a stupid girl?
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i got a good friend who is 30+ and her bf 20+. she is a divorcee, not very attractive not rich not slim. her bf is handsome, owns a shop, popular with girls. ( wow, Like a dream come true? ) anyway, i learned from other sources that the bf has gone out with another girl ( friend of my friend, pretty ) a few times when he was stilling dating my friend and he confessed that they only kissed and petted during these meetings (under the influence of alcohol, u believe?) my friend believe him and stood by him. For the past one year, he has a few dates from the opp sex who have hinted ( even said in front of my friend when they know she is his gf) that they are interested in him and he has gone for these dates. She is obviously sad when he does that and he always confess what they do, go when he returns, so she usually believes him. Then recently she got to know another girl is interested in him and she dun mind he is attached, pestering him a lot. the girl called him out one night to "settle" their problem and he went out. Next day my friend found a hotel 81 receipt in his wallet... she was stunned but when ask him he say thats where he girl met him at to "settle" the matter, nothing happened... anybody believe? after all these things she still with him cos he loves her and she loves him... case of true love... * clap clap*
do u think she's stupid? -
when u in love u feel sweet
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some say its love , some say its fear
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it depend
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y she dun want to let go of him???
she knows all these yet she allow it to happen...she is indeed scared of losing him.....
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i feel that its her age, status, appearance etc... these factors are preventing her from doing so... when u 30+, no money, no looks, hard to find another lover la...
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true true,but sad lar...Originally posted by Axelheat755:i feel that its her age, status, appearance etc... these factors are preventing her from doing so... when u 30+, no money, no looks, hard to find another lover la...
no solution for this prob,only she can decide on herself i wish ur fren luck... -
go hotal 81 can go watch soccer what.. heard they got SCV one.. anyway. ur fren no money and that guy got???? ask ur fren to con all his money lah.. then got money already dump him lor
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wah liew.... when u go hotel with a girl, u can still concentrate on soccer meh? especially if the girl already say interested in u.... anyway what kind of ppl ask to meet at a hotel to "settle" problems one... mac-noh-ner cannot meh?Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):go hotal 81 can go watch soccer what.. heard they got SCV one.. anyway. ur fren no money and that guy got???? ask ur fren to con all his money lah.. then got money already dump him lor -
cannot meh?? i can leh.. watch while screwing lor. but concentrate one the soccer only lor. then just ram and ram and ram.....GOAL!!!!!!!! ole ole ole ole.....Originally posted by Axelheat755:wah liew.... when u go hotel with a girl, u can still concentrate on soccer meh? especially if the girl already say interested in u.... anyway what kind of ppl ask to meet at a hotel to "settle" problems one... mac-noh-ner cannot meh? -
the point is screwing la.. i dun care what u do while u screw be it watching soccer or bathing. hell u can eat and still screwOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):cannot meh?? i can leh.. watch while screwing lor. 
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He is like that one lar,screw screw screw....Originally posted by Axelheat755:the point is screwing la.. i dun care what u do while u screw be it watching soccer or bathing. hell u can eat and still screw -
hey hey hey.... i got watch soccer also one hor....Originally posted by amuletgurl:He is like that one lar,screw screw screw.... -
u mean after u screw or b4? or screw at half time?Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):hey hey hey.... i got watch soccer also one hor.... -
ALL THE TIME!!! haha...Originally posted by Axelheat755:u mean after u screw or b4? or screw at half time? -
yah, guys want 'Pee Qee and dua liap nee' means Cheap, Green and Big breast. when u no longer Qee (young) then very jialat....then Pee means the gal can support herself, u no $ then the guy must 'doh tiap lui', dats not very attractive to guys mah....regarding dua liap nee...if u got the beauty then ok loh...Originally posted by Axelheat755:i feel that its her age, status, appearance etc... these factors are preventing her from doing so... when u 30+, no money, no looks, hard to find another lover la... -
That's why they say Love is BLIND......
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just wanna know from the gals, if ur bf go out to have a fling but confess to u afterwards, when u forgive him?
