I need some advice......
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Hello u guys! Anyway this is my first time in this forum. Well, my story goes like this...i like this girl relly much in my class, but she doesn't seem interested in me. Now i and her are just friends. I am quite plump, and she is slim, so i think she would not be interested in me, but i relly like her. I haven't told her yet, because if she were to reject me, we wouldn't even be frens. Then, i will be so sad.......because i want this frenship to continue....she is always telling me that she likes this guy and that guy and, it relly hurts me to hear her say all that. Tell me, what shud i do? I dun noe whether to pop the Question or not, for fear of destroying our frenship. What if she rejects me?
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try to ask in a joking manner...when she starts talking abt other guys... then suddenly u pop the question "How abt me... u ever or will u ever like me?"... wait for a few seconds... and if she no reaction, just blurt out laughing and say "I joking wif u lah, we are good friends mah... "
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That day....when another guy said jokingly ,"How abt me... u ever or will u ever like me?", like what u say....u noe what she did? She came and ask me whether that guys serious or not. She takes it very seriously, thats why i dun dare to try this joke thing.Originally posted by sgboy2004:try to ask in a joking manner...when she starts talking abt other guys... then suddenly u pop the question "How abt me... u ever or will u ever like me?"... wait for a few seconds... and if she no reaction, just blurt out laughing and say "I joking wif u lah, we are good friends mah... " -
I now very stress sia...tell her, i scared she dun wan fren me, dun tell her, heart very pain.....very love her u noe......everytime see her in class secretly......and one thing...she always ask me who i like, but i dun tell her. She kept guessing other girls, i tell her no. Until now she still asking, but i dun dare answer the truth.
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aiyo then u got other gal frens not??? as in gal classmates....if ve then ask them to help u lor...by asking the gal,whom u liked, whether she like u a not lor???
but muz b those gals tt u can trust one leh...or else..... 
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like that oso very bad lar...later today my fren tell her then tomolo she dun talk to me already.
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u primary school nia...study lah
anyway, life is just liddat... u have to "gamble" to see ... but dun u feel tat she has some feelings for u meh... or she just wanna treat u as a friend...
Try a heart-to-heart talk wif her... if it does not turn out well, then let her know u understand her better and liddat might even bring the friendship closer
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btw, why your nick
SBS9845X? u drive tat bus or u take that bus to school ? -
ask ur gal fren(classmate) to ask her naturally la....as in u noe gals always like to gossip...then surely got gossip until this topic de...then by tt time...ask ur classmate to ask her lor...whether she(ur dream gal) ever like u b4.....Originally posted by SBS9845X:like that oso very bad lar...later today my fren tell her then tomolo she dun talk to me already. -
Maybe next time he use dis bus as his bridal car baOriginally posted by sgboy2004:btw, why your nick
SBS9845X? u drive tat bus or u take that bus to school ?
Ok. J. kidding -
u understand wat im toking not???
haha i think even myself oso dun no wat the hell im toking...hahaha -
HELLO......I am in Sec 3...Originally posted by sgboy2004:u primary school nia...study lah
anyway, life is just liddat... u have to "gamble" to see ... but dun u feel tat she has some feelings for u meh... or she just wanna treat u as a friend...
Try a heart-to-heart talk wif her... if it does not turn out well, then let her know u understand her better and liddat might even bring the friendship closer -
If u have been to buses.sgforums.com then u will noe. Its just a fave bus, k?Originally posted by sgboy2004:btw, why your nick
SBS9845X? u drive tat bus or u take that bus to school ? -
But hor...i not good looking leh...somemore got one big spare tyre...people very slim u noe....
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mi too
mi so ugly...and looks like a crocodile -
Sad leh....relly like her man....but dun wan to destroy me and her frenship. U put ur photo here leh, i wanna seeOriginally posted by sgboy2004:mi too
mi so ugly...and looks like a crocodile
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BTW, sgboy2004, do u have MSN? Give me ur add leh...:
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Can you just take her as a friend? From the things she've been telling you, it's quite likely that you won't stand a high chance for now.. But in the future? Things are always an unknown...Originally posted by SBS9845X:Hello u guys! Anyway this is my first time in this forum. Well, my story goes like this...i like this girl relly much in my class, but she doesn't seem interested in me. Now i and her are just friends. I am quite plump, and she is slim, so i think she would not be interested in me, but i relly like her. I haven't told her yet, because if she were to reject me, we wouldn't even be frens. Then, i will be so sad.......because i want this frenship to continue....she is always telling me that she likes this guy and that guy and, it relly hurts me to hear her say all that. Tell me, what shud i do? I dun noe whether to pop the Question or not, for fear of destroying our frenship. What if she rejects me?
