i tRust him.....but......
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mY boYfren coNfessed t0 me tHat theRe is a girL intereSted in him...
i'M hAppy tHat he is h0neSt witH me, but hE t0ld me thAt it's a gUy's pr0blem and hE will settle it bY himsElf.
i feeL that it's mY pr0blem too.
alth0ugh i tRust him aNd have c0nfideNce in him, i'm stiLL w0rried.
d0 i have t0 sCar his fAce and ch0p his haNds off so thAt giRls w0n't be inteRested in hiM aNd he also woN't hAve chaNce t0 chat witH girLs? -
if u love your man, u wouldn't be thinking about doing such horrible things to him... and being attached to u shouldn't mean he has no freedom to talk to gals. Unless he has cheated on you, talking to girls is nothing wrong. As long as he is faithful, what do u have to fear? No doubt that it is only human to feel this way, but what u should do is to show the other gal a united front, how much u stand by your man, rather than to show her that there are any signs of conflict between you and him.Originally posted by cheeZ:mY boYfren coNfessed t0 me tHat theRe is a girL intereSted in him...
i'M hAppy tHat he is h0neSt witH me, but hE t0ld me thAt it's a gUy's pr0blem and hE will settle it bY himsElf.
i feeL that it's mY pr0blem too.
alth0ugh i tRust him aNd have c0nfideNce in him, i'm stiLL w0rried.
d0 i have t0 sCar his fAce and ch0p his haNds off so thAt giRls w0n't be inteRested in hiM aNd he also woN't hAve chaNce t0 chat witH girLs? -
Well, you should be happy that he confessed to you and not the other way round whereby you found out that there's a girl after your bf.Originally posted by cheeZ:mY boYfren coNfessed t0 me tHat theRe is a girL intereSted in him...
i'M hAppy tHat he is h0neSt witH me, but hE t0ld me thAt it's a gUy's pr0blem and hE will settle it bY himsElf.
i feeL that it's mY pr0blem too.
alth0ugh i tRust him aNd have c0nfideNce in him, i'm stiLL w0rried.
d0 i have t0 sCar his fAce and ch0p his haNds off so thAt giRls w0n't be inteRested in hiM aNd he also woN't hAve chaNce t0 chat witH girLs?
You should learn to trust your bf more and if he decides to be with someone else then you should let him go. Its just not meant to be... I mean if you truly love someone, you would that person to be happy with or without you...
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he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt? -
ok. so maybe he wasn't such a clean person. But now he has told u honestly about this girl, and he did say he will solve the problem right? like i said, the last thing u want is for that girl to see that u don't trust your man, the lasy thing u want for her to see is that you and your man don't get along, and the last thing u want for him to feel is that he is not trusted and misunderstood by you, because all that would serve to do is to give him 2nd thoughts about continuing to be with u.Originally posted by cheeZ:he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt? -
maybe dats y he confessed to you early, in case you too worried or suspicious. problems are best squashed out in the bud you know, and perhaps he knows exactly how to deal with it since he is somehow liked you said, experienced in it.Originally posted by cheeZ:he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt?
hey if your bf is popular, dat means u made good choice, why worry so much? dun worry, relax. -
well then, it is time to reconsider his suitability to u... how long more can u tolerate? Cutting his limbs off does not solve, but aggravates the problems... think hard dearOriginally posted by cheeZ:he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt?
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Well, you can't stop girls from chasing your bf or asking him out for coffee or going clubbing... neither can you stop guys from asking you out...Originally posted by cheeZ:he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt?
But one thing you both control, is the extend of it...
Who knows maybe the girl or guy asking your bf or you out for a movie, is just being a good friend?
If your bf knows that there's this one particular girl who's attracted to him, then he should be spending less time with that girl... if he does spend more time with that girl than usual, then you should be worried!
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Gaoyue, you're very vain!Originally posted by gaoyue:maybe dats y he confessed to you early, in case you too worried or suspicious. problems are best squashed out in the bud you know, and perhaps he knows exactly how to deal with it since he is somehow liked you said, experienced in it.
hey if your bf is popular, dat means u made good choice, why worry so much? dun worry, relax.
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thAnx f0r all your kind replies.
guYs and gurLs p0int of viEw on suCh matteRs are so diffeRent.
*sigh*
hE said he settLed it aLredi.
w0nder whEn the neXt "surprise" will c0me....
yEs, he is p0pular. too p0pular f0r c0mfort, in fAct. -
choose someone tat is not so popular lor...e.g. Croco...aka sgboy2004Originally posted by cheeZ:thAnx f0r all your kind replies.
guYs and gurLs p0int of viEw on suCh matteRs are so diffeRent.
