Help i'm a mess!!!
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there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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tell her to look for you in about 5 years' time?
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why bearOriginally posted by the Bear:tell her to look for you in about 5 years' time?
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18.. probably more mature, or.. maybe by then, she'd had forgotten about you?
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thats a good idea thanksOriginally posted by the Bear:18.. probably more mature, or.. maybe by then, she'd had forgotten about you? -
Because in 5 years time you'll finish your NS and probably studies too, and you'll probaby have a stable career with good money to spend on herOriginally posted by martin_lim85:why bear pls tell me more?
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intro sgboy2004 to her
tt shd keep her (and him) busy.....
otherwise, jus 2 words will do
F U C K
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Originally posted by FireIce:intro sgboy2004 to her
tt shd keep her (and him) busy.....
otherwise, jus 2 words will do
F U C K
O F F
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Jail Bait.
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Tell her you like her like a sister and you love another girl liao.Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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can ask Nelstar to pose as his gf to make the "act" more convincing.....Originally posted by parn:Tell her you like her like a sister and you love another girl liao. -
I rather ask Ru Hwa to pose as his gf instead of Nelstar...just need a major face reconstruction, that's all.Originally posted by FireIce:can ask Nelstar to pose as his gf to make the "act" more convincing.....
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tell her, wait for 5 yrs den see lor. dun need tell her to f u c k o f f, wait she cannot take it go jump. besides, maybe 5 yrs later u might like her. who noes, future is undetermined, people will change one.Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
Thanks ppl.
If you don't like her, then just tell her tactfully. This is not even a mess at all - merely a small scenario to handle. Not every love issues are messy - don't implicate your own situation when it can be simple.
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If you don't like her.. then tell her directly.. Let her know that you feel that she's really too young for you.. Besides that reconfirm and assure her that you dun wan more.. but jus a friend only..Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
Thanks ppl.
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SERVE YOUR NS AND WAKE UP YOUR IDEAS...Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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and there is the rotan too...Originally posted by Forever84:Jail Bait.
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Better not get mess with 13-yr olds, u can get into trouble. Guess it is just a crush on her part. Avoid her & don't give her hope
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Sometimes i feel tat gals at Tis age R really immatured de lor... Coz they jus came from pri school to sec school... They feel grown up ah...Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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Then they came to know a guy who is older than them... Gals all like older guys ma... And then they only 13... So got an older bf, they feel is lik very cool n can show off to their friends lor... N older guy so got more money to spend on them ma...
Jus leave her alone, ignore her... Surely very fast she will lose her interest in u de... Is jus a small gal crush... -
WAH...........................at this age can get ROTTAN u know?
BETTER BE CAREFUL!!!!
OR ...............................
PLEASE DUN WASTE YR TIME LAH!!!!! -
Nong Jia Chen Zhen! Jia Xi Zhen Zhuo!Originally posted by FireIce:can ask Nelstar to pose as his gf to make the "act" more convincing.....
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tell her "go play with your dolls kid"Originally posted by martin_lim85:there's a 13 year old girl claims that she likes me. but i think that she still young and the only thingy for her to do is to study hard at this age. and in the meantime i'm going to serve my N.S soon. what should i do or tell her please enlighten me.
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you are right that she should be studying at this age. If you don't want to 'hai' her, don't give her false hopes or be overly concern towards her as a friend.
I am not saying that you become nasty but since she has told you that she likes you. Your words and actions mean alot. Do not promise her what you cannot be sure of.
Take care.