SORRY
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means I totally owned you!! n00b!! I like totally uppercut u in the face!!Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:Dun understand
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To junk -- it's really a sad thing there though. i really don't know what to say, coz i've been in your "shoes" before and i know it's hard.
After i made that very choice, i know, my heart was full of regrets, same like you, but right now, i want to ask you personally.. (i'm not siding your side nor hers, just in case you're wondering). Will you stop hitting her and mend your ways after she come back to you, right at this very sec. ? will you? touch your heart and say it out loud.
To evelyn, yes, boys hitting girls are always the most scum thing that a boy would ever do. and it just totally throws a boys' face, which i experience it myself. so if possible, learn to forgive him, that's all.
Hope everything will be over, Junk,.. learn from your mistakes, same like i do.. and nobody's perfect. the only way to repent and redeem your sins is to change your temper..
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You're are scum to have beaten ur gf
If even in the eyes of strangers you are judge so badly
you better go buy more mirrors and reflect on yourself carefully
saying sorry after something happened is nothing but an excuse
an excuse to try and lessen your guilt all in an attempt to make urself feel better thats all
i hate gf/spouse abusers
gf/spouse are for emotional support not for physical abuse
i tink ur gf made a good choice to leave u before u actually kill or seriously injure her
and u should leave her alone, she suffered enough already
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Originally posted by evelyn21:ya....i should congrats him for successfully doing that...he said that i hurt him a lot by leaving him and he wanna take revenge on me, he has done it....i am so grateful to him for that...anyway he just wont understand why would i leave him after a 5 year plus relationship....
In all relationship; this has to be the worst - the one that learns nothing - not the one that employ physical abuse. Hey Junk, can you imagine if you ex-gf were to declare with full confidence that you learn absolutely nothing from WHY she left you and WHAT'S wrong with the relationship - you truely need to reflect deeply or seek professional help if you can't handle it yourself.
To Junk:
If you do employ sucide and death as measures to get back on ANY form of relationship only reveal your gnawing inferiority, lack of spiritual wisdom and a twisted form of emotional mindset. These three elements combine and fuel your inability to control your own emotions and when you experience anger - you lose your rational sense.
All the post you posted, focus on why you didn't love her more - when in fact, you need to dissolve your personality issue INSTEAD of habouring any form of relationship.
YOU CANNOT LEARN TO LOVE OTHERS IF YOU FAILED TO EVOLVE YOUR SOUL SPIRITUALLY AND MATURE. Mark my words, all future relationship will fail if you continue this way.
Evelyn made a decision to FORCE you to learn this theory - you pushed them aside and wanted her back - like lost toy to a child. Don't you see it? A break is essential for you to learn. Do you wish to see this effort put to waste? 5 years relationship - not even worth a cent in value? Please lar, at the very least, don't let other people depise you in relationship like what it is here. Stop walloping in self-pity and self-delusion. The very fact that you ended up in such a hell hole is because you don't even have the courage and willpower to improve yourself.
And you wanna talk about love? Please lar, don't make me laugh. How many people have I encountered who always talk so 'great' about their lost 'true love' and gotten so much ranting and violence? (Come Sunrise, tell them how many?
)Stop drama and start doing something concrete to improve yourself. If you farking want to die, go ahead - by the way ar, don't need to tell anyone. If you farking want to prove that this 5 years relationship is worth its every value - learn to learn and grow. If you want to live in your illusion and avoid reality - wOohOo, Evelyn, You MADE such a good choice - how can you expect a man like HIM to protect you? He can't even handle himself.
To Evelyn: Every relationship brings us somewhere and because of that, in return, we serve to bring people elsewhere simultaneously. Your intense relationship with him is based on two karmic possibilities:
Law of Polarity: Opposite end attracts.
Psychological: Mirror Law - relationship with others is in fact relationship with ourselves.
Learn to love yourself. Only then you will attract people who will care and treasure you.
