6 Years From NoW
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Hey guys, i jus found out the girl that i liked (and went steady 2 yrs back) have a guy chasing her..though i broke up w her already, i still bear some feelings for her..I told her joikingly that maybe in the nxt 4 years maybe we can be together or sth, she quipped back saying she and i will complain that we are going in loops and coming back to the same situation ie us being together..
*sighz* what shud i do? I told her i'l explore other possiblities but i will reserve a special place for her though, she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean..
In terms of war, i'm at a disadvantage cos i'm studying for my deg but the other guy is already working and my ex is gonna grad in a year..
Can i have some opinion here? My current stand is to let it take it's own course but yet i'm filled with admonition that i will lose her if i become passive..
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Think this way...Originally posted by Misogynist:Hey guys, i jus found out the girl that i liked (and went steady 2 yrs back) have a guy chasing her..though i broke up w her already, i still bear some feelings for her..I told her joikingly that maybe in the nxt 4 years maybe we can be together or sth, she quipped back saying she and i will complain that we are going in loops and coming back to the same situation ie us being together..
*sighz* what shud i do? I told her i'l explore other possiblities but i will reserve a special place for her though, she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean..
In terms of war, i'm at a disadvantage cos i'm studying for my deg but the other guy is already working and my ex is gonna grad in a year..
Can i have some opinion here? My current stand is to let it take it's own course but yet i'm filled with admonition that i will lose her if i become passive..
One day, you WILL create a biz empire of your own and she will be lamenting why she never chose you instead of some other ignorant bloke.
Brudder, I wouldn't like to use the phrase "There are many trees in the world" but I would say to you, you have a degree to pursue. Make this YOUR very best.
You have a chance to prove YOUR worth now. You dun need to prove your worth to her or compare to any guys beside her. If you want to compare, compare it to the very best you can find.
I am speaking from a has-gone-through-similar-stuff perspective.
And someday, you will find someone 100X better than this girl.
Dun get mad, get even.
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hello! pls wake up!... u got no stand! u n her already BROKE UP! if u really care for her so much, u wont have broken up. think of the reason why u 2 broke up in the 1st place. ur post give me the kind of feeling like u cant bare to see her with another guy, like she is a spare tyre.. if u got no OTHER possibilities, u will then give her chance to be with u AFTER 4 yrs...Originally posted by Misogynist:Hey guys, i jus found out the girl that i liked (and went steady 2 yrs back) have a guy chasing her..though i broke up w her already, i still bear some feelings for her..I told her joikingly that maybe in the nxt 4 years maybe we can be together or sth, she quipped back saying she and i will complain that we are going in loops and coming back to the same situation ie us being together..
*sighz* what shud i do? I told her i'l explore other possiblities but i will reserve a special place for her though, she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean..
In terms of war, i'm at a disadvantage cos i'm studying for my deg but the other guy is already working and my ex is gonna grad in a year..
Can i have some opinion here? My current stand is to let it take it's own course but yet i'm filled with admonition that i will lose her if i become passive..
*Sigh* stop dreaming n concentrate on ur studies
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Think your current stand is ok.. Just try to take things easy?Originally posted by Misogynist:Hey guys, i jus found out the girl that i liked (and went steady 2 yrs back) have a guy chasing her..though i broke up w her already, i still bear some feelings for her..I told her joikingly that maybe in the nxt 4 years maybe we can be together or sth, she quipped back saying she and i will complain that we are going in loops and coming back to the same situation ie us being together..
*sighz* what shud i do? I told her i'l explore other possiblities but i will reserve a special place for her though, she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean..
In terms of war, i'm at a disadvantage cos i'm studying for my deg but the other guy is already working and my ex is gonna grad in a year..
