Originally posted by smoke:
Hi all, my problem has finally been resolved and we're back together again. I would like to thank the following people who lent a listening ear and a helping hand:
1) Yunhaier, your advice is deeply appreciated.
2) Devil1976, thanks for telling me the situation better
3) Meowsusan, for cheering me up
4) Nelstar, for wanting to give me a slap

Those who I left out, thanks a lot too!

If you remembered what I said on the phone, getting back is a fairly simple task. What I truely worry is not even about getting back together -
it is about how are you going to clean up the mess you have created and forge a new identity and future of your relationship.No point getting back and have the relationship pull through another short term basis before it collapse again. I know I am damn fringing` naggy, but then again you must understand the essence of this scenario, especially when everything you have lost, returned.
You now realise:
I) how damaging a relationship could get by suppressing feelings and wallop into self-pity, only to regret later.
II) How indecisive nature can destroy patience, stir frustration and create unneccessary trouble.
III) Power of love must take place to forgive and accept all past & scenario for when you love, you accept the entire package and the beauty of it is to love her for who she is and she in return.
P.S: Learn to handle your relationship the right way, for you may not see the effect now, but surely, it will help to build your relationship for long term. Congrats anyway?

Cheers