*sigh*
hE said he settLed it aLredi.
w0nder whEn the neXt "surprise" will c0me....
yEs, he is p0pular. too p0pular f0r c0mfort, in fAct.
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You cannot be too selfish.. sometimes he do to have some privacy.. his own time for himself.. you cannot "BA ZHAN" all the way... this is a sign of being POSSESSIVE!Originally posted by cheeZ:mY boYfren coNfessed t0 me tHat theRe is a girL intereSted in him...
i'M hAppy tHat he is h0neSt witH me, but hE t0ld me thAt it's a gUy's pr0blem and hE will settle it bY himsElf.
i feeL that it's mY pr0blem too.
alth0ugh i tRust him aNd have c0nfideNce in him, i'm stiLL w0rried.
d0 i have t0 sCar his fAce and ch0p his haNds off so thAt giRls w0n't be inteRested in hiM aNd he also woN't hAve chaNce t0 chat witH girLs?
Not many guys like girls to be too possessive.. one day he might be able to take it.. and jus wants to end it for good...
Is jus like a rubber band.. if you pull or stretch it too hard.. it will snap one day!
Why cant he chat with other girls.. he can have his own friends.. you say you trust him.. well i doubt so.. if you really do.. why are you afraid that he chat with girls or girls interested in him..
You should be happy that someone is interested in him.. Let him settle it by himself.. dun interfere... if he's those ppl who are not easily succumb.. then why worried..
i know sometimes you jus cannot control but still worrying.. give your trust to him.. it;'s not worth to have arguement or conflicts over such small matter.. if you were to blow it up..
He needed a space of his own! jus allow him to setlle with that girl once and for all.. if you are worried.. maybe you could ask him or concern about the situation now.. dun talk to him.. like demanding him to do it fast.. or give him that kind of feel " WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING? WHY ARENT YOU SETTLING THIS FAST?"
On the other hand.. would you like your bf to do this back to you??
Cannot talk to other guys.. cannot chat with them.. cannot go out with them.. Wouldn't your world be circling only you n him??
Both need your own social circle.. your group of friends.. not jus you 2...
Well, love is not only about having him.. its about faith trust honesty and happiness...
Cheers.. -
Girls pouring at him or he pouring himself at them??Originally posted by cheeZ:he hAs quite "diRty" hiStory.
wE've been t0gether f0r 1 yEar aLredi and thiS is n0t thE fiRst time thAt he hAs suCh "girl pr0blems"
i haVe t0lerated mAny inCideNts aLredi.
wHen s0me thiNgs arE hAppening freqUently, y0u won't conSider it as "coincidEnce" anim0re rigHt?
if that;s the case.. then i suggest you have a good talk with him about this issue... -
of course gals n guys views have to be different... haha if it were the same, there would not really be any gals or guys right? we'd all be called "it"Originally posted by cheeZ:thAnx f0r all your kind replies.
guYs and gurLs p0int of viEw on suCh matteRs are so diffeRent.
*sigh*
hE said he settLed it aLredi.
w0nder whEn the neXt "surprise" will c0me....
yEs, he is p0pular. too p0pular f0r c0mfort, in fAct. -
i aLredi laid tErms & c0nditions, but theY fell on dEaf ears.Originally posted by :Well, you can't stop girls from chasing your bf or asking him out for coffee or going clubbing... neither can you stop guys from asking you out...
But one thing you both control, is the extend of it...
Who knows maybe the girl or guy asking your bf or you out for a movie, is just being a good friend?
If your bf knows that there's this one particular girl who's attracted to him, then he should be spending less time with that girl... if he does spend more time with that girl than usual, then you should be worried!
hE claimed he put in eff0rt too but i don't see it..
tHere are jUst s0me girLs wh0 don't leAve guYs wif girlfRen aL0ne. w0nder whY my bF still bothErs t0 keep c0ntact with thEse s|uts.
h0pe one day thEir own bF chEat on thEm
i belieVe in whAt g0es ar0und comes ar0und. RetribUti0n. -
it... u referring to Croco?Originally posted by HENG@:of course gals n guys views have to be different... haha if it were the same, there would not really be any gals or guys right? we'd all be called "it" -
TAlk talk talk...Originally posted by cheeZ:thAnx f0r all your kind replies.
guYs and gurLs p0int of viEw on suCh matteRs are so diffeRent.
*sigh*
hE said he settLed it aLredi.
w0nder whEn the neXt "surprise" will c0me....
yEs, he is p0pular. too p0pular f0r c0mfort, in fAct.
