i really need help here!!!
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the story is like this......
recently found out tat i like a female friend of mine... have been friends for around 4 year plus liao... we r both in the same class and cca from sec 1 to sec 4... tats y we become very good friends... recently we started to go out more often to shop or watch movies.. we could talk and talk and joke and joke. this is when i found out i really enjoy spending my time wif her... however i thinking if i sld tell her i want to be wif her or not.... somemore i also scared to do so as i happen to like her best fren also last time... i scared tat she might think tat i'm a guy who will always end up liking a fren of the opposite sex... so hw u all guys think wat shld i do? tell her i like her or wat??? -
well..Trust ur heart..Do what u want..Don't look back after it happen if there is sadness..Best try and u wouldn't regret..If she reject then u be her friend loh..Wait for her if u really like her..But most importantly..Go ahead with ur heart..
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TELL HER!
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Yes, tell her.
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my heart tells me to tell her i like her... but i not too sure if i going to succeed or not... i want to know if i had chance before asking her le...
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if u neber try, u neber know
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kkk.... any special way to say tat to her??? or write letter better???
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ok during the times u with her..She enjoy it?how her expression toward u?Originally posted by ioio:my heart tells me to tell her i like her... but i not too sure if i going to succeed or not... i want to know if i had chance before asking her le...
U sense happiness?...Her attitude toward u..Was it good?
this should push ur chance to tell her..
Anyway..Sometime is very natural for u 2 to get together even without telling her..Just continue care for her in a more direct way and she will be able to sense it..
But is still best to let her know how u feel..Maybe u can drop some huge hint before telling her..
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Originally posted by ioio:the story is like this......
recently found out tat i like a female friend of mine... have been friends for around 4 year plus liao... we r both in the same class and cca from sec 1 to sec 4... tats y we become very good friends... recently we started to go out more often to shop or watch movies.. we could talk and talk and joke and joke. this is when i found out i really enjoy spending my time wif her... however i thinking if i sld tell her i want to be wif her or not.... somemore i also scared to do so as i happen to like her best fren also last time... i scared tat she might think tat i'm a guy who will always end up liking a fren of the opposite sex... so hw u all guys think wat shld i do? tell her i like her or wat???
If you scatter your liking everywhere, you may end up with nothing.
If you wanna tell her - what's your overall intention? Merely to let her know or you wished to create a relationship from there? If you desire the latter, do attempt to chase before you pop the question. Make her fall for you and begin from there - It will be so much easier.
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well.... tat a good response... thanks for tat...
ya... i think we really enjoy the time when we go out together loh... can chat and chat loh...
then somemore she also like to call my house and chat wif me also.....
u think sld i continue to go out wif her until her birtgday arrive and i say 'i love u' to her??? cause maybe will have greater chance to let her feel touched tat day..... -
Good idea. Wait for her birthday. Buy her a nice gift + flowers. If u too shy to tell her, write it on a card how u feel. Good luck
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Would she grow fangs and bite your head off if you told her you love her?
As far as winners and losers are concerned, there are only three types:
1) Winners lor
2) Losers who could have been winners had they done what they had to do
3) Losers who tried everything possible but still cannot make it.
If we have to be losers, at least be the loser who has tried his/her best!
You don't want to be her best friend or whatever you call it. How are you going to tolerate it if she starts to rain praises on one of the cute guys in school/work? How are you going to accept it if you find out that they have done "it"?
Are you going to wait for man to start building hotels on the moon before you tell her?
Assuming she knows you like her, how do you think she views you? Oh, as a person who values frienship over his love and happiness? Get real. She will only look down on you as a loser who dare not speak for what he believes in.
Go on. Tell her. If she is yours, she will accept you. If not, move on. There are more than one cow, oops, I mean flower in this world. -
Don't confess your feelings to her on her birthday unless you want her to experience stress/shock on her birthday.Originally posted by ioio:well.... tat a good response... thanks for tat...
ya... i think we really enjoy the time when we go out together loh... can chat and chat loh...
then somemore she also like to call my house and chat wif me also.....
u think sld i continue to go out wif her until her birtgday arrive and i say 'i love u' to her??? cause maybe will have greater chance to let her feel touched tat day.....
Find any other day after her birthday...she will feel touched if you confess in the correct moment/manner and her birthday is a wrong moment/mood for you.
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anyone got experience of gd frens becoming stead in the end??? hmm....
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sure got those cases one la...
anyway even if u fail, u can still come here for us to comfort u
of course we wish u success. post here if u succeed ok?
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Originally posted by Axelheat755:sure got those cases one la...
anyway even if u fail, u can still come here for us to comfort u
of course we wish u success. post here if u succeed ok? 
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YES TELL HER!!! bUT do not EXPECT A REPONSE IN UR FAVOR....respect wat she has to say......so dat u both can resume ur frenship
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Before expressing to her, maybe you can ask yourself this question, "Are you prepared to accept the outcome?".
Good for you if the outcome is that she accepts you as her boyfriend. But what if the outcome is the other way?
Don't get me wrong if you feel that i am "pouring cold water on you". By asking you to get prepared is to prevent you from getting lost and not knowing how to handle the situation.
Well, just my advice here. It's all really up to you when you feel like expressing to her.
All the best to you ok.