ex's best fren!!
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here's the problem: i'm in love with my ex's BEST friend...my ex dumped me cos she still thought of her ex bf...so she left me...kinda hurt but den her best fren came to console me and kept me company.... den realised that i fell for her already...but she has a bf..and i feel so bad lor...cos 3rd party!! somemore her bf seems to be sportier and more handsome and a better guy than me...although er...i tink i treat her much much better than her own bf...and i meet her more often than her own bf..cos her bf abit nerd duno how to be sweet!! dunno how to treat her gf well...but i feel v bad like bully small boy...hai...but i really like her!!! her birthday's coming soon..wad should i get for her?? everytime meet her go out feel like holding her hands!! hai....really like her alot....wad do u all advice me to do??? should i tell her?? but i feel bad!! or juz suppress my emotions??? wad shld i do?? PLS HELP!!!
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u can choose to be a 3rd party or not...it is up to u.
But u know all along tat she has a bf, should not hav plunged into it, but too late now...
well, toss a coin then
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thanxs for ur reply! er...ya..tink too late to make a U-turn already...her birthday's coming..wad should i give her? i wanna make something...and er..aiya..duno how sia...
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give her peace... not problemOriginally posted by tuition_city:thanxs for ur reply! er...ya..tink too late to make a U-turn already...her birthday's coming..wad should i give her? i wanna make something...and er..aiya..duno how sia...
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make her a string of cranes, 1 for each year she's lived on this earth.
eg. if she's 19 this yr, make her a string of 19 cranes -
U nv say she how old?
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Originally posted by tuition_city:thanxs for ur reply! er...ya..tink too late to make a U-turn already...her birthday's coming..wad should i give her? i wanna make something...and er..aiya..duno how sia...
No such thing as too late to turn back - consciously and subconsciously, you never wanted to turn back at all.
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she's in JC tis yr...18 yrs old...wad do u tink i should get for her?? i mean MAKE ??
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ya i dun wan to turn back la...lol..so how?
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just go for it and fight for your own happiness.
so what if u're a third party?
people who doesnt want to be a third party comes with excuses like it's morally wrong to steal gf....
to me they're just wimps who dare not fight for what they really want.
of course if the person is married, better dont go and destroy people's family -
If u dun wanna turn back, Gather courage and told her how u feel.Originally posted by tuition_city:ya i dun wan to turn back la...lol..so how?
If you got rejected by her, there's always the excuse that you are emotionally needy bcos of the breakup.
The fact that she appeared when you guys break-up is no accident.
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ok....den i should do something really really sweet for her bf?
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sorry..it should be.."for her BIRTHDAY" not "for her bf" ! haaa
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Hmm... Birthday gift ah... How bout u go fill a nice bottle wif the red colour seed called Xiang si dou lor... Mus go pick la... Can show ur sincerity... Gals lik flowers or mayb can give cuddy cute soft toys or necklace all tis lor.... All the cute cute, sweet sweet gals surely lik one la... Gd luck! Word of advice... At least sound her out on her relationship wif her BF ma... If quite stable, think u should give up? If not really... Ur chance is here! Think if she lik u, she surely will give u hints lik things not goin too well wif her bf all tat lor...
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Originally posted by tuition_city:sorry..it should be.."for her BIRTHDAY" not "for her bf" ! haaa
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dun b 3rd party la, jz b gd frens wif her... would u like it if somebody else stole ur gf from u...Originally posted by tuition_city:here's the problem: i'm in love with my ex's BEST friend...my ex dumped me cos she still thought of her ex bf...so she left me...kinda hurt but den her best fren came to console me and kept me company.... den realised that i fell for her already...but she has a bf..and i feel so bad lor...cos 3rd party!! somemore her bf seems to be sportier and more handsome and a better guy than me...although er...i tink i treat her much much better than her own bf...and i meet her more often than her own bf..cos her bf abit nerd duno how to be sweet!! dunno how to treat her gf well...but i feel v bad like bully small boy...hai...but i really like her!!! her birthday's coming soon..wad should i get for her?? everytime meet her go out feel like holding her hands!! hai....really like her alot....wad do u all advice me to do??? should i tell her?? but i feel bad!! or juz suppress my emotions??? wad shld i do?? PLS HELP!!! -
Originally posted by tuition_city:ya i dun wan to turn back la...lol..so how?
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Double Post.
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If she were to start a reln with u while she's still attached, that would constitute to cheating. And if there's conscience in her, it would be a matter of time b4 e guilt consumes her. If u really like her and have her interests at heart, u should only go as far as expressing ur feelings for her. Until she ends her present reln, as a respectable young man, u should not make further advances.Originally posted by tuition_city:here's the problem: i'm in love with my ex's BEST friend...my ex dumped me cos she still thought of her ex bf...so she left me...kinda hurt but den her best fren came to console me and kept me company.... den realised that i fell for her already...but she has a bf..and i feel so bad lor...cos 3rd party!! somemore her bf seems to be sportier and more handsome and a better guy than me...although er...i tink i treat her much much better than her own bf...and i meet her more often than her own bf..cos her bf abit nerd duno how to be sweet!! dunno how to treat her gf well...but i feel v bad like bully small boy...hai...but i really like her!!! her birthday's coming soon..wad should i get for her?? everytime meet her go out feel like holding her hands!! hai....really like her alot....wad do u all advice me to do??? should i tell her?? but i feel bad!! or juz suppress my emotions??? wad shld i do?? PLS HELP!!!
Get it right from the start. Besides, I dun think u wan her to go out with u on a date for a couple of hours only for her to rush to meet her bf thereafter followed by a bonking session. -
How come you have been double posting so much these days?Originally posted by Devil1976:Double Post. -
pick love peas? muahahahaha...okay..any other ideas? oh..her bf and her not that stable...recently started..a few months only..less than one yr....but can see tat she quite like him...
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her bithday is on 2nd july...COMING soon already!! help!
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send a bouquet of flowers to her doorsteps in the morning
buy a small cake, celebrates wif her
wait for her at her block and surprises her with a gift
btw, if she's interested in u, she will appreciates anything u done for her
PS: never go for girls wif bf, one day she mite drop u for another guy... -
wow..Friday...Originally posted by tuition_city:her bithday is on 2nd july...COMING soon already!! help! -
Then...?Originally posted by tuition_city:pick love peas? muahahahaha...okay..any other ideas? oh..her bf and her not that stable...recently started..a few months only..less than one yr....but can see tat she quite like him...