise if you want to get a more accurate answer.Originally posted by Dan Ryou Shou:have u guys been in a r/s tat ur gal like not really interested to spend time for special occassions???
i thought gals take note of these occassions more den guys.,.
Until then, nobody can answer your question.
I don't want to give comments on vague scenarios, because it will probably piss me off if I have to decipher your encryption. -
What the girl is doing is acting in a "heck care" way, and it is arousing your attraction which is why u keep trying. U gotta also "heck care" while being nice at the same time in order to make her attracted to you 2.
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Avoid jumping to such a conclusion so easily... You might have it just as a casual remark but the trouble guy might be taking your comment too seriously? Which... Might be quite unhealthy at times?Originally posted by DeadPoet:Maybe they have other guys in mind? -
AgreedOriginally posted by Devil1976:Avoid jumping to such a conclusion so easily... You might have it just as a casual remark but the trouble guy might be taking your comment too seriously? Which... Might be quite unhealthy at times? 
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Originally posted by parn:What kind of occasions? You will need to spend some effort to be more details and precise if you want to get a more accurate answer.
Until then, nobody can answer your question.
I don't want to give comments on vague scenarios, because it will probably piss me off if I have to decipher your encryption. " -
+1
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Maybe she is not ready to be seen & questioned by all your family members?
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Yup. Definately. Was the girl who was not interested in spending time with my ex during special occassions (eg. anniversaries, birthdays)Originally posted by Dan Ryou Shou:have u guys been in a r/s tat ur gal like not really interested to spend time for special occassions???
i thought gals take note of these occassions more den guys.,.
When a girl is not interested in spending time with a guy during special occassions, the most likely reason is that:
He means nothing to her - She doesn't love him, therefore she doesn't care.
Of course there are the geniune occassions when a girl honestly forgot, due to other commitments like a major work project and such but when that happens, the girl will usually be gulity about it and try to make up to the guy.
Just see if it was a one-off scenerio or is it happening too often. If it is happening lots, it may be a time for a heart to heart talk. -
I don't quite agree with this. It was be rather narrow-minded to presume that others would necessarily be thinking the way you do... Though you might be a woman too?Originally posted by elindra:Yup. Definately. Was the girl who was not interested in spending time with my ex during special occassions (eg. anniversaries, birthdays)
When a girl is not interested in spending time with a guy during special occassions, the most likely reason is that:
He means nothing to her - She doesn't love him, therefore she doesn't care.
Of course there are the geniune occassions when a girl honestly forgot, due to other commitments like a major work project and such but when that happens, the girl will usually be gulity about it and try to make up to the guy.
Just see if it was a one-off scenerio or is it happening too often. If it is happening lots, it may be a time for a heart to heart talk.
There could be females who are genuinely not interested in such or just enjoys the simplicity of love and hence thinks little of such... Could also be a change of mindset for that girl due to certain things in life which altered her mentality? Lost of interest in the relationship is just ONE of them which might alter her mentality and attitude towards the relationship....
It could also be that she might be facing some temporary problems or troubled by some other aspects of her life which altered her mood... Sometimes could be physiological too.... -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
I did mention that I am female and what I said was the MOST LIKELY REASON and not assuming that everyone thinks the way that I do. Just highlighted what was the MOST probable and NOT the only reason.
I don't quite agree with this. It was be rather narrow-minded to presume that others would necessarily be thinking the way you do... Though you might be a woman too?
There could be females who are genuinely not interested in such or just enjoys the simplicity of love and hence thinks little of such... Could also be a change of mindset for that girl due to certain things in life which altered her mentality? Lost of interest in the relationship is just [b]ONE of them which might alter her mentality and attitude towards the relationship....
It could also be that she might be facing some temporary problems or troubled by some other aspects of her life which altered her mood... Sometimes could be physiological too....[/b]
Well, there may be females who are in love and don't express themselves but to the majority of females, especially when they are in love, will have their own little ways to show the guy that she cares and remembering and celebrating a special occassion together is just a small way of showing it. It doesn't have to be a celebration like going out to dinner but showing that you care by remembering is one way.
Of course there will be other reasons like family problems and such and I did mention that if it is occassional its really fine but if its all the time that you have to be worried about. -
Agree with this part. In other words, there could be other ways of showing or not showing things.. Hence, depending on the girl's mentality... She might wanna show it in different way... Or simply bored of routine... It doesn't necessarily signal a RED LIGHT to the relationship... May not even be on a HIGH PROBABLITY...Originally posted by elindra:I did mention that I am female and what I said was the MOST LIKELY REASON and not assuming that everyone thinks the way that I do. Just highlighted what was the MOST probable and NOT the only reason.
Well, there may be females who are in love and don't express themselves but to the majority of females, especially when they are in love, will have their own little ways to show the guy that she cares and remembering and celebrating a special occassion together is just a small way of showing it. It doesn't have to be a celebration like going out to dinner but showing that you care by remembering is one way.
Of course there will be other reasons like family problems and such and I did mention that if it is occassional its really fine but if its all the time that you have to be worried about.
Sometimes to think in such negativity is even much more harmful to the relationship... Considering the fact that something might then grow out of nothing?
Regards.