Is having a partner important in your life?....
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having a partner may be troublesome, but sometimes, you just hate to be alone...
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yes...... so ironic.Originally posted by Sever:having a partner may be troublesome, but sometimes, you just hate to be alone...
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if you always has this mindset of having another partner is rather troublesome it will always be..Originally posted by Sever:having a partner may be troublesome, but sometimes, you just hate to be alone...
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If both compromise each other.. dun be so possessive over certain things.. learn how to be considerate.. giving each other ample time and space to have their own private moments.. it will be fine..
Jealousy always lead to many kind of reasons and quarellings.. this is becos due to insecurity and trust and confidence in both parties and oso in the r/s itself... to strengthen it must always communicate.. be able to talk openly with your partner.. ppl always say it takes 2 hand to clap.. you can't solve the problem alone when it involved two.. you have to think of the other too..
Both were to lead happily.. then you won't even think that having a partner by your side is troublesome.. sometimes you may even feel better with them around.. at least there's always someone who you can trust and turn to..
CHeers..
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yes, i would love to have someone standing by my side when i am down or up. someone whom i can share my heart and things buried in me.
but i wun die if i dun have a partner de lar.
im used to being alone anyways. -
Guess all these depends greatly on fate and individuals. Some prefer not to have that special partner for life...
When fate has in store 4 u, u hav 2 accept it...... -
to hv n to hold, till death do us part... isn't tt so sweet n heart warming? so my ans to ur qns wld be a 'yes'
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I'm not dreaming at all. In fact, the person whom I described exists. If you never experienced it before, then I must say that he/she doesn't really love you or you probably haven't reached that stage yet.Originally posted by Qitai:Just don't dream too much. The person you describe may not be the same person you are going out with. Everyone has flaws and having a partner is not just about the goodies, be prepared for the bad side too.
By the way, I haven't highlight the bad side of having a partner is because the good side is so much overwhelming than the bad side. It is true that life and relationship has its own ups and downs, but it all comes down to how both of you overcome the downs together. -
For me, I will let it go...although I will be feeling upset inside. But if you really love that person, the past doesn't matters anymore. Cos even if you allow the past to bother you, it is never going to bring your relationship to the next level.Originally posted by Sever:so if you're in a situation where your partner cheats on you, yet you still have feelings for the person...
will you let go?
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Well... hope your partner feels the same way. And not everyone is as lucky as you because most of us have flaws. Flaws that your partner has to tolerate and live with it. The good match would have two person who do not mind each others flaw and can in fact help to polish each other up. The bad match will have one party constantly being annoyed by the other party's flaw. I have not experience or seen many relationship where there is no quarrels. Most just don't tell you unless you are very close to them.Originally posted by parn:I'm not dreaming at all. In fact, the person whom I described exists. If you never experienced it before, then I must say that he/she doesn't really love you or you probably haven't reached that stage yet.
By the way, I haven't highlight the bad side of having a partner is because the good side is so much overwhelming than the bad side. It is true that life and relationship has its own ups and downs, but it all comes down to how both of you overcome the downs together. -
hey falling in love hurts....
that's why they say falling...
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Grow old liao then would become FORGETFUL??Originally posted by audlenelee:can forgive, but can NEVER forget...
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BALANCE...Originally posted by Sever:having a partner may be troublesome, but sometimes, you just hate to be alone...
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but how many ppl can actually get that kinda balance?...
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more of like how many relationships liao then get a balance.Originally posted by Sever:but how many ppl can actually get that kinda balance?... -
Nope. Life of a singleton is happier.
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balance is hard to achieve....
i've been thinking about finding someone to settle down, but it just doesnt happen.
maybe it's cause my circle of friends is too small.....
and i'm not the type to go up to chicks and ask for numbers....
heh heh....
i've given up hope of looking....
just let things happen by itself...
some will call it fate,
other call it destiny.....
either way, i'll let the big guy up there decide who come to my life and brightens it up....
my life really needs some color.....