Communication is important.. you dun voice he forever dunno..
then he thinks that you are always ok with it.. -
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croco is a very sexy "she" la...Originally posted by sgboy2004:it... u referring to Croco?
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2 words: chill outOriginally posted by cheeZ:i aLredi laid tErms & c0nditions, but theY fell on dEaf ears.
hE claimed he put in eff0rt too but i don't see it..
tHere are jUst s0me girLs wh0 don't leAve guYs wif girlfRen aL0ne. w0nder whY my bF still bothErs t0 keep c0ntact with thEse s|uts.
h0pe one day thEir own bF chEat on thEm
i belieVe in whAt g0es ar0und comes ar0und. RetribUti0n. -
If you can't trust him.....Originally posted by cheeZ:i aLredi laid tErms & c0nditions, but theY fell on dEaf ears.
hE claimed he put in eff0rt too but i don't see it..
tHere are jUst s0me girLs wh0 don't leAve guYs wif girlfRen aL0ne. w0nder whY my bF still bothErs t0 keep c0ntact with thEse s|uts.
h0pe one day thEir own bF chEat on thEm
i belieVe in whAt g0es ar0und comes ar0und. RetribUti0n.
Hmm...
Sorry, very contradictary to your topic yup? -
i all0w him t0 d0 that, and thiS is whAt happeNed lor.Originally posted by SunRisE:You cannot be too selfish.. sometimes he do to have some privacy.. his own time for himself.. you cannot "BA ZHAN" all the way... this is a sign of being POSSESSIVE!
Not many guys like girls to be too possessive.. one day he might be able to take it.. and jus wants to end it for good...
Is jus like a rubber band.. if you pull or stretch it too hard.. it will snap one day!
Why cant he chat with other girls.. he can have his own friends.. you say you trust him.. well i doubt so.. if you really do.. why are you afraid that he chat with girls or girls interested in him..
You should be happy that someone is interested in him.. Let him settle it by himself.. dun interfere... if he's those ppl who are not easily succumb.. then why worried..
i know sometimes you jus cannot control but still worrying.. give your trust to him.. it;'s not worth to have arguement or conflicts over such small matter.. if you were to blow it up..
He needed a space of his own! jus allow him to setlle with that girl once and for all.. if you are worried.. maybe you could ask him or concern about the situation now.. dun talk to him.. like demanding him to do it fast.. or give him that kind of feel " WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING? WHY ARENT YOU SETTLING THIS FAST?"
On the other hand.. would you like your bf to do this back to you??
Cannot talk to other guys.. cannot chat with them.. cannot go out with them.. Wouldn't your world be circling only you n him??
Both need your own social circle.. your group of friends.. not jus you 2...
Well, love is not only about having him.. its about faith trust honesty and happiness...
Cheers..
y0u don't kn0w him, y0u don't uNderstand him, y0u don't uNderstand HOW I FEEL t0wards him and aLL theSe.
i taLked to him mAny timEs aLredi, untiL i'm tiRed of repeAting.
h0w would y0u feeL wheN the tRust y0u rebuilt aFter eveRy incideNt gets shaKen yEt again? -
are you both very young?Originally posted by cheeZ:i aLredi laid tErms & c0nditions, but theY fell on dEaf ears.
hE claimed he put in eff0rt too but i don't see it..
tHere are jUst s0me girLs wh0 don't leAve guYs wif girlfRen aL0ne. w0nder whY my bF still bothErs t0 keep c0ntact with thEse s|uts.
h0pe one day thEir own bF chEat on thEm
i belieVe in whAt g0es ar0und comes ar0und. RetribUti0n. -
You gave him chances yet he dunno how to appreciate.. this is his loses.. well.. you jus have to learn from it..Originally posted by cheeZ:i all0w him t0 d0 that, and thiS is whAt happeNed lor.
y0u don't kn0w him, y0u don't uNderstand him, y0u don't uNderstand HOW I FEEL t0wards him and aLL theSe.
i taLked to him mAny timEs aLredi, untiL i'm tiRed of repeAting.
h0w would y0u feeL wheN the tRust y0u rebuilt aFter eveRy incideNt gets shaKen yEt again?
Give one chance to both.. tell him that if he really wants this relationship he better show some improvement.. or efforts in it.. if not... ......
If still nothing can be done to maek him fully awake..
then i guess.. stop for awhile..
let you and him reconsider on this relationship you are having.. issit more of a happy one.. or a bitter one..
i rather you end it a good way.. rather than a bad one..
Tired of repeating what you say.. he oso tired of listening to what you have to say... -
Originally posted by :Gaoyue, you're very vain! In what way?