How do you know??
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If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further??
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women are hard to understand... tats all i can say...
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haha... me noe tat too... Anyone else got any other views??
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do or don't.
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As long as she haven't rejected you yet, you will always stand a chance.Originally posted by Super2004:If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further?? -
I think you stand a chance..Originally posted by Super2004:If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further??
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Originally posted by Super2004:If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further??
Not neccessary - This cannot guarantee you anything. Based on talking and sms comfortability, it doesn't mean you stand a chance. Don't place high hope, especially if her personality is friendly, natural and sociable.
Of course, you can move further from a friendship if love does blossom.
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I think have to look for the signs that she is also interested in you.
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stil d same ger-ger from ur earlier post ah?Originally posted by Super2004:If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further??
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yah... jus wanted some ppl opinions especially ladies... haha.
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mi lady... ok lah, u must test test water... like ask her out on dates...
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ask before liao... she said can but must ask her fren who noes both of us along... nxt yr going to ns and she said she noe i will miss her and want to see her... haha...
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Depends? Nope.. Who said that?Originally posted by Super2004:If a girl you knows that you like her but do not mind you contacting her like smsing her and talking on the phone, does it mean you stand a chance??? Does being friends mean that you cannot take the relationship further?? -
Originally posted by Super2004:ask before liao... she said can but must ask her fren who noes both of us along... nxt yr going to ns and she said she noe i will miss her and want to see her... haha...
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huh??? Wat do u mean??
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Hi Super2004,Originally posted by Super2004:ask before liao... she said can but must ask her fren who noes both of us along... nxt yr going to ns and she said she noe i will miss her and want to see her... haha...
From what she said to you, I understand that you are happy but you must understand, sometimes a girl likes to tease or to put it crudely, friendly flirting.
If you are game, you can "flirt" along with her by saying to her "Well, I know you'll be missing me when I enter NS too!" and see her reaction. Do be neutral, let her feel that you mean it when you say it even though you may be laughing but be prepared to back down and laugh it off gracefully if she does not see it the same way you do.
It takes time to impress her and let her feel that she's comfortable with you. If she insists on bringing a friend along on the date, accept it and go out. Just be yourself and spend time talking to BOTH persons, not just her alone but do give her that little more attention. If she does have even a little bit of interest in you, she'll be impressed by your confidence and good nature.
Most importantly, only you can see her real feelings to you by her body language and speech. Don't take every little thing as a hint to you because they may just be false herrings from a friendliness or flirtiness. Have a very neutral stand and be yourself. If she really does like you, she'll give you a chance. If she doesn't, what you really do does not matter.
Slowly progress from a group date and ask her out on a single date sometime later. She'll be comfortable if you can suggest somewhere more crowded for a dinner as she won't feel that you are trying something funny. Make her as comfortable as possible, don't be touchy and all that.
Proceed further in the future but not too soon by asking her to a movie or a walk at the beach after dinner or somewhere that 2 of you can be alone but still must have people walking about so that she does not feel threatened.
At any point of time with her you feel that she's at her happiest, give her the element of surprise by asking her whatever questions you want to ask her. Do give her time to think over and don't force her, just let her feel that you are a patient person and truly care for her.
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Dont play mind games lah.
Just grab her suddenly by her waist and "qiang wen" her on her lips..
She will be all yours after tt... girls are not that difficult to understand. -
don be crazy lah... it won work... haha... me also won do it one.
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This will get you a couple of slaps and kicks as you desired.Originally posted by incredible:Dont play mind games lah.
Just grab her suddenly by her waist and "qiang wen" her on her lips..
She will be all yours after tt... girls are not that difficult to understand.
You can try that kind of stunt in those sleazy KTV with those KTV gals, cos it will probably only be effective in those kind of places. -
yah tats wat i think so... me better don do anything funny... haha... me don noe why always thinking bout her... think need to change my needy attitude... no good.
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If you miss her, give her a call then. Regardless whether it is just a 5mins call...but it will definitely make you feel better...happier.Originally posted by Super2004:yah tats wat i think so... me better don do anything funny... haha... me don noe why always thinking bout her... think need to change my needy attitude... no good.
Girls will also miss guys...natural emotions.
Do whatever will make you the happiest...for example if loving her will make you happy, then by all means...have a look at my signature, the first signature. -
u noe arh... smsing her and calling her is ok... she does tok a lot to me... but when i see her in sch... she always seemed pressured toking to me
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If she felt pressured talking to you, then you be a gentlemen and keep the conversation short and sweet to help her out.Originally posted by Super2004:u noe arh... smsing her and calling her is ok... she does tok a lot to me... but when i see her in sch... she always seemed pressured toking to me -
me think nxt time see her in sch... jus say hi... don go up to her and tok to her.