dunno right or wrong...
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having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls
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If he is your best friend, then u should be happy for him. Anyway she has made her choice.
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Originally posted by xi_guey:having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls 
A very blunt reply - for fark?
Love Eco-system works in such a way; you learn absolutely nothing by putting yourself back in the past. What do you and her stand to gain by shifting her position around people you know?
All is fair in love and war; you can chase but for what? You think he is going to let you in happily into their life without an 'battle'? And you think love is a trade? Cause he did this in the past, so you are calculating if it was 'ok' to return that?
P.S: If you spend as much effort to move on with life, you would have already moved far.
Cheers -
Let's wait IF and WHEN they break up huh. Then go and post dis question again.Originally posted by xi_guey:having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls -
It's hard not to think of someone especially if she's always around in ur life still.
She's ur frenz gf now and mayb U guys still mit each other in life often.... worst for you.
Try focus on other people instead ba. -
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"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us" - Helen Keller
A simple quote that makes so much sense.
If you don't move on, you will never know what lies ahead of you. -
Moving on towards chasing his girl back or moving on towards a new search?Originally posted by Faye Valentine:"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us" - Helen Keller
A simple quote that makes so much sense.
If you don't move on, you will never know what lies ahead of you.
I mean, sometimes this words of wisdom applies to both negative n positive thoughts, but it depends on the person how and why he/she wants to have it viewed right? -
errrr, u nv state clearly how they get together ? if they oni together after u n her break up i thk there's nothg wrong but if ur guy frd chased her would be different story...but since ur ex had made her choice n u shldn't "wasting" ur time thking tat they might be breaking up so u can chase her again, no pointing thking those thgs tat r not gg to happen..of coz sometimes u wil miss ur ex..everyone does..coz we r humans, having feelings therefore wil thk back thgs..well, dunlet this affects u..get on wif ur life, if u n her meant to be, both of u would..kbow wat, two of my ex-classmates in the end married to their ex recently, making a big round..well, so let thgs go naturely ! perhaps u shld get to know more gals n decide who is really ur life partner, did this help u ???
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I think what he meant was moving on in life, putting the past behind and focusing on the future. Helen Keller would have meant it the same way too: Despite the limitations, there are still room for opportunities. Just that one has to be vigilant enough to notice them.Originally posted by dirge:Moving on towards chasing his girl back or moving on towards a new search?
I mean, sometimes this words of wisdom applies to both negative n positive thoughts, but it depends on the person how and why he/she wants to have it viewed right? -
IF she really leaves ur best fren and goes back to u, she's gonna leave u one day for another guy again. It doesnt matter if that other guy will be ur best fren anot then. The thing is, is she worth keeping? can u make sure she's not gonna leave again?? Arent there more and better gers out there who will be more worthy of ur love?? ask yourself these questions.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
u din get the question... A very blunt reply - for fark?
Love Eco-system works in such a way; you learn absolutely nothing by putting yourself back in the past. What do you and her stand to gain by shifting her position around people you know?
All is fair in love and war; you can chase but for what? You think he is going to let you in happily into their life without an 'battle'? And you think love is a trade? Cause he did this in the past, so you are calculating if it was 'ok' to return that?
P.S: [b]If you spend as much effort to move on with life, you would have already moved far.
Cheers[/b] -
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10. Clitoral Blowjob. This is an advanced technique. Begin by sucking slowly on the clitoris, as if you were giving it a tiny blowjob. Slowly build up the level of sucking, and then follow up with a flick from your tongue now and then. When she's near her big O, make a swirling motion around the shaft of her clit. This one is guaranteed.
11. The Tongue Tube. Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it) around her clitoris and slide it back and forth. It's advanced tongue fucking. This style works best in a 69 position and will bring your woman to ecstasy.
12. Stimulating the Perineum. Also known as the "taint," the perineum is the skin between the vagina and the anus. Flicking long tongue strokes on this area can be highly arousing.
13. The Finger. Yes, the finger! Don't forget the finger. Use one or two digits to stroke the clitoris from base to top in each direction. You'll feel it get harder and harder as you go. You can also use your finger/s inside her bearded clam, but start slowly. Thrust your finger gently and do a "come here" motion to reach her G-spot. -
theres nothing wrong since she single, but the question is whether she will want u back anot...Originally posted by xi_guey:having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls -
Master the following cunnilingus techniques, and she'll be putty in your hands, er, tongueÂ…
1. The Flick (or Lapping at the Vagina.) A phenomenal technique for getting her warmed up is lapping your tongue across her lips. Try licking the labia and vagina up and down. Feel free to roam. Pretend you're licking your favorite ice cream on a hot summer day.
2. ABCs. Oral sex is as easy as spelling the alphabet. Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her box. This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions.
3. Use Your Saliva. This technique is pretty neat if you really have a problem with the taste. You can add your own spit and let it drip down to her love tunnel, making your tongue more slippery as you lick, suck, and nibble away.
