How to love someone when....
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How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!! -
In fact, you can love someone easier if you don't know how to love yourself. You will only face this difficulties when you love yourself more than anyone else.
I don't love myself and I'm not suicidal. I love someone...and because I don't love myself, I can accept and absorb all the pain the sorrow that this love will brings.
Hahahaha.........
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Originally posted by blurtoad:How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!!
When you attempt to love someone, yet lack the same love for yourself, you will find it difficult for this love to blossom beyond a certain level. Love always work in this way - to give and to receive. Not understanding the love for yourself will subconsciously drain you and have meaningless sacrifice, thinking that it will improve the relationship.
In the end, you discover it is for spiritual growth if you gain that wisdom - about love being two-channel, not one.
Allow me to share with you this: lack of self love will likely to attract negative relationship. Abuse of all sort is common. (This includes emotional abuse - taking for granted, inferior making, etc). Relationship may still flow within its complex dynamic, but this love can never soar as high as could have.
To strengthen self love - you may begin by improving your overall self image, esteem and confidence. These three elements are condition essential for positive self love to take place and as you gain experience in relationship, you will gradually achieve it.
Cheers -
Love yourself.. by building up your confidence level..Originally posted by blurtoad:How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!!
Even if you enter in a relationship.. you love him more than you love yourself.. tentatively.. this r/s won't last that very long.. or won't climb as high as you wan it to be.. cos this may result to being possessiveness..
you must be in parred with your partner.. pamper yourself more.. Of cos i'm not implying that you cannot love him more.. you can.. but loving yourself more oso.. Have confidence in yourself.. self-esteem.. high... then your r/s wont be much of a problems...
Love,
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Learn BOTH at the same time..Originally posted by blurtoad:How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!! -
Let Love come to u naturally.
when it comes u`ll know wat to do naturally. -
I agree to a certain extend.Originally posted by BaByBoY:Let Love come to u naturally.
when it comes u`ll know wat to do naturally.
Different people have varying perception on love. Hence differing degree of expectations.
Like what may seem naturally(loving) may not seem to the other party.
Love is a force that enables Man to do things which they never thought they could. The implication could be constructive or destructive.
Cheers.
PS. Love yourself and you'll see the world in more light, see love in greater depth. -
NICE...Originally posted by M©+square:PS. Love yourself and you'll see the world in more light, see love in greater depth.
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I may be selfish when it comes to a relationship. As this is not the first time but the third time facing such situation.
I wish that I can be a good companion or soulmate to my partner but I can't simply commit myself to the relationship. The more my partner persists, the more I try to avoid my partner.
However, I still wish to settle down and start a family. Maybe I really don't have the confidence in the relationship... haiz, I really dunno.
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Don't force yourself then? What's the point of forcing yourself into a commitment when you're not even comfortable with it?Originally posted by blurtoad:I may be selfish when it comes to a relationship. As this is not the first time but the third time facing such situation.
I wish that I can be a good companion or soulmate to my partner but I can't simply commit myself to the relationship. The more my partner persists, the more I try to avoid my partner.
However, I still wish to settle down and start a family. Maybe I really don't have the confidence in the relationship... haiz, I really dunno. -
har???Originally posted by blurtoad:How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!!
u said u dun know how to love urself yet u said u r selfish when it comes to relationship. Contradicting....
maybe start askin urself y d contradiction then find out wat makes u to be selfish in relationship. -
gif time urself to tink abt it, or talk to ur close fren regarding dis matter. i guess ur close frends will help u.Originally posted by blurtoad:How to love someone when I dun even noe how to love myself ???
In a dilemma now as what i am suppose to do and what I really want in a relationship.
Anyone able to advice or has been in the same dilemma as what I am in now?
How u overcome the problems faced?
Thks in advance!!
in da meantime before u sort out urself, juz dun go into 1 r/s. wait u hurt another party without knowing it urself. -
Just because you'll fall, doesn't mean that you shouldn't walk.... Sometimes some hurts are inevitable in a relatoinship...Originally posted by WrX_STi:gif time urself to tink abt it, or talk to ur close fren regarding dis matter. i guess ur close frends will help u.
in da meantime before u sort out urself, juz dun go into 1 r/s. wait u hurt another party without knowing it urself.