Guy 36, Girl 23

sgboy2004

14 Jul 04, 20:32

The guy is 36, my friend. The girl is 23.

Guy likes girl.

Girl seems to be making use of guy in terms of company and money.

Guy ask girl for a deeper relationship.

Girl says her mother cannot accept her having a 13-year older bf.

What guy should do??

ahkico

14 Jul 04, 20:38

Most prob the gal is really not interested n is jus givin an excuse not to go in depper wif the guy... N by puttin the blame on her mother, she is excuseable, coz isn her fault... n she still could continue to mak use of the guy...

Tell the gal, either we go in for a deeper relationship or it is over... Laughing

Age doesn't really have a prob... Esp if the guy is the older one... Least more acceptable than if the gal is the older one... Jie di lian...

chunyong

14 Jul 04, 20:42

well, dump the gal, ask her to Foxtrot Oscar....

I-like-flings(m)

14 Jul 04, 20:42

screw that gal lor.. make fren preg lor.. then she will beg ur fren to marry her lor Mr. Green

sgboy2004

14 Jul 04, 20:45

or mi friend get the rotan???

I-like-flings(m)

14 Jul 04, 20:46

why??? she 23 already what.. not underaged what...

HALI

14 Jul 04, 20:49

um... you are the guy arh Question

BaByBoY

14 Jul 04, 20:50

23 le wat rotan??

sgboy2004

14 Jul 04, 20:57

mi friend is 36... for rape, rotan mah

NeonTetra

14 Jul 04, 21:23

ditzy

14 Jul 04, 21:25

Can lah. Pass.

FireIce

14 Jul 04, 22:12

guy shd stop being a paedophile
and ger shd give sgboy2004 a chance

parn

14 Jul 04, 22:54

Girl is still not ready to break free from her mother. Girl is close to her mother and is an obedient girl. Girl love her mother more than any one else in her family. Guy should be mature enough and understand her situation, only then Girl will not felt stress when being with Guy.

Does Girl like/love Guy?

If Girl like/love Guy, then Guy should be gracious and should not pressure/demand Girl in any way during the relationship. Girl will find a way and all she needs is a lot of understanding and patience and care and love from Guy. If Guy suspects Girl is making use of him, then Guy should discontinue the relationship with Girl. True/Real love is never associate with money as true/real love can never be bought. It must be earned.

Yunhaier

14 Jul 04, 22:58

Kill two bird with one stone? Twisted Evil

Mandark

14 Jul 04, 22:59

She is either playing games with the guy or her mother has a hold of her and that's never good for a relationship since she's probably telling her "you don't need him.", etc. But I could be wrong.

gerrykoh

15 Jul 04, 10:00

Aiyah forget her. Give the older girls a chance!

mahai102

15 Jul 04, 19:36

ask her to dig money frm sgboy, then can transfer her 'love' & 'attention' to sgboy...but then that means sgboy must have fat wallet hor...if not, after playing him for one day, sure wallet punctured already, look like flat tyre only... Confused

BrUtUs

15 Jul 04, 20:04

forget abt her...

blowfish

15 Jul 04, 20:11

the girl is just riding a donkey looking for a horse...
get what i mean...

RainbowPrincess

15 Jul 04, 20:33

U = 36 yrs old?

RP

AzRaeL

15 Jul 04, 20:45

guy 36 girl 23 no big deal but she's using him for money and stuff..so dump

Ogbunwezeh

15 Jul 04, 21:31

This type of materialistic gal can only treat her like a sex object. Since she want the guyz money den give her loh, well the guyz can also take her body instead. Dun be a fool to fall in love with this type of gal...

Xcert

16 Jul 04, 09:56

guy asks gal if gal loves him and wants to spend the rest of her life with him.
if yes...guy and gal work towards getting him accepted by her mother.
if no...guy goes to find another gal.end of story.

Devil1976

16 Jul 04, 13:49

BE SMART or

BE USED.

jOhO

16 Jul 04, 13:51

guy should go out with mother instead.