Do you think you can love two person at the same time?

• <sk>

  28 Jun 04, 13:28

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Disagree with you. Anyway, my answer is YES.

  I agree with Devil1976... you can be in love and love two people at the same time.
• NeonTetra

  28 Jun 04, 13:32

  can eat and drink simultaneously?
• <sk>

  28 Jun 04, 13:52

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  can eat and drink simultaneously?

  Some people can even sh|t, fark and pee at the same time!
• Magnus

  28 Jun 04, 21:07

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  True blue Capricorn are hard worker - the delegated leaders. They have strong will and determination towards their goal. Slowly, but surely. In relationship, they focus and view material finance as one of the top few requirement for happiness and security to happen. If you are a guy, showering gift is one channel you would do often to pamper your gf.
  
  Saturn as a ruling planet will influence Capricorn to undergo depression every now and then. Capricorn generally do not have good yi xin yuan as compared to the other signs (unless birth chart states otherwise).
  
  Cheers

  Hi Yun,
  
  You are spot on for ALL the points above.
  
  When i was much younger, I underwent bouts of depression that bordered on being suicidal.
  
  Life is much easier for me now as I know more of my strong/weak points and capitalise/negotiate on them.
  
  i seems to get along well with Taurus ladies.
  My wife, daughter, 2 female colleagues are all Taurus.
  
  Thanks, Yun.
• Yunhaier

  29 Jun 04, 00:34

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Disagree with you. Anyway, my answer is YES.

  Needs fulfillment from many channels is technically not love - it's a psychological phobia of putting all your eggs in one basket. The line is drawn too thinly and of course different school of thought preceive differently.
  
  Dao bu tong, bu xiang wei mo.
  
  Cheers
• Honeybunz

  29 Jun 04, 04:45

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  papa and mama?

  sgboy2004!!!!! YOU are sooooooo CUTE!!!
• Evanglion

  29 Jun 04, 04:56

  he act cute only
• Devil1976

  29 Jun 04, 12:59

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Needs fulfillment from many channels is technically not love - it's a psychological phobia of putting all your eggs in one basket. The line is drawn too thinly and of course different school of thought preceive differently.
  Dao bu tong, bu xiang wei mo.
  
  Cheers

  I can only agree with this...
  
  Each individual holds their own belief(s) to the concept of love and to an extent (normally) practises things along that line... But to say of such from a person's strong belief and own point of view... You don't practise it, doesn't mean that it don't exist that way...
• Devil1976

  29 Jun 04, 13:01

  Originally posted by Evanglion:

  he act cute only

  
• Rad

  29 Jun 04, 15:25

  According to all the educational health emails I get everyday talking about some mysterious miracle drug that everyone wants to sell me at discount prices...taking a dosage of it will make you able to love two people at the same time, more than once each night.
  
  But seriously...I have no idea...it's possible but right now I feel that I can only love one person at a time...too bad that person doesn't know. If you love more than one person...it's highly likely that you'd love one more...so eventually you'd choose that person anways...it's possible that you can love two people...but it's not easy for that person to accept the fact. That's why marriages now 1-1. Makes things so much less complicated.
• sgboy2004

  29 Jun 04, 15:29

  Originally posted by Evanglion:

  he act cute only

  oh no, kenna discovered liao
• Bontakun

  29 Jun 04, 15:43

  Originally posted by Ash Tree:

  

  If Qing Bu Zi Jing. Yesh... See Wei Xiao Bao of da "Duke of Mount Deer" for more details.
• <sk>

  29 Jun 04, 15:45

  Actually its very simple, if you have ever loved someone( your gf(s) or exs) before, then its not hard to have that same feeling at the same time, as all those feelings are in already right now...
• nww16

  29 Jun 04, 15:48

  i can love 2,3,4 or more persons at the same time..
  the oni thing is i sucks in time management...
• Boy Next Door => []

  29 Jun 04, 15:54

  Originally posted by Ash Tree:

  Do you think you can love two person at the same time?

  For some folks, loving 2 persons (or more) at the same time is e only way they noe, they can't help it cuz they're so full of love and full of s h i t. For others, it may happen only in exceptional events akin to those depicted in movies like ie. Castaway and some Korean/Jap/local flicks on love triangles, same old boring crap, which I never watch.
  
  But not for me, cuz I'm strictly a 1 woman man, loyal dog. I'm made that way.
  
• <sk>

  29 Jun 04, 16:00

  Originally posted by Boy Next Door => []:

  For some folks, loving 2 persons (or more) at the same time is e only way they noe, they can't help it cuz they're so full of love and full of s h i t. For others, it may happen only in exceptional events akin to those depicted in movies like ie. Castaway and some Korean/Jap/local flicks on love triangles, same old boring crap, which I never watch.
  
  But not for me, cuz I'm strictly a 1 woman man, loyal dog. I'm made that way.
  

  Well most girls are loyal because they can't stand someone else touching their bf/ hubby/ lover...
• Yunhaier

  1 Jul 04, 00:14

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I can only agree with this...
  
  Each individual holds their own belief(s) to the concept of love and to an extent (normally) practises things along that line... But to say of such from a person's strong belief and own point of view... You don't practise it, doesn't mean that it don't exist that way...

  Agree.
  
  Cheers
• val_star

  7 Jul 04, 16:39

  must be different kinds of love.. a love thats past yet not totalli wiped off can exist concurrently with a new real love.. (tokin abt bgr kind here)
• xking

  7 Jul 04, 16:59

  i definitely cant...
  
  Cos i'll feel a sense of guilt.
  Some ppl can but i cant.
  
  Haiz
• i_will_be_there

  7 Jul 04, 17:09

  I dun think i can do that..
  
  lol..
  
  Too diffcult for me..
• parn

  7 Jul 04, 17:17

  Think you can feel love for two person at the same time is because the time you spent with them. Say...your ex-gf/bf and your current gf/bf, there will be a period of time when the love your felt for both of them is almost the same. The feelings for your ex-gf/bf still remains in your heart waiting to be depleted, while the feelings for your current gf/bf is growing. There will be a point in time when they will reached the same level of importance/love in your heart. But eventually, the love for your current bf/gf will outgrow your ex-bf/gf and you will feel that you love your current bf/gf the most. Depending on the relationship you had as well....sometimes, the love for your current bf/gf grows slowly due to relationship problems and you start to wonder which bf/gf you actually love the most...current/ex?
  
  I believe that I can only give my love to the current bf/gf as it wouldn't be fair to compare them. Afterall, the past doesn't matters much anymore...time will erase them from my memories.
• Magnus

  7 Jul 04, 20:04

  Parn,
  
  What u mention is a past & present thingy.
  
  It can happen to a couple that are in diferent countries and because of certain needs, each/both sides found their 'spare tires'.
  
  No doubt they still love each other, but they can't be together and will somehow transfer their love temporary to the other party. In moment of weakness, situation and needs.
  
  
• Seventh_Son

  7 Jul 04, 21:46

  I think one can like many but only love one.
• Thailand_Hero

  8 Jul 04, 09:24

  love i not sure...but sure can lust after 2 girls at one time
• jarc

  11 Jul 04, 06:34

  I think you can't love 2 people romantically at the same time. however, one can love one and lust the other. or maybe love one and be superly attracted to the other. but never truly love more than one person at the same time. Well, jsut my 2 cents