Guys, do u mind if your gfren has ...

• blurtoad

  14 Jul 04, 21:54

  Guys, do u mind if your gfren has scoliosis?
• sgboy2004

  14 Jul 04, 21:59

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Guys, do u mind if your gfren has scoliosis?

  wat's that... those england powderful one pls dun answer hor, cos u explain mi oso no understand
• Forever84

  14 Jul 04, 22:06

  -Backspaced-
  
  be more open abt it
  be supportive
  if u can't accept it for who she is
  then... i tink u should really just leave her instead
• the Bear

  14 Jul 04, 22:09

  thought it was severe spinal curvature?
  
  

  Originally posted by Forever84:

  skin condition
  
  be more open abt it
  be supportive
  if u can't accept it for who she is
  then... i tink u should really just leave her instead

• parn

  14 Jul 04, 22:20

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Guys, do u mind if your gfren has scoliosis?

  Hmm...so far I only know guys who has it. But regardless of guy or gal, if you really love her...you wouldn't mind. Nobody's perfect.
• blurtoad

  14 Jul 04, 22:21

  Curvature of the spine.
  
  Some may be mild and some quite severe that cause a significant deformity. Like hunchback but the hump is on either side of the back.
  
• chunyong

  14 Jul 04, 22:24

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Curvature of the spine.
  
  Some may be mild and some quite severe that cause a significant deformity. Like hunchback but the hump is on either side of the back.
  

  last time my com sci teacher also like dat....not really hunchback but there is a hump on one side dat makes him look like he is leaning onto one side of his body
• somekpody

  14 Jul 04, 22:25

  hi...i have known a friend who has the same illness as ur girlfren. i know Her pain i know her seriousness with that illness. i got a cd which i hope to pass to u..will u pls contact me by replying me thru emails. [email protected]
  
  regards
  BC
• Forever84

  14 Jul 04, 22:43

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  thought it was severe spinal curvature?
  
  

  Oops?
  i got it confused with something else
  my bad
  
  well no matter
  my statement stands
  u should b supportive i tink
• blurtoad

  14 Jul 04, 23:16

  Some of them can't wear tight fitting clothes as the hump will be very obvious.
  And they can't even wear the type of fashinable clothings they like due to the deformity.
  
  One of my gd fren got very low self-esteem due to this.
• UandMe

  15 Jul 04, 12:05

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Guys, do u mind if your gfren has scoliosis?

  if u mind, would she even becomes ur gf??
• blurtoad

  15 Jul 04, 21:52

  Originally posted by UandMe:

  if u mind, would she even becomes ur gf??

  she is one of my gfren but opps... i am not a "he" leh.
  So not in a gd position to answer frm the guy's point of view.
• edwinSSM

  16 Jul 04, 16:38

  I'm male and i have scoliosis... Not really severe, just a mild case. Yes one side of my back is humped... I searched through the net once and found out about a surgical procedure that can correct the problem. Then went to my family doctor and asked him for his opinion.
  
  He told me that its a major operation as it involves the spine, any mistake could leave me in a paralysis state. I pondered over the factors and decided to leave it to a later stage in life after my NS.
  
  To tell u the truth, if i see a girl with scoliosis, I will not like her cos i know how sickening it looks. But there will always be those who can overlook major flaws on ones body.
• BaByBoY

  16 Jul 04, 16:47

  u love her for wat she is..
  if u wanna pick on her based on this in wat sense do u love her and make her ur gf in the 1st place??
  
  there`s a serious doubt in ur love for her..
  if u cant accpet her for wat she is..
  pls leave her and let her find someone more deserving of her love..
• Devil1976

  16 Jul 04, 17:05

  Originally posted by edwinSSM:

  I'm male and i have scoliosis... Not really severe, just a mild case. Yes one side of my back is humped... I searched through the net once and found out about a surgical procedure that can correct the problem. Then went to my family doctor and asked him for his opinion.
  
  He told me that its a major operation as it involves the spine, any mistake could leave me in a paralysis state. I pondered over the factors and decided to leave it to a later stage in life after my NS.
  
  To tell u the truth, if i see a girl with scoliosis, I will not like her cos i know how sickening it looks. But there will always be those who can overlook major flaws on ones body.

  I guess the looks is one thing. But its really the severity she's in and the possible complications and problems you'll be facing is you decide to live with her if her case is severe?
• Nelstar

  16 Jul 04, 17:08

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Some of them can't wear tight fitting clothes as the hump will be very obvious.
  And they can't even wear the type of fashinable clothings they like due to the deformity.
  
  One of my gd fren got very low self-esteem due to this.

  If not severe, it is still bearable for most people.
  
  However, people who are considering a biological child will find it harder to accept a partner who has that.
  
  Those who are superficial will go for the looks.... Most people are superficial...
• gaoyue

  16 Jul 04, 17:13

  yes i will, but i won't detest someone becuz of dat.
• Thailand_Hero

  17 Jul 04, 03:09

  Originally posted by blurtoad:

  Guys, do u mind if your gfren has scoliosis?

  In wat way does that affect her sexual function?
  
  anyway if she does not mind u telling the whole world bout her crooked spine...i think she loves u
• jOhO

  17 Jul 04, 03:15

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• Networker

  17 Jul 04, 11:15

  I have a girlfriend who suffers from scoliosis too. She has a kind and understanding boyfriend. Her doctor told her that she will have complications if she is pregnant because her case is quite severe.
  
  Her boyfriend is supportive of her and doesn't mind. If they can't have kids of their own, he doesn't mind adopting. They have been together for almost 7 years now.
  
  I believe that what matters is you must be able to accept her without any hesitation if you love her. Not everyone can accept this. but there are some things more important than just physical appearance
• BonJovi

  17 Jul 04, 11:18

  Originally posted by Networker:

  I have a girlfriend who suffers from scoliosis too. She has a kind and understanding boyfriend. Her doctor told her that she will have complications if she is pregnant because her case is quite severe.
  
  Her boyfriend is supportive of her and doesn't mind. If they can't have kids of their own, he doesn't mind adopting. They have been together for almost 7 years now.
  
  I believe that what matters is you must be able to accept her without any hesitation if you love her. Not everyone can accept this. but there are some things more important than just physical appearance

  +1
• junk

  17 Jul 04, 17:17

  love her wat she r
• 'm back

  18 Jul 04, 14:48

  
  i orso got......
  but i find it so hard to fail my IPPT despite my disability.
  my sit ups still 5 points though now i am aged 30 plus.....
  its all up in the mind.........
  and i am so strong wif it..........
  training my stamina now.....
  hope i can run with some hard music this time and aim for that 400 dollars
  instead of 200 dollars ever year during ICT/ non-ICT IPPT