would you guys forgive..?

• chelseaduff11

  24 Jul 04, 00:40

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..
• cutecuteboy

  24 Jul 04, 01:43

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..

  Funny thing I just want to share.
  
  For guys: Forgive but not forget.
  For girls: Forget but never forgive.
  
  Wonder how true these 2 statements are??
• chelseaduff11

  24 Jul 04, 01:52

  I thought its more of the other way around. Girls forgive but for not forget whereas guys forget but for forgive.
• Axelheat755

  24 Jul 04, 02:07

  up to the person la...
  
  if he is the Kua Pua( Kan Por Hong Cheng) kind then he will forgive lor
  
  if not he sure remember for life...
• M©+square

  24 Jul 04, 05:43

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  up to the person la...
  
  if he is the Kua Pua( Kan Por Hong Cheng) kind then he will forgive lor
  
  if not he sure remember for life...

  Err....there are many factors to it.
  
  
• DXuan

  24 Jul 04, 08:49

  Strange I find this around. I just kana the same thing also. You know somehow when you love this person so much, but she still f***s around ur back. That feeling of knife driving through your heart not enough for her, she lagi best want to twist the knife. Somehow I want her back sibeh badly, I tried But if you really love her, forgive her. I quote my friend, "If you love a bird, let it go. If it is attached to you it would come flying back to you." Ya so forgive but can't let go
  
  Bottomline is you, is she worth the effort? Will she do it again? That depends how well you know her and how much you wanna risk again loh... Girls are everywhere... The right one will pop up someday...
• the Bear

  24 Jul 04, 09:34

  forgive...
  
  forgiveness... so you can move on..
  
  learn.. learn to cherish her when The One comes along.. someone whom you can trust so much that you'd believe her lies... even when she'll never ever lie to you
  
  forget? nah.. not really.. for in remembering, we learn
• freestyle

  24 Jul 04, 09:36

  for me it will be very hard to forgive, but i will try my best to.
  
  and if i really love a girl i will nvr let her go. Till the day she say she dont love me.
  
• Yunhaier

  24 Jul 04, 11:49

  Originally posted by freestyle:

  for me it will be very hard to forgive, but i will try my best to.
  
  and if i really love a girl i will nvr let her go. Till the day she say she dont love me.
  

  There are many times in love when you love someone, you have to let her go.
  
  Cheers
• foga

  24 Jul 04, 11:55

  X2
  
  if she's dating someone else behind my back, i take it tat i must have not done enough, perhaps i'm not really the one she love and she had found someone who loves her as much as she loves him.
  
  eventually , let love decide.
  
  

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..

• FireIce

  24 Jul 04, 12:13

  forgive, but not forget
  
  applies to both sexes
• chelseaduff11

  24 Jul 04, 13:02

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  There are many times in love when you love someone, you have to let her go.
  
  Cheers

  True enough, loving somebody simply means to ensure she's happy, even if you are not part of her happiness.
• SGpork

  24 Jul 04, 14:44

  very hard to forgive..
  
  but well..
  
  hard also must..
• Jazzytunez

  24 Jul 04, 14:51

  Originally posted by cutecuteboy:

  Funny thing I just want to share.
  
  For guys: Forgive but not forget.
  For girls: Forget but never forgive.
  
  Wonder how true these 2 statements are??

  Quite true leh.
  
  but then there is always an exception.
  
  Forgive and forget. Best.
• Joshua1975

  24 Jul 04, 17:50

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..

  maybe should ask how many guys will let that gal back after she left him for some time even when you are not seeing anyone now...
• icycold

  24 Jul 04, 21:18

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..

  I have been through the same thing too. I would say that one can forgive eventually, but will never forget. But after so many years, we are still rather good friends. So maybe it doesn't matter if you can forgive and forget, just don't let the bitterness or pain rule your life......
• FreeToFly

  24 Jul 04, 21:30

  Forgive, and move on. But pity her for having such character, and good luck to the new guy.
• frOst^~^nOva

  24 Jul 04, 22:03

  forgive, forget and move on. Everything happens for a reason.
• Imperfect

  25 Jul 04, 01:47

  Forgive... but not as easy to forget...
• mushigen

  25 Jul 04, 01:58

  I don't forgive and certainly will never forget!
  
  I don't forgive because she has strayed, and that is the ultimate form of betrayal.
  
  I'll never forget, 'cos I must be reminded of my mistake all the time.
• ~Lyn~

  26 Jul 04, 00:35

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:
  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me[b] i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..[/b]

  To me, to forgive is to forget abt it and nv rake up the past.. I juz learnt dat and it's definitely hard to do it..But wat's done can't be undone so might as well do urself a favour by letting it go. U'll feel happier.. juz my 2 cents worth..
• beige

  26 Jul 04, 01:39

  Originally posted by cutecuteboy:

  Funny thing I just want to share.
  
  For guys: Forgive but not forget.
  For girls: Forget but never forgive.
  
  Wonder how true these 2 statements are??

  tot shd be the other way round instead?
• beige

  26 Jul 04, 01:44

  Originally posted by chelseaduff11:

  just thought whether you guys will forgive if your girlfriend date some other guy behind your back and eventually left you for him?
  
  as for me i chose to forgive, but perhaps not forget..

  nopez. it's a very deep hurt. can nv forgive. guys love face and big ego.. if they find out their gf cheated on them, it's a goner for good.
• CaLaMinE^LoTion

  26 Jul 04, 11:38

  Originally posted by beige:

  nopez. it's a very deep hurt. can nv forgive. guys love face and big ego.. if they find out their gf cheated on them, it's a goner for good.

  ehh... u can choose nether forgive or forget... just do wat she did to u loh... go out with other gers behind her back...
  i'm just toking cock....
• hopy

  26 Jul 04, 11:39

  think will forgive but not forget