Give Up Or Continue to be friends?

• Steph1125

  10 Jul 04, 22:41

  hello people.
  
  i'm new in here so nice to meet all of you.
  
  hmm.. today i just receive news that one of my good friend actually likes my EX. hmm.. then he asked me, whether should we continue to be friends or just leave it?
  
  i mean afterall, facing on with my good friend and one with my EX.
  
  i don't know what should i do.. so any comments?
  
• MooKu

  10 Jul 04, 23:10

  Can you edit your post a bit? I don't quite understand what you're trying to say.
• parn

  11 Jul 04, 01:21

  Originally posted by Steph1125:

  hello people.
  
  i'm new in here so nice to meet all of you.
  
  hmm.. today i just receive news that one of my good friend actually likes my EX. hmm.. then he asked me, whether should we continue to be friends or just leave it?
  
  i mean afterall, facing on with my good friend and one with my EX.
  
  i don't know what should i do.. so any comments?
  

  Ignore him/her and continue with your daily life like this thing never happened. Best is to stay out of it...never will get hurt and will never hurt anybody.
• the Bear

  11 Jul 04, 01:23

  friend's romantic relationships have got nothing to do with you right?
• WrX_STi

  11 Jul 04, 10:42

  Originally posted by Steph1125:

  hello people.
  
  i'm new in here so nice to meet all of you.
  
  hmm.. today i just receive news that one of my good friend actually likes my EX. hmm.. then he asked me, whether should we continue to be friends or just leave it?
  
  i mean afterall, facing on with my good friend and one with my EX.
  
  i don't know what should i do.. so any comments?
  

  its depending on how u view dis kind of case. for me, if im in ur situation its fine with mi. but ur frend muz noe when its time for u and when its time for ur EX. i tink 3 parties cannot go out together. sure will trigger smthing.
• Steph1125

  11 Jul 04, 12:53

  friend's romantic relationships have got nothing to do with you right?

  Bear, mm huh. it's got nothing to do with me. but it's really difficult for me.. to choose. or maybe i don't have the choice to choose.
  
  i guess the best way is just to see it at a brighter side. isn't that the best way?
  
  Of coz as a friend, i would like to wish them the best. although it's hard, but i would like to learn.. afterall, it's life we're experiencing.
• Nelstar

  11 Jul 04, 13:15

  Originally posted by Steph1125:

  hello people.
  
  i'm new in here so nice to meet all of you.
  
  hmm.. today i just receive news that one of my good friend actually likes my EX. hmm.. then he asked me, whether should we continue to be friends or just leave it?
  
  i mean afterall, facing on with my good friend and one with my EX.
  
  i don't know what should i do.. so any comments?
  

  Sorry, it is indeed confusing.
  
  The good friend is a she, I assumed.
  He refers to your BF right?
• chunyong

  11 Jul 04, 13:19

  well, since EX already why u care so much, if u fall into 'i-have-broken-up-with-him/her-but-i-still-got-feelings-for-him/her' situation then u are stupid and should concentrate on ur work or studies.
• Joshua1975

  11 Jul 04, 13:36

  hmmm.... slowly all will contact less and less, why worried.
• Devil1976

  11 Jul 04, 16:40

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  friend's romantic relationships have got nothing to do with you right?

  Well.. My sentiments' quite the same....
• ahkico

  11 Jul 04, 16:49

  Originally posted by Steph1125:

  hello people.
  
  i'm new in here so nice to meet all of you.
  
  hmm.. today i just receive news that one of my good friend actually likes my EX. hmm.. then he asked me, whether should we continue to be friends or just leave it?
  
  i mean afterall, facing on with my good friend and one with my EX.
  
  i don't know what should i do.. so any comments?
  

  I feel tat the main decision lies in u... Since u feelin confused, is mayb coz ur inner thoughts is tat u don really wish to be friends coz u cannot accept the fact tat ur gd friend n ur ex is tog lor... Though is ex liao, but still find it hard to accept, n tat is ur gd friend n u don wish to lose a friend though...
  
  It is all in the past wif ur ex liao lor... Whoever ur ex or u choose to be wif, is no longer the business of each other liao, no matter how u may feel lor.
  
  Since is ur gd friend, v wasted if for an ex, then don be friends liao lor... At most avoid goin out tog, the 3 of u... N avoid topics about ur ex lor...
  
  The most impt lies in u n how u view the whole matter lor... If u R well n over ur ex, there should be no pro de...