Sigh... dun click here if you're HAPPY...

• Farmer Brown

  14 Jul 04, 14:08

  alright all u unhappy people... here's a thread for u... yes.. air all your unhappy grievances and let it stay here.. let it stay in this thread such that they do not follow us into the real world... and u happy people.. if u come in here, in defiance to my topic title, may our unhappiness in this thread follow u and bug u where ever u are.. i hate happy people...............
  
  my grieviance:
  
  I am lonely... i find no meaning in life, i can't seem to set goals cause it all seems meaningless.. YET i'm not depressed... this sucks
• coolger03

  14 Jul 04, 14:11

  i'm not happy... but i'm too sleepy now to think abt why i'm not happy...
  hmm... *yawn*
• Kel^83

  14 Jul 04, 16:25

  don find any meaning in life also.
  
  so sianzzz
  
  sick n tired
  
• Devil1976

  14 Jul 04, 17:02

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  alright all u unhappy people... here's a thread for u... yes.. air all your unhappy grievances and let it stay here.. let it stay in this thread such that they do not follow us into the real world... and u happy people.. if u come in here, in defiance to my topic title, may our unhappiness in this thread follow u and bug u where ever u are.. i hate happy people...............
  
  my grieviance:
  
  I am lonely... i find no meaning in life, i can't seem to set goals cause it all seems meaningless.. YET i'm not depressed... this sucks

  Is this a CURSE
• Devil1976

  14 Jul 04, 17:10

  It's unhealthy to write down your UNHAPPINESS if you don't know how to let it go and only so that you can REFER BACK to them again... You've got a CHOICE You CHOOSE to refer back to them...?
  
  Unless you can write them down and throw them away... Or only to look back at them years later to find them amusing should you be doing such...
  
  HAPPY or NOT, you DO have a CHOICE to a certain extent...
• DrAlpha

  14 Jul 04, 17:12

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  I am lonely... i find no meaning in life, i can't seem to set goals cause it all seems meaningless.. YET i'm not depressed... this sucks

  mi is e same as u 2....
• peace1983

  14 Jul 04, 17:17

  read my signature..It describe how i felt...
• jolin80

  14 Jul 04, 17:29

  this yr is not a gd year for mi
  haiz every bad stuff seem come to mi one by one
  not berry happy after all
  life is meaningless
  
• gaoyue

  14 Jul 04, 20:06

  i met with things that i did not expect, sometimes i feel overwhelmed, i should be happy considering how much i have been through to reach here, but i am not. i know what i should do, but can't help feel worried, upset and even helplessness. always thinking, i should have done this, why does such things happen to me, what should i do next, which choice is best, what if this happen, what will i do if this happen, have i prepared my options, am i ready,these throughts are redundant, i know, but i still face these questions every night and every morning.
  
  but then again, it really doesn't matter because unlike many others, i know exactly where should i go, only a matter of whether i can succeed. all these are only a preview of what is to come. if i cannot progress, than i will cease to exist. i must learn to relax myself when i am relaxed. funny concept, bt its true..
• Lingos

  14 Jul 04, 20:10

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  alright all u unhappy people... here's a thread for u... yes.. air all your unhappy grievances and let it stay here.. let it stay in this thread such that they do not follow us into the real world... and u happy people.. if u come in here, in defiance to my topic title, may our unhappiness in this thread follow u and bug u where ever u are.. i hate happy people...............
  
  my grieviance:
  
  I am lonely... i find no meaning in life, i can't seem to set goals cause it all seems meaningless.. YET i'm not depressed... this sucks

  That's cos you're doing nothing.
  Ya know what.. i still don't have a purpose in life. I just live it day to day.
  I used to know this couple.. quite sick really. I don't know if i was jealous or something. both of them were in the same course. Same.. class, same project group. One of those that makes you sicccccccc.. Anyway, point is, she's gorgeous, smart, understanding, patient.. he's smart whatever blah blah. Couples like that just sorta rub it in your face isn't it? Back then (5/6 years ago) you could just imagine them in their sickly hdb flat which they BOTH AGREED ON everything in the house.
  SICK SICK SICK.. so i totally know how you feel!! Yet can't really offer a solution.. just think of sticking pins in their sick perfect bodies.
• *Twinkle Bell*