Sometimes a friend can mean so much more than a bf. And just like you've mentioned that your appearance probably won't appeal to her, your only chance is for her to know you better and decide for herself.. You are already considered lucky enough in the sense that you can at least still be her friend? Some people (especially if they're not appealing to the other party) might not even get anywhere close to there...
So accept a FRIEND? If things should be it would be in the future... No point pushing it if it's not? There're more beautiful things in life than BGRs... -
Only pop the qns out when you are very confirm and sure that you will get this girl.. If not i suggest you dun say it.. SOmetimes is better to stay as a friend than a couple.. You scared of rejection.. this shows how much confidence and believes you have for yourself..Originally posted by SBS9845X:Hello u guys! Anyway this is my first time in this forum. Well, my story goes like this...i like this girl relly much in my class, but she doesn't seem interested in me. Now i and her are just friends. I am quite plump, and she is slim, so i think she would not be interested in me, but i relly like her. I haven't told her yet, because if she were to reject me, we wouldn't even be frens. Then, i will be so sad.......because i want this frenship to continue....she is always telling me that she likes this guy and that guy and, it relly hurts me to hear her say all that. Tell me, what shud i do? I dun noe whether to pop the Question or not, for fear of destroying our frenship. What if she rejects me?
It's hurtful to hear that she keep telling you who she likes.. this n that.. But then again... she trust you that much.. that she tells you everything.. isn't it good.. SInce you know that you dun really do stand a chance.. ,unless you have already planned your path on how to woo her.. slowly by slowly.., what you can give her.. is your best wishes to her... whoever she is with..
You are still very young.. there's a long long path to go... now that most of the time you only mixed around with your own sec sch friends.. as time goes by.. you meet more friends.. and maybe you'll find someone right for you.. Time flies.. ppl change... Noone knows what will happen in the future..
Loving someone doens't mean that you must have that person.. Maybe down the road.. when both of you become so close friends.. you understand her so well.. and somehow..someday.. you find that actually she's not the girl you wanted.. By then.. maybe you can actually confess to her that you did like her b4.. but that was long time ago.. whatever it is.. you are still friends.. there's nothing more than that..
Like i said earlier.. if you really wan to confess to her.. be prepare for the worst.. dun pinned too much hope on it.. However.. if you jus wanna tell her about you liking her.. and that's about it.. then go ahead.. jus say it out.. and that's it.. then after.. treat everything as per normal.. you still treat her as friend.. dun let her feel that you treat her extraordinary.. something more than jus a friend..
*think about whether you should or not.. if you wanna have her.. are you confident in getting her?? if not.. DUN!
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She treats you as a normal guy friend that she is not interested to consider as a potential bf.Originally posted by SBS9845X:Hello u guys! Anyway this is my first time in this forum. Well, my story goes like this...i like this girl relly much in my class, but she doesn't seem interested in me. Now i and her are just friends. I am quite plump, and she is slim, so i think she would not be interested in me, but i relly like her. I haven't told her yet, because if she were to reject me, we wouldn't even be frens. Then, i will be so sad.......because i want this frenship to continue....she is always telling me that she likes this guy and that guy and, it relly hurts me to hear her say all that. Tell me, what shud i do? I dun noe whether to pop the Question or not, for fear of destroying our frenship. What if she rejects me? -
Dunnoe y but when i saw this statement....i nearly luff my lungs, heart, stomach outOriginally posted by sgboy2004:mi too
mi so ugly...and looks like a crocodile
How's tt u think u look like a crocodile???? -
I think just tell her what you feel.
nothin wrong with it. Who knows she might like you too?
When you said you are fat, that isn't a problem.
When u have a good heart. -
Maybe u should try & exercise & make yourself trim. This will be good for u (more healthy), keep fit before u enter NS & improve your self esteem. Girls like well toned guys. Remain as friends & give hints to her and see her response.
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get to noe her more n deeper then evaluate ur feelings b4 poping the question...
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Not true... "When you hit the grass, the snake might run off..."Originally posted by Seventh_Son:I think just tell her what you feel.
nothin wrong with it. Who knows she might like you too?
When you said you are fat, that isn't a problem.
When u have a good heart.
When you strike, the opportunity should be right....