4. Labial Hold. While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
5. Circling the Clit. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body so be very gentle in stimulating it. Find the base of the clit with your tongue, slowly circling the area. Rub both sides of the shaft of the clitoris with your tongue. You can also gently stimulate the head of the clitoris.
6. Figure 8. Use the tip of your tongue to draw the number 8 around her clit.
7. Sucking. Be very careful the first time you try sucking on a woman's clit. Remember not to use your teeth. Just be very gentle. If she likes it, repeat it. Lick it first before you give a soft suck. You'll get a reaction right away.
8. Jamming. With your lips placed on either side of her clit, jam your tongue downward repeatedly hitting the clit. Make sure you don't do it too hard.
9. Tongue Fucking. Harden your tongue and dip it into her muff. Wriggle it around if you can at the point of maximum penetration. You can vary the thrust and the speed.
10. Clitoral Blowjob. This is an advanced technique. Begin by sucking slowly on the clitoris, as if you were giving it a tiny blowjob. Slowly build up the level of sucking, and then follow up with a flick from your tongue now and then. When she's near her big O, make a swirling motion around the shaft of her clit. This one is guaranteed.
11. The Tongue Tube. Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it) around her clitoris and slide it back and forth. It's advanced tongue fucking. This style works best in a 69 position and will bring your woman to ecstasy.
12. Stimulating the Perineum. Also known as the "taint," the perineum is the skin between the vagina and the anus. Flicking long tongue strokes on this area can be highly arousing.
13. The Finger. Yes, the finger! Don't forget the finger. Use one or two digits to stroke the clitoris from base to top in each direction. You'll feel it get harder and harder as you go. You can also use your finger/s inside her bearded clam, but start slowly. Thrust your finger gently and do a "come here" motion to reach her G-spot. -
Nobody stands the right to blame anybody.Originally posted by xi_guey:having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls
One thing I do wan to say is that going to chase other ppl's gf is not a gd thing. It is a form of betrayal when the 2 of u are best frens. In the end only one will get hurt the most. However, if the relationship is over and shes in single status, theres no harm to try but do give ppl time to get over the past relationship.
And I think chasing back an ex-gf is not a gd idea. I dun understand y did u all break up in the 1st place and why do u miss her. It would be strange to miss her and i think u shldnt miss her cos she aready have a bf. Whats the point?
Missing will cause u misery and tendency u go break ppl up might arise.
Ppl aready attached for 3 years, so move on. Last point, in ur mind, get the idea of IF they break up out, its not good to "curse" ppl for ur own benefit. -
haha now still got pp reply.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Nobody stands the right to blame anybody.
One thing I do wan to say is that going to chase other ppl's gf is not a gd thing. It is a form of betrayal when the 2 of u are best frens. In the end only one will get hurt the most. However, if the relationship is over and shes in single status, theres no harm to try but do give ppl time to get over the past relationship.
And I think chasing back an ex-gf is not a gd idea. I dun understand y did u all break up in the 1st place and why do u miss her. It would be strange to miss her and i think u shldnt miss her cos she aready have a bf. Whats the point?
Missing will cause u misery and tendency u go break ppl up might arise.
Ppl aready attached for 3 years, so move on. Last point, in ur mind, get the idea of IF they break up out, its not good to "curse" ppl for ur own benefit.
missing someone is juz the feeling, dun need a reason de..
even given a chance for her to be single and likes me back i also wont be together with her le.. it is not nice for me to do stuff like that to my frene...
still missing here becos in the past i left her for another gal, she not at fault at all... so now see her back with my frene will start t miss her.. haizz
till now still misssing...wish her happy no matter wat. -
shuo de rong yi... zhuo de nan.... shuo er yi ma.... you bu hui sao yi kuai rou.....
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Originally posted by xi_guey:haha now still got pp reply.
missing someone is juz the feeling, dun need a reason de..
even given a chance for her to be single and likes me back i also wont be together with her le.. it is not nice for me to do stuff like that to my frene...
still missing here becos in the past i left her for another gal, she not at fault at all... so now see her back with my frene will start t miss her.. haizz
till now still misssing...wish her happy no matter wat.
Kaoz U post it up ask ppl for comments now come to say "stil got ppl reply" IF u dun wan ppl to comment, dun post it! 
IF u noe wat u want to do, then for fark did u post it here? -
i was juz surprise cos this thread was isolated for around one month already and suddenly got pp went to read and reply... if i dun wan anyone to reply,it will be u...such reply doesnt help and is also not needed...if i start a thread for fuk?the answer is to fuk u! _|_
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U had your chance.It didnt work out.Originally posted by xi_guey:having a problem: missing one of my ex gf who is now currently my best frene gf.. they have been together for 3 years liao. but i still keep missing her..
was thinking if they break up and i go and try to chase my ex gf back issit something wrong? will my frene blame me or feel gao wey?
cos he chase my ex i also nv gao wey, do he stand the right to blame me?
comments pls
Now its other people's chance.
Stay away.