Cheers -
i tink i should be qualified to F-CK YOU as i last time also beat my 5 yr ex-gf...i was very unreasonable,very easily jealousy come to me..my temper also not very good,worst still she had abortion 2 time...i ever post here lik u to seek help,tink Sis Yun can remember my post....Even my buddies also say i "Bastard"Very Chee Bye...."La Sup"
Mayb give u the benifit of the doubt,u mayb still not mature enough in thinking(no offence) therefore u may do things lik this...but still dun gv u the right to "Beat" & use "temper""Cannot control" as an excuse....den seek for 4gvness....
I DUN CARE how old r u since i dare to say you, but hope u be a better person from now on, learn from the failed relationship,(jus lik me,still learning)..Sometime dun cling on to the some1 tat already "sian" of you...mayb cos she had already tahan u for 5 yrs le...if i gal, i also dun wan my boi boi to beat me mah...1 thing i must say...U abit KNN,althought in past,i beat my ex but also never use full force,yet u can beat til she bleed....Tis i see already very Na Buay Puay Chee Bye
..U must remember 1 time, if u really wan to whack herGv her leson learnt can already,show authority, not beat till bleed....Where the person will use beat till blood 1...even i so Chee Bye also not lik you lea...
Mayb at tat point in time of beating, she may cry,look at you....ITS NOT THAT SHE SCARE OF YOU>>>>>>YOU ASSHOLE,SHE's thinking why the FARKING CHEE BYE the person she love for yrs beat her...UNDERSTAND!!!( [/color]I also learn this when my ex broke up wid me, she tel me this,which hurt me til today)
I not to start argue wid you...hope no offence & hope u wil learn & be a better person, jus tat i talking is lik tat...if u know hokkien,tis is for you"She may be "CHENG XIM" wid you now,but dun let her "BO XIM" wid you.....But from my point of view...4get it lah...Close This Chapter & move on...cos she is hurt by you & become sensitive & defencive tat's y she come here counter ur post...but again, its also indirectly show that she mind how ppl look at her ,scally u got chance--------------she can also dun "Hiu Lan" you at all...but from wat i see, u ppl know each other from her in real life so tat's why she is here to tell te "TRUTH" instead of letting her friends tink she is in the wrong...Dun act pity lah...CB,dare to do, dun so gay,even my ex leave me i also no need act PITYFULL lik you, if she believe u, trust you,Sorry will do...DUN act PITY. no Backbone...BE a "No See Coffin No Drop Tears" person...If i ur friend, i sure F u upside-down...some gals may be soft-hearted when u act pity but the memorie of UR BRUTAL SIDE is inside her mind...
IF I'm Her, i will NEVER NEVER KNN choose u again(FOR ME)..Sorry..but i meant it.....U wil understand in when u really did soul serching within urself & ask urself wat u did wrong.BUt i believe if there is LOVE wid GD FOUNDATION, there may be chance.....BUt u may never get back the lost love tat u wanted...
Ultimately BEATING is NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
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Evelyn, avoid boys like this.Originally posted by bo liao:I last time also beat my 5 yr ex-gf...i was very unreasonable,very easily jealousy come to me..my temper also not very good,worst still she had abortion 2 time...i ever post here lik u to seek help,tink Sis Yun can remember my post....Even my buddies also say i "Bastard"Very Chee Bye...."La Sup"
Mayb give u the benifit of the doubt,u mayb still not mature enough in thinking(no offence) therefore u may do things lik this...but still dun gv u the right to "Beat" & use "temper""Cannot control" as an excuse....den seek for 4gvness....
I dunno how old r u, but hope u be a better person from now on, learn from the failed relationship,(jus lik me,still learning)..Sometime dun cling on to the some1 tat already "sian" of you...mayb cos she had already tahan u for 5 yrs le...if i gal, i also dun wan my boi boi to beat me mah...1 thing i must say...U abit KNN,althought in past,i beat my ex but also never use full force,yet u can beat til she bleed....Tis i see already very ..U must remember 1 time, if u really wan to whack herGv her leson learnt can already,show authority, not beat till bleed....