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bunny want me to help u find? hahahhaOriginally posted by hopy:to hv n to hold, till death do us part... isn't tt so sweet n heart warming? so my ans to ur qns wld be a 'yes' -
Its all bullshit to me. Singapore girls only likes to go for guys with money or power. The first time I gave a bracelet to a girl she didn't even wear it. Reject me outrite somemore. Then over heard her talking to a friend bout accepting a ride from a stranger in a BIG car. Ha Ha Ha. You think they will encourage you in bad times mei. Dream on. Probably wait till you got money before the "help" arrives. Lets face it. In Singapore. NO MONEY NO HONEY.
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Very true! Sg girls like to be with rascals! Then the girl try to change the rascal into a good guy! As if she can! I guess sg girls find good guys boring and unadventurous. If the girl kena hurt played out by the rascal, then she will seek comfort in the good guy. Once she already healed, she will date the rascal back! knn!Originally posted by Xenthar:Its all bullshit to me. Singapore girls only likes to go for guys with money or power. The first time I gave a bracelet to a girl she didn't even wear it. Reject me outrite somemore. Then over heard her talking to a friend bout accepting a ride from a stranger in a BIG car. Ha Ha Ha. You think they will encourage you in bad times mei. Dream on. Probably wait till you got money before the "help" arrives. Lets face it. In Singapore. NO MONEY NO HONEY. 
Some more sg girls very choosy. They expect guys to conform to them first rather to reciprocate/cooperate! Then they say "good guys are married or gay". knn!
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Of course it doesn't come easy... And balancing between personal life and your partner is but only one of the few things you should look out for in maintaining a relationship...? So how much easier do ya think it can get?Originally posted by Sever:but how many ppl can actually get that kinda balance?...
And life itself is a process of CHANGE... Balance is NOT a STATE but a CONSTANT EFFORT. It's just that the closer you get to equilibrium, the easier it should be to maintain it... Subjective to drastic external factors... That... Is when your foundation comes in... -
Don't stereotype...Originally posted by Xenthar:Its all bullshit to me. Singapore girls only likes to go for guys with money or power. The first time I gave a bracelet to a girl she didn't even wear it. Reject me outrite somemore. Then over heard her talking to a friend bout accepting a ride from a stranger in a BIG car. Ha Ha Ha. You think they will encourage you in bad times mei. Dream on. Probably wait till you got money before the "help" arrives. Lets face it. In Singapore. NO MONEY NO HONEY.
Then should I PRESUME that ALL Singaporean guys are people who simply STEREOTYPE people..? -
If thats the case, Singapore guys oso, think he got some money, den want super chio or cute gals, den always want girls to company him everywhere. Think buy lotsa gifts den can get girls den got better ones simply dump them and go for the chio-er gal. Den everyday action, always say sweet words just to make gal happy but dun really mean them. Guys always want someone weaker den them, inferior so they can feel superior. WTF is this!? When gal become more successful, den the guy feel inferior den will go for another gal le. Always look things on the surface de, never really know the person den go stead le. One end they say equal rights, on the other end, practicing something else.Originally posted by Xenthar:Its all bullshit to me. Singapore girls only likes to go for guys with money or power. The first time I gave a bracelet to a girl she didn't even wear it. Reject me outrite somemore. Then over heard her talking to a friend bout accepting a ride from a stranger in a BIG car. Ha Ha Ha. You think they will encourage you in bad times mei. Dream on. Probably wait till you got money before the "help" arrives. Lets face it. In Singapore. NO MONEY NO HONEY.
PS: Not my opinions hor. LOL. I'm a guy. -
agree with you cool
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Some of u expect the girl of your dreams to come to u. That will not happen.
U must go & socialise. Don't do it just to find gf/bf but to widen your network of friends.
Must be pro-active, don't stick to only a small circle of people.
If u go after the better looking ones, of course they are more choosy & materialistic, give the average looking ones a try
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No wonder Zhang Wuji's mother said that the prettier the women is the more she can't be trusted