Advice Needed
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Hi all,
I just wana share my story and hope to hear some valuable advices. =)
Here goes, its a really short one:
Recently, i discovered i fell in love with a ger. Shes my classmate and we got along quite ok well as frens. I haven told her that i liked her but our common frens noe abt me liking her.
Recently, i put on msn a nick "pursuing someone". It was seen by her that day and she asked me who wa the one i was pursuing. I was stunned and duno how to reply. In the end, i replied "I duno how to tell u and I cant tell u yet" to her. After that, me haven been sleeping well cos I sort of scared she will avoid me if she found out the person was her. >.<
I do not know if she found out or if she know i had fallen for her. I just haf a bad feeling about it. So any advises or tots on the matter? Though it may be a small matter to some of u all, stil i would like ur opinions.
Thnx! -
Hey... Life is like flipping a coin... head or tail... Everything is 50% chances if you try... But if you don't try then it's only 0% to your story... So go for it, since you got nothing much to lose. Even if it's a big fat NO to you, she still will be a friend to you...
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The thing is she will avoid me. I am sure u dun wan to make ur fren or even someone u like avoid u like strangers rite?Originally posted by Ryen:Hey... Life is like flipping a coin... head or tail... Everything is 50% chances if you try... But if you don't try then it's only 0% to your story... So go for it, since you got nothing much to lose. Even if it's a big fat NO to you, she still will be a friend to you... 
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if she avoids you, that means she's not ready or she's not interested
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just ask...and make her yours. like wat croco does here
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C'mon... If she treasure the friendship and not ready for the relationship... then she wouldn't avoid you. Mature thinking, please... If she avoids you, this just means that she's not worthy to be friend with... easy...
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Learn to face failures in life... You 'll probably be facing alot more of them later on in your life...?Originally posted by setokaiba:Hi all,
I just wana share my story and hope to hear some valuable advices. =)
Here goes, its a really short one:
Recently, i discovered i fell in love with a ger. Shes my classmate and we got along quite ok well as frens. I haven told her that i liked her but our common frens noe abt me liking her.
Recently, i put on msn a nick "pursuing someone". It was seen by her that day and she asked me who wa the one i was pursuing. I was stunned and duno how to reply. In the end, i replied "I duno how to tell u and I cant tell u yet" to her. After that, me haven been sleeping well cos I sort of scared she will avoid me if she found out the person was her. >.<
I do not know if she found out or if she know i had fallen for her. I just haf a bad feeling about it. So any advises or tots on the matter? Though it may be a small matter to some of u all, stil i would like ur opinions.
Thnx!
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Since u are her classmate, very easy to indicate to her u like her eg helping her with homework, buying food for her during recess, taking opportunity to sit next to her, call her to chitchat etc. Be extra caring & sweet
She will get the hints. Then, see how she reacts. If she doesn't like u, she will avoid u. -
Originally posted by setokaiba:Hi all,
I just wana share my story and hope to hear some valuable advices. =)
Here goes, its a really short one:
Recently, i discovered i fell in love with a ger. Shes my classmate and we got along quite ok well as frens. I haven told her that i liked her but our common frens noe abt me liking her.
Recently, i put on msn a nick "pursuing someone". It was seen by her that day and she asked me who wa the one i was pursuing. I was stunned and duno how to reply. In the end, i replied "I duno how to tell u and I cant tell u yet" to her. After that, me haven been sleeping well cos I sort of scared she will avoid me if she found out the person was her. >.<
I do not know if she found out or if she know i had fallen for her. I just haf a bad feeling about it. So any advises or tots on the matter? Though it may be a small matter to some of u all, stil i would like ur opinions.
Thnx!
You are so much like a friend of mine; he used to go tootpid things like this just to attract attention and ended up repelling every single girl he had a crush on.
Your emotions craved so much to release all these hidden feelings, so either you release them all or have calculated wait. Doing things like this makes you lose ground in attempt to chase her, especially when you are trying to make her fall for you (not applicable if she has good feelings for you)
At least you didn't fell for your own blunder and make things worst. React normally and be your same self in her presence. Treat this like a small issue and act like one. Pray hope that it shouldn't be much of a problem.
Cheers