  14 Jul 04, 20:54

  I am very hurt. He betrayed me. After all that i did for him, he cheat on me. He went to have sex with a prostitute. Thats not the worst, he came and look for me 3hrs later and make love to me. He didn't tell me anything till he got worried because of infection at his penis. How can he do that? What should i do? Forgive? Revenge? help me, please [/quote]
• Hokou

  14 Jul 04, 21:23

  Originally posted by *Twinkle Bell*:

  I am very hurt. He betrayed me. After all that i did for him, he cheat on me. He went to have sex with a prostitute. Thats not the worst, he came and look for me 3hrs later and make love to me. He didn't tell me anything till he got worried because of infection at his penis. How can he do that? What should i do? Forgive? Revenge? help me, please [/quote]

  Dun be too upset over the matter.... have a good talk with him and most importantly go for HIV/VD test in case... break up with him if u think he's not worthy for u... Lots of guys are waiting for u... too..
  
  Regards
• agk_titan

  14 Jul 04, 21:46

  i feel sick..why had things gone so bad with my gf..i wanted to forget all our petty quarrels and carry on with her. i love her. but she keeps giving me attitude and that is something i cannot bear for long everytime.
  there are times when i have her interests at heart but all she thinks is that i am ba-dao (MCP) and want her to follow everything i say...why issit like that??
  why does my relationships give me so much troubles?? i just want the best for her and for both of us to be happy.
  but all she says is that i dun understand her.. but her mood changes like flipping pages of a book..its hard for me to follow along everytime...
  i wanna die and forget abt this all.. its meaningless for me to carry on loving her when she doesnt even want to acknowledge it and understand all the things i've done for her..i feel no desire to live le...
  why are things like that?? all i wanted to be was a caring bf but she.. she just want things to be totally her way..
  *sigh..i dun want to talk abt it..i feel no love from her..only her tantrums and sarcastic remarks.. im sick of it... AAARRRGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• martin_lim85

  14 Jul 04, 21:55

  Why They gave Me Pes E!!!!!!
• laurence82

  14 Jul 04, 21:59

  ok then
  
  why i have no money, no looks, no gf, no nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  arghhhhh
  
  *go jump down*
• frOst^~^nOva

  14 Jul 04, 22:00

  guys and gals, i think u need a religion. Only then will life have meaning.
• martin_lim85

  14 Jul 04, 22:04

  Why i bo money, bo char bo peng nu, and why they gave me Pes E for NS!!!!
  
  i really unhappy leh
  
  no more meaning in life liao....
• badboy

  14 Jul 04, 22:16

  I am a doctor.
  
  I am depressed. A depressed doctor? I must be kidding...
  
  My gf left me. I still have to see patients... fucking patients... and their fucking families... and treat their fucking disease like I'm the most noble person on earth. I hate my job. I am unfeeling. I don't feel a single thing when my patients die.
  
  Tomorrow is another day. More people will fall sick, some will recover, some will die. I don't really care. I don't feel a thing...
• parn

  14 Jul 04, 22:39

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  alright all u unhappy people... here's a thread for u... yes.. air all your unhappy grievances and let it stay here.. let it stay in this thread such that they do not follow us into the real world... and u happy people.. if u come in here, in defiance to my topic title, may our unhappiness in this thread follow u and bug u where ever u are.. i hate happy people...............
  
  my grieviance:
  
  I am lonely... i find no meaning in life, i can't seem to set goals cause it all seems meaningless.. YET i'm not depressed... this sucks

  I'm just moody....often start off my day with then sometimes or but most of the time is until I got date/gathering then I'm and will make sure everyone becomes so that I will be when it ends. Should be before I go to sleep.
  
  Think we should have a Gripe forum instead....for everybody to kpkb until their heart's delight.
  
• the.raven

  14 Jul 04, 22:40

  my life suxorz!!!!!
• parn

  14 Jul 04, 22:41

  Originally posted by badboy:

  I am a doctor.
  
