do you and your housemate have the whole apt rented by both? if yes... then your housemate should discuss with you... even if the gf wants to move in.. you also need time to find another place..Originally posted by amuletgurl:hey peeps,got an issue,damn troublesome,i have been living wif my housemate for nearly a yr,very good frens wif him,then lately,his gf claimed to have some issues wif her own bestfrens!!!! ,whom she been staying wif for months liao,she forced my housemate n put him in a situation. She wanted to move in wif him,which from wat i know ,he does not want to move in wif her, i asked him y she have issues wif her own bestfrens,he told me she cant explained to him!!! wtf!!!!!
But he assured that she did not have any arguements wif her housemates. From wat i know,she relies on him way too much,i know she wants him to take care of her n probably wants him to pay her expenses, well,i think she is using him too,he is only a student,dun have his own income.
i feel angry becoz i understand his situation. She needs him,if she have probs wif her own bestfrens= group of gals she hanged out all the time,my housemate is her only hope.
Both of them studies in different instituition,so they will face a problem there,and becoz me n him,we stay near the Uni,and now becoz of her,i know he have to look for another place so she wont have trouble getting to her college.
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And when she does move in,i have no choice but to move out,we dun have extra rooms.Now this stresses me!i need to look for a good trustable housemate which is definietly not easy,location n etc.i havent have the chance to give her a piece of my mind yet,i'll c her this weekend when she moves in. i discussed wif my housemate earlier,abt y she cant settle wif her current housemates,but instead,she already told them she's gonna move out,just like that....
I will talk to her,i will ask her y she wants to move out so suddenly,if she cant give me a reasonal answer,she will be expecting something damn NICE from me.....![]()
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Originally posted by amuletgurl:come sg. n stay w me la.....
Originally posted by sgboy2004:mi hav a friend oso liddat .... the girl clinch on to him for $$$, he is madly in love wif her, but not the other way round cos she is using him for $$$ and company, more of the former
haiz, he has fallened too deep for her liao, he wont relent until he gets her; which mi doubt; neither will she relent as she is living off alot via his $$$...
wat to do
Guess it's gonna be difficult? With your previous 'grudge' with her it's quite unlikely that things could be resolved in a peaceful manner? Your best chance would probably be to convince your housemate. Which should also be... Quite a slim chance? Between you and his gf, guess who would he side?Originally posted by amuletgurl:Our place is just to small for 3 ppl,but im quite angry ,im not just gonna lose the best apartment,i will also lose the best housemate of my life. Wif her involved,he too need to find a new location just for her convenience, aiiiiiiiii,i also dun want to live to wif,she offended me b4.I guess theres nothing much to do.
if u lost a frd, he never really was a frd at all.....Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've moved!!!n im very happy wif my new place....but sadly my exhousemate ignores me on msn n not so keen when i call him upi lose a good fren
Well.. Be glad that things turned out for the better...Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've moved!!!n im very happy wif my new place....but sadly my exhousemate ignores me on msn n not so keen when i call him upi lose a good fren
x2Originally posted by Magnus:Actually after lookin' into the situation, I find that his girlfriend is probably jealous and felt uneasy about you staying with your housemate.
The reasons your housemate gave is bull.
And probably your housrmate does not reply your msn is bcos of her.
got...they share the single bed,make noises day n night(that kind lor),shower together when im there,wats all this????the gf want to prove something to me?anyways,i moved out liaoOriginally posted by foxwalk:let the gf move in... into your housemate's room... they can live in same room... then u wun have to move! problem solved...!!![]()
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