Mayb at tat point in time of beating, she may cry,look at you....ITS NOT THAT SHE SCARE OF YOU>>>>>>YOU ASSHOLE,SHE's thinking why the FARKING CHEE BYE the person she love for yrs beat her...UNDERSTAND!!!( [/color]I also learn this when my ex broke up wid me, she tel me this,which hurt me til today)
I not to start argue wid you...hope no offence & hope u wil learn & be a better person, jus tat i talking is lik tat...if u know hokkien,tis is for you"She may be "CHENG XIM" wid you now,but dun let her "BO XIM" wid you.....But from my point of view...4get it lah...Close This Chapter & move on...cos she is hurt by you & become sensitive & defencive tat's y she come here counter ur post...but again, its also indirectly show that she mind how ppl look at her --------------she can also dun "Hiu Lan" you at all...
IF I'm Her, i will not choose u again..Sorry..but i meant it.....U wil understand in due time. -
Originally posted by Faye Valentine:Evelyn, avoid boys like this.
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Ai-yo..i not boi anymore liao la..i drive for few yrs liao lah..hahaha..mayb u r an auntie? so call me boy? hahah..no offence...But seriously...i feel personnelly tat ppl hv to fall deeply den they will change...somehow...Originally posted by Faye Valentine:Evelyn, avoid boys like this.
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My advice: all gals should not go for guys who beat ppl up.
Those guys who beat up their gf, i no respect ler
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what if the guy and the girl both practice kung fu and beat each other up?Originally posted by SnowFlag:My advice: all gals should not go for guys who beat ppl up.
Those guys who beat up their gf, i no respect ler I was fighting with a girl (for fun) but got owned very badly by her skills -
tt is a diff story liao.Originally posted by the.raven:what if the guy and the girl both practice kung fu and beat each other up? I was fighting with a girl (for fun) but got owned very badly by her skills -
so many stories...so confusingOriginally posted by SnowFlag:tt is a diff story liao. -
i dun think he would dare to say anymore abt wat else more had he done to me..before i came to this forum, he keep on posting abt how hurt he felt but nw, i guess he has no guts to reply back to any of our post in this topic anymore....guess he wont learn his lesson..he would still think that he is the most pitiful based on the sms tt he sent to me last nite..
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To practice selective preception; IMO, is the worst among all flaws.Originally posted by evelyn21:i dun think he would dare to say anymore abt wat else more had he done to me..before i came to this forum, he keep on posting abt how hurt he felt but nw, i guess he has no guts to reply back to any of our post in this topic anymore....guess he wont learn his lesson..he would still think that he is the most pitiful based on the sms tt he sent to me last nite..
If nothing can slap you back to reality and face the issue you hate personally, I doubt you will ever learn.
History will repeat.
Astrological mode: on Possible affliction in 12th house, self absorbed-concentrated birth chart formation, interception in 5th/7th house, heavy affliction between Venus and Mars and Neptune.
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you talking about urself? guess you didn't development much... mentally.Originally posted by bo liao:Ai-yo..i not boi anymore liao la..i drive for few yrs liao lah..hahaha..mayb u r an auntie? so call me boy? hahah..no offence...But seriously...i feel personnelly tat ppl hv to fall deeply den they will change...somehow...
i address you as a boy according to your post, not to your age. Its the mentality -
try to calm down and be normal friends first
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TMD! Zui qiao bu qi those guys dat whack gers...
Cannot solve probs dan mus resort 2 violence 2 resolve... ~PUI~
So, nxt time if kill ppl dan apologise can liao huh?!? -
Originally posted by evelyn21:
Wow.. junk, how can u ever be so cruel as to beat someone up and strangle someone? Especially so when the person is ur gd fren n wats more, a gal
u beat me thrice nt twice....and beat me till i bleed for 2 times....recently, you even strangle me till i vomit coz i dun wan to answer your question!! stop your crap about you cant control yourself la....so does it mean that you can continue to beat me using this excuse???