  I am depressed. A depressed doctor? I must be kidding...
  
  My gf left me. I still have to see patients... fucking patients... and their fucking families... and treat their fucking disease like I'm the most noble person on earth. I hate my job. I am unfeeling. I don't feel a single thing when my patients die.
  
  Tomorrow is another day. More people will fall sick, some will recover, some will die. I don't really care. I don't feel a thing...

  I like your job, it is a my childhood dream to be a doctor. But I'm not smart enough. You are a noble person if you are a hospital doctor.
• laurence82

  14 Jul 04, 22:42

  Originally posted by parn:

  I'm just moody....often start off my day with then sometimes or but most of the time is until I got date/gathering then I'm and will make sure everyone becomes so that I will be when it ends. Should be before I go to sleep.
  
  Think we should have a Gripe forum instead....for everybody to kpkb until their heart's delight.
  

  we got a kpkb forum liao, and many others...
• Infernal Affairs

  14 Jul 04, 23:20

  I know i'm sick, but whenever i meet with failures or rejections, i really HATE all the happy, loving couples out there..
  
  I have a fren who is really below average in every aspects ( looks, character etc) but he has this gd lookin, understanding GF who stood by him for a few yrs..
  And despite all the stupid things he'd done, his gf will always forgive him & go bac to him in the end.
  Does he has this God-given rite to do as he pleases, as he'll always be forgvien & accepted.
  
  ON the other hand, i done a lot to improve myself-- frm external to internal, frm appearance to character, but the slightest mistake i make , i seem to lose the love & acceptance of my loved ones.
  
  WHY??????????????
• laurence82

  14 Jul 04, 23:26

  Originally posted by Infernal Affairs:

  I know i'm sick, but whenever i meet with failures or rejections, i really HATE all the happy, loving couples out there..
  
  I have a fren who is really below average in every aspects ( looks, character etc) but he has this gd lookin, understanding GF who stood by him for a few yrs..
  And despite all the stupid things he'd done, his gf will always forgive him & go bac to him in the end.
  Does he has this God-given rite to do as he pleases, as he'll always be forgvien & accepted.
  
  ON the other hand, i done a lot to improve myself-- frm external to internal, frm appearance to character, but the slightest mistake i make , i seem to lose the love & acceptance of my loved ones.
  
  WHY??????????????

  Without regards to the stupid things ur friends does, once my friends taught me this
  
  sha ren you sha fu
  
  meaning silly or those gong kia has all the fortune
  
  Basically its akin to 'too many cooks spoil the broth'. We do so many things to improve ourself in social or academic standing or whatever - took a little effort to comb the hair, study a bit more, say more mature sounding words to friends and so on..
  
  But does all these matter? Why sweat the small stuff? Silly people sometimes may have seems so much not because lady luck seems to fall on them, but maybe our expectations of ourself or our demands are too high.
  
  Look what is seriously relevant in your life, and focus on that path you want.
  
• A Beautiful Mind

  15 Jul 04, 00:26

  Originally posted by agk_titan:

  i feel sick..why had things gone so bad with my gf..i wanted to forget all our petty quarrels and carry on with her. i love her. but she keeps giving me attitude and that is something i cannot bear for long everytime.
  there are times when i have her interests at heart but all she thinks is that i am ba-dao (MCP) and want her to follow everything i say...why issit like that??
  why does my relationships give me so much troubles?? i just want the best for her and for both of us to be happy. but all she says is that i dun understand her.. but her mood changes like flipping pages of a book..its hard for me to follow along everytime...
  i wanna die and forget abt this all.. its meaningless for me to carry on loving her when she doesnt even want to acknowledge it and understand all the things i've done for her..i feel no desire to live le...
  why are things like that?? all i wanted to be was a caring bf but she.. she just want things to be totally her way..
  *sigh..i dun want to talk abt it..i feel no love from her..only her tantrums and sarcastic remarks.. im sick of it... AAARRRGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Had a somewhat similar experience b4.. cld understand ur feeling.
  Sometimes only 1 word can describe my ex & the relation we had FARK