Tan bai chong kuan, kang ju chong yan? -
Originally posted by Axelheat755:i got a good friend who is 30+ and her bf 20+. she is a divorcee, not very attractive not rich not slim. her bf is handsome, owns a shop, popular with girls. ( wow, Like a dream come true? ) anyway, i learned from other sources that the bf has gone out with another girl ( friend of my friend, pretty ) a few times when he was stilling dating my friend and he confessed that they only kissed and petted during these meetings (under the influence of alcohol, u believe?) my friend believe him and stood by him. For the past one year, he has a few dates from the opp sex who have hinted ( even said in front of my friend when they know she is his gf) that they are interested in him and he has gone for these dates. She is obviously sad when he does that and he always confess what they do, go when he returns, so she usually believes him. Then recently she got to know another girl is interested in him and she dun mind he is attached, pestering him a lot. the girl called him out one night to "settle" their problem and he went out. Next day my friend found a hotel 81 receipt in his wallet... she was stunned but when ask him he say thats where he girl met him at to "settle" the matter, nothing happened... anybody believe? after all these things she still with him cos he loves her and she loves him... case of true love... * clap clap*
do u think she's stupid?
She is not stupid; she is just not conscious about herself and what's happening to her and around her. Love is always mistaken for suffering; in her case, it is likely karmic in nature. Your latter post revealed reason why she didn't want to leave him - no money, no looks, etc and in fact, this is the very fact that speaks much about her current outlook of herself.
To allow one self to be taken advantage by your partner consciously is a quality outside love. Law of love revealed love as our mirror; it reflects exactly the elements that affect us in an mirror image. Like in this case - when she practices selective preception (chose the words her mind accepts and not the whole truth and analysis them) and chose to stick to such rubbish jerk because she knows she will never find someone good looking, rich, etc guy like him. This behavior reflects her inner soul - someone who felt that she could never deserve someone better and even if he had an affair with other woman - it's a 'birthright' and that guy knows her vulnerability and exploit them.
She stay because she is in love with her fantasy and deeply rooted by her poor love definition. There is no such thing as no time to find another lover - her mind refuse to accept that this man isn't a marriagable man and her past marriage history is likely be similiar. Merely Old lesson returning.
There is no point having a relationship with this man - She can't marry him because he will NEVER settle and mature anywhere this stage. More suffering if she were to remain and the most important - her torment will be in vain. Nothing will change.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
these are my feel on her problem, not what she told me. She never tell me these things. i get all these from another source close to her...
Your latter post revealed reason why she didn't want to leave him - no money, no looks, etc and in fact, this is the very fact that speaks much about her current outlook of herself.
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another thing to add: the guy knows his weakness for women and is trying to curb it ( so he says
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i would say he's not doing a good job
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she seems to b fooled... warn her...
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Originally posted by Axelheat755:these are my feel on her problem, not what she told me. She never tell me these things. i get all these from another source close to her...
another thing to add: the guy knows his weakness for women and is trying to curb it ( so he says )
i would say he's not doing a good job You know why she will not tell you? This is her psychological defense against reality; similar to the way ostrich hides their head in the sand, thinking that its pursuer is gone. Her mind is deluded by selective preception and to prevent psychological reinforement to tell her otherwise, she speaks very little about her relationship.
This trait also explains much about her inferior structure. A good relationship flares with pride with you speaks about them. Those that hush-hush are in fact the ones who have dark problems that they never want to see through.
She is the perfect victim for such man. Unless she gain wisdom, she will be a terrible victim of karmic love. Trust me, its more than words - to warn her and you probably have your words flowing in-and-out of her ears as quickly. You can try though, if you are her good friend. But seriously, I seen too much of such case.
P.S: To desire for true love - the very first law depends on who you chose as a partner. Under 9 Nine of Love - It is we, who choses our partner, not the other way around. To chose a partner that cannot bring us to greater heights spiritually, is destructive relationship.
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Good luck to ur friend...and I think she needs more than just luck...like...determination to dump this guy...Originally posted by Axelheat755:do u think she's stupid?
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just one thing i cant understand... why the guy dun initiate break-up even though he has offers from richer, much better looking woman. i think it is this point that is still keeping my friend on in this relationship even though it pains her so....
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i think that guy is using DDR4 ram, good for multi task w/o sacrificing performance on individual task.Originally posted by Axelheat755:the point is screwing la.. i dun care what u do while u screw be it watching soccer or bathing. hell u can eat and still screw