Problem???

• monkeybusiness

  15 Aug 04, 23:13

  I m 21 tis yr but i dun hav any gf yet...
  Why?? Is there something wrong with me or wat? i dunno how to approach gals and can anyone provide any forms of help?
• blowfish

  15 Aug 04, 23:15

  don rush things... too rush will backfire one..
• ditzy

  15 Aug 04, 23:17

  My friend is 26 and still single, he ain't complaining. He got no history. No, he's not gay. Yes, he has charm.
• AngGuKuay

  15 Aug 04, 23:21

  Slowly ba.. sometimes the more u expect something... the more it wun happen... but need abit of luck and fate also... in the mean time.. just try to socialise more n widen ur circle of friends...
• wuming78

  15 Aug 04, 23:22

  Originally posted by monkeybusiness:

  I m 21 tis yr but i dun hav any gf yet...
  Why?? Is there something wrong with me or wat? i dunno how to approach gals and can anyone provide any forms of help?

  why do u think that not having a gf at the age of 21 means theres something wrong? is it cos of peer pressure? or ur parents hounding u? or some personal issue?
  
  anyway it certainly does not mean theres something wrong wif u for sure. but still, u may wish to consider ur social circle, whether u have been too introverted, the way u carry urself, etc. talk to close friends and seek their opinions lor..
  
  in the end, its not the end of the world not having a gf. not having one is definitely better than rushing into a relation and finding its not the right one for u
• BrUtUs

  15 Aug 04, 23:28

  relax la, 21 onli mah, got lotsa fren 25+ oso no gals... dun rush, jz go widen ur social circle...
• monkeybusiness

  16 Aug 04, 00:06

  Originally posted by wuming78:
  
  why do u think that not having a gf at the age of 21 means theres something wrong? is it cos of peer pressure? or ur parents hounding u? or some personal issue?[quote]
  
  I guess its probably due to peer pressure. Most of my frens hav gfs liao while I nvr even had 1 b4 in my life!!!

• CenturionMBT

  16 Aug 04, 00:23

  Hmm relax a little. If fate has it, you will find one crossing your path one day. So just be patient and wait.
• martin_lim85

  16 Aug 04, 00:29

  no more monkey business from now on relax lah time of getting a gf will come de
• BrUtUs

  16 Aug 04, 02:16

  dun get a gf jz for the sake of having it...
• I-like-flings(m)

  16 Aug 04, 02:19

  i also got no gal leh..... any gal want mi??? my dad nagging at mi already.. how??
• BrUtUs

  16 Aug 04, 02:23

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  i also got no gal leh..... any gal want mi??? my dad nagging at mi already.. how??

  ask him to intro u the girl next door...
• the.raven

  16 Aug 04, 02:29

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  i also got no gal leh..... any gal want mi??? my dad nagging at mi already.. how??

  i tot u got lots of flings?
• I-like-flings(m)

  16 Aug 04, 02:48

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  ask him to intro u the girl next door...

  ask who???
  
  

  Originally posted by the.raven:

  i tot u got lots of flings?

  got flings but no wife what...need a full time wife not.. not ONS u know
• gerrykoh

  16 Aug 04, 08:56

  If u are shy & don't know how to approach a girl, go for group outings. Ask for friends to recommend some girls, either that or join SDU, I'm sure they organise many activities
• wuming78

  16 Aug 04, 20:23

  Originally posted by monkeybusiness:

  [quote]Originally posted by wuming78:
  I guess its probably due to peer pressure. Most of my frens hav gfs liao while I nvr even had 1 b4 in my life!!!

  hm.. at ur age, im sure u r not abt to yield to peer pressure rite?
• 'm back

  16 Aug 04, 20:57

  Originally posted by monkeybusiness:

  I m 21 tis yr but i dun hav any gf yet...
  Why?? Is there something wrong with me or wat? i dunno how to approach gals and can anyone provide any forms of help?

  I AM ALREADY 30 YEARS OLD LIAO NO GF STILL VIRGIN MAN HAHAHA
  
  
  
  WHO SCARE WHO.....TORTISE SCARE HAMMER HAHAHA
  
  
• BrUtUs

  16 Aug 04, 21:58

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  ask who???
  

  ask ur dad lor...
• Kennerve

  16 Aug 04, 22:06

  Originally posted by monkeybusiness:

  I m 21 tis yr but i dun hav any gf yet...
  Why?? Is there something wrong with me or wat? i dunno how to approach gals and can anyone provide any forms of help?

  You dunno how to approach girls? That one cannot teach one leh.. All i can say is if you wanna noe a girl, don hum.. You hum, you miss your chance.. You never know who that girl is in the future for you.
  
  Don worry lar. ur age is not 12 or 80.. still young
• Yunhaier

  16 Aug 04, 23:39

  Originally posted by monkeybusiness:

  I m 21 tis yr but i dun hav any gf yet...
  Why?? Is there something wrong with me or wat? i dunno how to approach gals and can anyone provide any forms of help?

  Not having gf doesn't mean anything.
  
  BUT, you can learn to increase your pool of female friends by enlarging social circle and expand interests.
  
  Cheers