Is it love or friendship?

• pete98

  19 Aug 04, 05:30

  I really enjoy talking to a particular girl at my workplace but I don't feel any strong passion for her like the girl who previously rejected me. However I do really missed her whenever she is on MC but I don't yearn for her presence like a lovestruck person. I like to around her and making her smile but It feels more like we are buddies whenever we chat and horseplay. She is pretty and likeable but there unlikely to be any relationship developing between us. I am really confused over my feelings over her.
• the Bear

  19 Aug 04, 05:34

  be her friend.. who knows? love may blossom...
  
  if not, heck! you've got a great friend
  
  love sometimes come to those who do not look for it..
  
  and is elusive to those who actively search it out..
• pete98

  19 Aug 04, 05:46

  I am already her friend I guess. Pity shes a malaysia and we are both being transfer to different department soon. Its rare to find a girl with whom I can talk to without turning into a red tomatoe. And its even rarer to find a lady click so well with me and be on frendly terms with me in less than a month(I am really shy around girls ). Hope the relationship lasted.
• the Bear

  19 Aug 04, 05:53

  will she be posted to another country?
  
  if not, ask her out for drinks, a movie, to hang out.. stuff like that
  
  sometimes, there are no reasons necessary to meet a friend, especially someone you are comfortable and relaxed with
  
  

  Originally posted by pete98:

  I am already her friend I guess. Pity shes a malaysia and we are both being transfer to different department soon. Its rare to find a girl with whom I can talk to without turning into a red tomatoe. And its even rarer to find a lady click so well with me and be on frendly terms with me in less than a month(I am really shy around girls ). Hope the relationship lasted.

• pete98

  19 Aug 04, 06:04

  Shes staying in Malaysia so thats the headache part. Should you ask her to come here or should you go there? Either way its going to be too complicated just to have a causal meetup with her. Shes currently working in Singapore but she does express her hope to become a air stewardess in Malaysia airline. If thats the case its going to get a lot more messy to even remain in contact with her. But I do hope that she does succeed in her air stewardess dream.
• the Bear

  19 Aug 04, 06:33

  that's good that you wish her the best and hope that her dreams come true
  
  it's hard but it's not overwhelming... uhh... where in malaysia? if just JB, can visit her often you know?
  
  well, i hope the best for the both of you.. friends or maybe even more
• pete98

  19 Aug 04, 06:56

  Thanks
• CyanSupra

  19 Aug 04, 12:08

  Go for it
• borgkilla

  19 Aug 04, 12:11

  be a buddy
  be a friend
  you never know it may grow into something else
• top-draw

  19 Aug 04, 12:42

  Before love,there's always friendship.
  
  
• Yunhaier

  20 Aug 04, 00:29

  Originally posted by pete98:

  I really enjoy talking to a particular girl at my workplace but I don't feel any strong passion for her like the girl who previously rejected me. However I do really missed her whenever she is on MC but I don't yearn for her presence like a lovestruck person. I like to around her and making her smile but It feels more like we are buddies whenever we chat and horseplay. She is pretty and likeable but there unlikely to be any relationship developing between us. I am really confused over my feelings over her.

  Mental frequency and Love is two different issue, although good mental frequency gives good vibes on relationship. In love astrology, harmonious aspects of Mercury contribute to good frequency and mental clicks.
  
  We often feel comfortable with a particular person. Let time discern if love is involved. Afterall, anything is possible on a good friendship basis - build that first and consider later.
  
  Cheers
• dream_ing

  21 Aug 04, 22:06

  Originally posted by pete98:

  I really enjoy talking to a particular girl at my workplace but I don't feel any strong passion for her like the girl who previously rejected me. However I do really missed her whenever she is on MC but I don't yearn for her presence like a lovestruck person. I like to around her and making her smile but It feels more like we are buddies whenever we chat and horseplay. She is pretty and likeable but there unlikely to be any relationship developing between us. I am really confused over my feelings over her.

  U can't lie to ur feelings, u obviously have a liking for her. Try to find out how she feels abt u. Hint to her or ask her close friends. Cos if u let her know ur feelings & she doesn't reciprocate, u may end up losing a gd friend.
• sgFish

  21 Aug 04, 23:47

  Originally posted by top-draw:

  Before love,there's always friendship.
  
  

  x2... go for it boy!
• ^starrs^

  24 Aug 04, 12:51

  ya friendships often blossom into love, let nature take its course. Dont let the distance between u hinder ur friendship with her or even ur feelings for her. If at one time u are strong and sure abt ur feelings and that u want to be more than just fren with her, u'll have to work harder. If u long for her deeply, u definitely wont mind the far distance and will go that extra mile to be with her. Believe that love conquers all.
  
  When u love each other, she's never far from u cos she was always on ur heart.