The worst thing is, after having went through so much with you, you still beat me up coz of your best fren, based on your assumption, you think that we had an afffair and beat me up.....u will never realise that we are just purely good friend...you dun trust him and me and you beat me up based on that...my parents have never done tt to me before and you beat me till i bleed.... 
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hmm, come on guys, it's no use using foul language in here. i mean, no use to "kan" him up and down after what's done.
To some, many of you don't understand the situation, so don't "kan" like you're something.
And to some, esp. Yunhaier, i do agree from your point of view.. in fact very much.
Forget it, junk, we understand how you feel after what has been done, but maybe it's a way or method to let you grow up. But say the truth, you're lucky to have a 5 year relationship.. but still, in this 5 year , you've learn nothing.. that i 've no comments on you. should i say you're hopeless, stupid.. or something like that? nah, i won't say it. coz one day you will learn to think for yourself and doing all those are wrong.
but right now, the only way out, break up is already break up. you want her to forgive you in some a short time, i find it quite impossible. right now, you're free, learn to calm yourself down.. and think.
you didn't acted pity, but what's feeling your heart is guilt.. and to others, this kind of things, sometimes we really find it hard to say. so don't just see people's wrong.. but reflect it to yourself as well.
Wrong is already wrong.. milk has been spilled.. can you re-filled it ? Can you mend the crack that's in her heart? Only you know, junk.
But the best to you, no next time, or else you're really no hope.. get the courage to admit it's your mistakes and stop telling everyone that you didn't do this and that before and why now and that.. coz it's O V 3 R . -
A relationship break-up requires both sides to re-evaluate themselves.
Shouldn't beat girl also , a girl is to be loved, not to be abused.
You may violate Singapore's Woman Charter.
Anyway, to at least recouncil, here's the recommended:
1. Swallow your pride
- The pride to think you're right in everything is an obstacle to to amend any broken friendship.
2. Apologise when you're wrong, even if you've also been wronged
- Well, somebody gotta start breaking that wall of ice before the whole friendship is destroyed.
3. See things from your friend's point of view
- Hey, what do you think if you have my character, my personality and the way I do things. What if you're in my shoes?
4. Accept that friendships can change
- We have different circles of friends. Especially when you don't meet one for a long time, friendships get more open. But you should be still connected as friends. Who wanna make more enemies? -
Orginally by the.raven
maybe the reason she broke off with you is the fact that you speak
without any commas like this and all you use is question mark which is very annoying? so when you speak she becomes very sianz and dun wanna listen cuz listening is very tiring and there is no breaks then sux? so maybe next time you try speaking with breaks okay and then maybe people will like u and her fren also like u and everyone also listen to u and then u can win her back? -
Initially i also tod this was a case of bad joke.. but lookin back at his previous postings, think this rely happened.Originally posted by evelyn21:i dun think he would dare to say anymore abt wat else more had he done to me..before i came to this forum, he keep on posting abt how hurt he felt but nw, i guess he has no guts to reply back to any of our post in this topic anymore....guess he wont learn his lesson..he would still think that he is the most pitiful based on the sms tt he sent to me last nite..
Think maybe he suffering from delusion .. gt a fren also like that. The whole world look down on him, but he still nv ponder over his mistakes & carried on life happily.
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Dunno lea...mentality mayb still jia lat ba..but tats bout 3 yrs back when i lay hands on my ex..after fell down FEB tis year,did some soul serching, became a better person..but stil learning...haha...Originally posted by Faye Valentine:you talking about urself? guess you didn't development much... mentally.
i address you as a boy according to your post, not to your age. Its the mentality -
i mean no offences.... guys... but i think we should just let her think now and see what she wants in life...
btw
Good luck in yr next relationship then.... just forget with this one and carry on with yr life... take care.... but just take yr time in choosing another one if it's come along again.... don't just jump straight in.... take care... cheers 
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Er.. Uncountable.. those i know and those i dunno.. think you can named out a whole lot of them!Originally posted by Yunhaier: In all relationship; this has to be the worst - the one that learns nothing - not the one that employ physical abuse. Hey Junk, can you imagine if you ex-gf were to declare with full confidence that you learn absolutely nothing from WHY she left you and WHAT'S wrong with the relationship - you truely need to reflect deeply or seek professional help if you can't handle it yourself.