Can i have some opinion here? My current stand is to let it take it's own course but yet i'm filled with admonition that i will lose her if i become passive.. -
Maybe you should take your joke seriously.Originally posted by Misogynist:Hey guys, i jus found out the girl that i liked (and went steady 2 yrs back) have a guy chasing her..though i broke up w her already, i still bear some feelings for her..I told her joikingly that maybe in the nxt 4 years maybe we can be together or sth, she quipped back saying she and i will complain that we are going in loops and coming back to the same situation ie us being together..
*sighz* what shud i do? I told her i'l explore other possiblities but i will reserve a special place for her though, she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean..
In terms of war, i'm at a disadvantage cos i'm studying for my deg but the other guy is already working and my ex is gonna grad in a year..
Can i have some opinion here? My current stand is to let it take it's own course but yet i'm filled with admonition that i will lose her if i become passive..
Telling her you'll reserve a place in your heart will
- Give her a security blanket, you've let her know that no matter how much time it takes for you to wait. She can always come back.
- You're always a buddy that she could trust and lean onto whenever she faces problems, in her own r/s or any other.
- Probably, if she knows how to play 'it' well. she'll hit the soft core of your heart periodically to maintian your liking for her. eg. Calls/meets you to have heartfelt conversation
Conclusion: Her advantage.....
'she sorta agreed...what the hack does that mean.' - Her advantage, since you first offer your doors wide open even she didn't ask.
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Put her and yourself in KIV and after 4 years review this relationship if it's possible to work out.
It is wiser for you to maintain a outward search for other potientals then to wait and be pessimistic. If you really choose to be a 'good' man. You'll be at your own loss.
You may be facing a opponent and hence the insecurity.
I suggest that you should find your own activity and NOT be bothered but her and your 'rival'.
Let her know you have your busy schedule and also a good social life. Nothing beats being a guy with many options. That way, she knows she has competitors too. Will discuss this further next time.
But right now, you should let her be and seek for your own opportunities.
Being Passive is not the way to attraction - She might end up seein you as a soul-mate then potiental.
Gain more from talking to girls/ladies and listen to them. Bother to ask them sensitive questions about what they really want. Maybe your next relationship will not be far.
Meanwhile, take care.
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Guys...thanks for the replies..i guess she's the KIV case..i will definitely looking for others...
But i'm not jealous becasue there's another guy courting her..at least not entirely..I wish her all the best with this guy for i know to break my ex's defenses is like charging an almost impregnable bastion..
I'm alittle jealous yes...but it's already wearing off...i have this girl from my orientation grp in my uni who has a thing for me..but i guess girls are gonna be on hold for me..gonna beat the international students there and get the 1st class honours...MUG!!!
Really appreciate the peeps who replied and the peeps who maintain this forum.. It's my little peaceful corner in this mad mad world...
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So good life! Got people interested in you too!Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys...thanks for the replies..i guess she's the KIV case..i will definitely looking for others...
...i have this girl from my orientation grp in my uni who has a thing for me..but i guess girls are gonna be on hold for me..gonna beat the international students there and get the 1st class honours...MUG!!!
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Very good...Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys...thanks for the replies..i guess she's the KIV case..i will definitely looking for others...
But i'm not jealous becasue there's another guy courting her..at least not entirely..I wish her all the best with this guy for i know to break my ex's defenses is like charging an almost impregnable bastion..
I'm alittle jealous yes...but it's already wearing off...i have this girl from my orientation grp in my uni who has a thing for me..but i guess girls are gonna be on hold for me..gonna beat the international students there and get the 1st class honours...MUG!!!
Really appreciate the peeps who replied and the peeps who maintain this forum.. It's my little peaceful corner in this mad mad world...
Once again thanks!
A true man should be focused and concentrate on the LONG TERM plans.
If you are confident, you will portray the aura out and girls WILL flock to you.
Just dun get arrogant or snobbish.
You have a bright future.
You have a dream to catch, don't wait anymore.
Catch the train before it goes.
God bless you.
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Man..you guys are so darn sweet..guess if i ever need some companionship, i can find a temp fling..hahha