choose either one

• junk

  12 Jul 04, 15:10

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex now i hav make my choice i both oso dun wan i should look 4 my future 1st i hav harden my heart 2 leave n let her go n at the same time i oso dun accept my fren is unfair 2 her thank 4 yours concern thanks\
  
• sgboy2004

  12 Jul 04, 15:44

  get the new one lah... dun go back to the old one lah
• Devil1976

  12 Jul 04, 17:20

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex

  
• Seventh_Son

  12 Jul 04, 19:39

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex

  This is a tough nut to crack....
  
• ahkico

  12 Jul 04, 20:34

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex

  U jus have to decide, btw the two, which do u lik more???
  
  Some times i used tis as a gauge... R u willin to marry her? Live wif her, wif all her bad habits, support her for life, n all?
  
  If the ans is no, then forget it... If yes, then go for it...
  
  NoT sayin u have to marry her la... Jus givin urself a senario...
  
  If u go back to ur ex... I dunno... Sometimes u may still feel for her, but mayb who knows? I think there surely will be somethin in the relationship tat cause it to break down in the first place...
  
  I feel tat, coz u r once close, mayb tis time when u two If i mean, get back tog, the feelin confirm should be diff lor...
  
  Up to u to choose... Jus compare, see which u lik better n make a choice...
  
  
• icezapper

  12 Jul 04, 23:36

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex now i hav make my choice i both oso dun wan i should look 4 my future 1st i hav harden my heart 2 leave n let her go n at the same time i oso dun accept my fren is unfair 2 her thank 4 yours concern thanks\
  

  give your fren a chance
  who know it might work out fine
  and eventually u forgot u feeling toward u ex.
• Boy Next Door => []

  13 Jul 04, 00:39

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex now i hav make my choice i both oso dun wan i should look 4 my future 1st i hav harden my heart 2 leave n let her go n at the same time i oso dun accept my fren is unfair 2 her thank 4 yours concern thanks\
  

  Flip a coin. Heads, u take ur fren. Tails, u take ur ex.
  
  Asking strangers who noe jack squat abt u, to tell u what to do based on barely a paragraph of info, ur better off leaving ur choice to chance.
  
• M©+square

  13 Jul 04, 00:52

  Seriously, are you really going to consider getting into a relationship again?
• Yunhaier

  13 Jul 04, 01:05

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex now i hav make my choice i both oso dun wan i should look 4 my future 1st i hav harden my heart 2 leave n let her go n at the same time i oso dun accept my fren is unfair 2 her thank 4 yours concern thanks\
  

  Accept none?
  
  Now the question is do you bear to sacrifice potential partners for a less risk future relationship? Your current grounds for relationship is weak - accepting for the SAKE of accepting, it wouldn't do you good in any case if you are looking at long term fulfilling relationship.
  
  P.S: Wait usually has no ending. I yet to meet a 'waited relationship'.
  
  Cheers
• gerrykoh

  13 Jul 04, 09:56

  Ask yourself whether your ex still have feelings for u & u have a good chance of getting back together. If not, don't wait for her. Also ask yourself whether u seriously like the other one & not using her as a substitute. Don't enter into another relationship if u are still unsure. U don't need to choose either one if u are not ready
• Devil1976

  13 Jul 04, 12:55

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Seriously, are you really going to consider getting into a relationship again?

  Come one... Don't be so pessimistic..?
• jusgal

  13 Jul 04, 13:05

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  get the new one lah... dun go back to the old one lah

  i agreed. the RS stained will never be able to go back to wat it used to be.
  
• M©+square

  22 Jul 04, 09:52

  Originally posted by junk:

  now i got two choice of choosin one is my fren she ask me 2 give her a ans by tis end of the mth , two is my ex who i still get over i now still like her n i say i will wait for her if i accept my fren it so unfair 2 her n now i jus cant give out my feelin 2 other can someone tel me wat 2 do ? to understand more read my letter to my ex now i hav make my choice i both oso dun wan i should look 4 my future 1st i hav harden my heart 2 leave n let her go n at the same time i oso dun accept my fren is unfair 2 her thank 4 yours concern thanks\
  

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Come one... Don't be so pessimistic..?

  I'm not. I'm just amazed how a person could claim to suffer from the past relationship can now have the pleasure of choice to choose to get attached again.
  Frankly i was touched by the letter to his ex -evelyn (frm stranger to lover n frm lover to stranger)
  
  
  Maybe without giving himself some thoughts, if he could give a new relationship his 100%.
  I'm not sure if he really does mean it when he wrote the thread claiming to wait for his ex. But the new girl seemed to have created a opportunity for his emotional release.
  My indignance is - If he wants to wait for his ex. And PROMISES to wait. Why was the new girl a option???
  
  Anyway, my post was to simulate his thoughts to see if he's ready for another r/s. To re-phrase this posted below: Are you really considering getting into a new relationship at this moment of time?
  

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Seriously, are you really going to consider getting into a relationship again?

  It's was a post of concern...
  But after reading it again this time. It did arose abit of my indignance...
  
  Well, i took it too personal.
  Hope he has made the right decision.
• Devil1976

  22 Jul 04, 14:00

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  It's was a post of concern...
  But after reading it again this time. It did arose abit of my indignance...
  
  Well, i took it too personal.
  Hope he has made the right decision.

  Have you ever kept a DIARY before?
  
  At moments of your life... You just feel this 'RUSH'... This 'anger'... STRONG love... Or 'hatre'?
  
  Well... Life have to go on...? I guess different people going at a different pace...?