To Junk:
If you do employ sucide and death as measures to get back on ANY form of relationship only reveal your gnawing inferiority, lack of spiritual wisdom and a twisted form of emotional mindset. These three elements combine and fuel your inability to control your own emotions and when you experience anger - you lose your rational sense.
All the post you posted, focus on why you didn't love her more - when in fact, you need to dissolve your personality issue INSTEAD of habouring any form of relationship.
YOU CANNOT LEARN TO LOVE OTHERS IF YOU FAILED TO EVOLVE YOUR SOUL SPIRITUALLY AND MATURE. Mark my words, all future relationship will fail if you continue this way.
Evelyn made a decision to FORCE you to learn this theory - you pushed them aside and wanted her back - like lost toy to a child. Don't you see it? A break is essential for you to learn. Do you wish to see this effort put to waste? 5 years relationship - not even worth a cent in value? Please lar, at the very least, don't let other people depise you in relationship like what it is here. Stop walloping in self-pity and self-delusion. The very fact that you ended up in such a hell hole is because you don't even have the courage and willpower to improve yourself.
And you wanna talk about love? Please lar, don't make me laugh. How many people have I encountered who always talk so 'great' about their lost 'true love' and gotten so much ranting and violence? (Come Sunrise, tell them how many? )Stop drama and start doing something concrete to improve yourself. If you farking want to die, go ahead - by the way ar, don't need to tell anyone. If you farking want to prove that this 5 years relationship is worth its every value - learn to learn and grow. [b]If you want to live in your illusion and avoid reality - wOohOo, Evelyn, You MADE such a good choice - how can you expect a man like HIM to protect you? He can't even handle himself.
To Evelyn: Every relationship brings us somewhere and because of that, in return, we serve to bring people elsewhere simultaneously. Your intense relationship with him is based on two karmic possibilities:
Law of Polarity: Opposite end attracts.
Psychological: Mirror Law - relationship with others is in fact relationship with ourselves.
Learn to love yourself. Only then you will attract people who will care and treasure you.
Cheers
People who always claim to die, commit sucide and blah blah.. You will still see them living in this world.. They will never dare to do it.. is jus saying.. They jus out to get sympathy and attention back.
Since now the truth is out, we know wat actually junk has done WRONG to evelyn.. which he din mention in his previous post.. Finally evelyn couldn't take it.. and expose all your wrong doings.. Do you feel remorse? Ashamed? Like wat many ppl has said.. you never learn anything from this relationship.. you didn't take immediate step to amend it.. 5 years of r/s.. she given you so many chances.. yet you dun cherish.. who on earth can TAHAN you for so long!! Now you lost her.. but still you wont repent your ways.. what's the point of having her back.. To let you beat her up again.. will you love her more and care for her more??
She made a choice and that is to chose to leave you.. She wants you to realise what's with you.. and what's wrong.. But nevertheless... she tried but you didn't.. even till now she's still helping you to get thru this sh|t.. She dun blame you.. she forgive.. why cant you be so magnamious as her... Yes, both are hurt.. but one is pyhsically and mentally.. the other is emotionally..
Well, after som many posts from ppl.. no matter how much we say you jus listen.. what need to be done is your action!!! Everyone make mistakes.. there's no perfection in this world.. if everything is so perfect, and goes your will.. wouldn't this world be so boring.. Learn and start afresh.. Maybe you guys still can friends..
Learn to let her go.. Learn to take care of yourself first before taking care of anyone.. Learn to forgive and forget.. Learn to TRUST your loved ones.. Give you and yourself more confidence and sercurity..
Cheers